| Home | Get Advice | Register | Login | Mission | Support Forums | Articles | Videos | Resources | Volunteer | Donate | Contact Us |
|
||||||||||||||
| ||||||||||||||
 |
 |
You are not registered or have not logged in |
|
Hello guest! (Not a guest? Log in above!) As a guest on TeenHelp you are only able to use some of our site's features. By registering an account you will be able to enjoy unlimited access to our site, and will be able to:
Signing up is free, anonymous and will only take a few moments, so click here to register now! We hope you consider joining us and hope to see you around! |
| TeenHelp Features | |||
 |
|
 |
 |
| Search TeenHelpAdvanced |
 |
 |
|
|
Thread Tools | Search this Thread |
(#1 (permalink))
|
|
Happy Feet :hehe:
 I've been here a while ******** 
Name: Suvieeeeeeee
Age: 16
Gender: Female
Location: Very far away from here, beyond right and wrong, there is a place, you'll find me there........
Posts: 1,085
Join Date: January 9th 2011
|
September 29th 2011, 05:11 AM
If you haven't gotten over it yet, its about time. Don't let old stuff rule your life. You deserve better.
RESPONSIBILITY: You have to decide to take responsibility yourself. Decide that nobody can decide how you feel. This is only a way for you to give other people responsibility for how you feel - to victimize yourself (push responsibility for your life onto others). If you feel this bully still have power over you, think it over once more. What is this? Why is it? Why does it bother you after all this time? FEELINGS: Write down the feeling(s) you have. What are they? what was it that made you feel this? Does it matter as much today, or has the feelings changed? How would you like to feel? What can you do to feel this new way? Do you need anyone to help you? ACTION: Do what you have to do to feel this new way. It might be enough to take all you've written (above) and burn it sheet by sheet and decide to let it go. Each sheet burned is one step closer to letting go. Work your way towards the feeling you wish for. Throw the rock away. I know it sounds easier than it is. Letting go of old *** is hard work. Writing and processing is good because you spend the time, you think it over. Good luck! P.S.I copied it from somewhere. It is a very nice way of letting go. Feel free to add more ways  If you're not comfortable with fire or find it triggering, then you can tear the pages and flush them.  Spread "Jaadu ki Jhhappis" - The Magic HugsBuddy - 28th January 2012 HelpLINK Mentor - 20th March 2012 Why Me? Forum Moderator - 26th March 2012 Articles Team - 11th May 2012 Videos Officer - 13th May 2012 Its easier said that done BUT most of the great things wouldn't have ever been done if they hadn't been said first. Quote:
Rest in Peace Peter Warwick. <3 I'll miss you. |
|
|
|
1 user(s) liked this post or found it helpful.
|
|
(#2 (permalink))
|
|
same same, but different.
Outside, huh?
********** 
Name: Lou
Age: 21
Gender: Female
Location: ekam eveileb
Posts: 3,810
Join Date: January 6th 2009
|
Re: Getting over Bullying -
October 9th 2011, 11:40 AM
I reopened the thread to allow for everyone to look, and add to these ideas, so let's get spit balling people!
"Life is pain, anybody that says different is selling something" ~ Fezzik's Mother, The Princess Bride. ♥ "To die, would be an awfully big adventure."~ Peter Pan "Do not believe in anything simply because you have heard it. Do not believe in anything simply because it is spoken and rumoured by many. Do not believe in anything simply because it is found written in your religious books. Do not believe in anything merely on the authority of your teachers and elders. Do not believe in traditions because they have been handed down for many generations. But after observation and analysis, when you find that anything agrees with reason and is conducive to the good and benefit of one and all, then accept it and live up to it." ~ The Buddha 14-04-2010. R.R <3 |
|
|
|
|
| Bookmarks |
| Tags |
| bullying |
| Thread Tools | Search this Thread |
|
|
