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Peer Pressure and Bullying Social pressure can take many different forms, including intimidation, bullying and even physical attacks. If you feel you could be a victim or perpetrator (who wishes to stop) of bullying, talk about it here.

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Write A Letter To Your Bully Thread. - January 4th 2012, 02:36 PM

Write a letter to your bully on here.
Let them know what you really think about them.
Say how they affected you.
Tell them basically anything you've ever wanted them to know.

The point of this thread is to unleash negative emotions and move forward.<3

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Re: Write A Letter To Your Bully Thread. - January 4th 2012, 05:18 PM

I think this is a really good idea. I'll go ahead and start.

Dear bullies, regular or not,

A lot of my insecurities have come from you. I know I'm not perfect...far from it..but I don't need to be told. I don't need you to remind me there are things that people don't like about me. I don't need you to remind me that I don't look nice like you want people to. Tbh though, it's far from your business. If I look like this, what is it to you? It's not going to affect your day to day life if I don't like the ideal way is it? I doubt you will struggle to get out of bed, go to school, do your work, eat your breakfast, lunch and dinner, and go home and sleep again just because you don't like what I look like. Get over it.

A, you used to make me cry daily at school. What you did doesn't affect me anymore because I know I'm better than you are. After talking to you before, and you saying 'I weight X now', I know that all you care about is proving to me that you are no longer the same as me. You were bullied like I was, and now all you care about it making it known that you are thinner than I am now. Okay. Good for you. You lost the weight, that's good, I'm glad for you. But I don't care, because even if I'm not thin like you are, I'm a decent person. You're still a bully who lives in dream land. Have fun with that.

C. You are nothing to me anyway. You're younger than I am by years, and you're already on the right tracks for being a dick. Thanks for telling me very often that I don't look perfect. Thanks for picking on me in the most immature ways ever (honestly, you deserve a medal for that, your techniques are some of the stupidest and immature I've seen). Because of you, I'm genuinely scared to walk through the main school. I dread psychology because I'm over in main building where you are. Thanks for that. Thanks for adding to my insecurities and ultimately helping me become an anxious wreck. Less of a sarcastic thank you though, you have helped my experience in helping others. It made me realise that it doesn't make you strong to bully people, and it made me realise that I am stronger than you, or any other bully, ever will be - because I don't cave into the pressures of ruining another persons life. Instead, I'm here, modding this forum, and helping people who go through similar things to me. So, from the bottom of my heart, thank you for bullying me and making those comments, because I am stronger than ever before.

And to everyone else who's ever made a comment. It makes you a bully if you do it to more people. You may not spend your day loyally bullying me in particular, but it makes you a bully none the less. It hurts. It plays with my mind, and it plays with other peoples minds. I've gone through periods of time where I've been scared, actually scared, to go to school. I've avoided buses, and I've avoided people. I've become socially paranoid because I feel like anyone will say something. Give it up. It doesn't make you big to make someone else feel small, surprisingly. It makes you even smaller. Move on with your life. There are some people trying to make a difference...trying to make people happy - you're hindering it. You're causing pain. People hurt themselves because of you, people have DIED because of bullying. Please, give it up.

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Re: Write A Letter To Your Bully Thread. - January 4th 2012, 10:52 PM

HAHA!!! For me, this letter could go on forever... but, those people aren't even worth 2 words from my mouth. But, I would love to do this.

Dear Half of All Of My Middle School,

I hate you. You treat me like I'm worth nothing. You turn everyone against me that's not. And, made me dread school. I was crying cause I didn't want to go back. You're the reason why I'm stuck being homeschooled and moving. You're the reason why I'm so shy. Why I'm scare that everyone I meet.. won't like me or will judge me. I can't believe you did this to me. I was so alone. And, when I stood up to you.. apparently, it made me immature. But, ignoring you made me afraid of you. WHAT THE HELL DO YOU WANT FROM ME!?!? MAKE UP YOU F*CKING MIND.!!

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Re: Write A Letter To Your Bully Thread. - January 5th 2012, 01:23 AM

I tried to make mine as quick as possible..


Dear Bullies,
Most of you don’t like me based on my sexuality, Most of you don’t know me very well or at all. But all of you made me feel like complete shit everyday. I’ve wanted to die since 5th grade because of you, I cut on a daily basis thanks to you. I know all I have many, many faults, But what gives you the right to point all of these out. You don’t think I already know all of this? I do. I’ve been aware of it my whole life thanks to my “brilliant” family. This of course doesn’t matter to you because I’m a worthless piece of shit, right? Countless days I haven’t come to school being to afraid, or coming home crying because no one likes me, and for what? Because I have the capability to love anyone. As much pain as you’ve caused me I refuse to hate you, Hate is what put me where I am now. I would never wish that upon anyone. I truly hope you can resolve your personal issues so you won’t feel the need to hurt anyone else.

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Re: Write A Letter To Your Bully Thread. - January 5th 2012, 12:16 PM

Dear bullies; the past and the present,

I really hope that one day you'll respect people for their differences and not torment them over it; I hope that you learn the simple thing of HOW to respect people and be polite to them. You may also find that it'll hit you back in the face one day. Just wait for it to come.

I hope you had your fun, taking a photo and videoing me on the toilet, and then sending it to everybody at school. From that day, I hated it. I was just in Year 7. I faced all of you, everyday. I faced and laughed with you as you called me the name that you knew me as, but really; I was torn inside. Remember the first days where you started throwing me against the wall?, you made me feel worthless and small, in the end I gave up, because I thought it was normal. Did you have fun with your mates when one minute you were my friend, talking to me on MSN; then the next sending me threats? Yeah, I enjoyed that too; that's the reason I was scared to go to school the next day, sitting alone in the toilet, because I was LONELY.

Now, you belittle me; you make me feel so small and make my current problems much more worse. I go into the toilets, I stand there for a long time, making myself fit in, but I just can't. You give me dirty looks and glare at me whilst I do my hair, whilst I do my make-up and it's just never good enough. You encourage me to starve myself until I'm thin and you're partly the reason why I am who I am right now, hating myself.

If you knew how your actions and mouths affect people then maybe you'd stop. If you're so perfect, why are you horrible to people? Why do you hurt people? I'll tell you one thing, you're ugly compared to me. Leave me alone, you're never going to be perfect, your personality is evil.

I'll wash my hands of you,

That is all I have to say.


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Re: Write A Letter To Your Bully Thread. - January 5th 2012, 06:05 PM

Dear Miss(last name)
You were my teacher and an adult, I was only 8 and my life had just been basically turned upside down. The last thing I needed was the emotional abuse that you subjected me to on a daily basis. And yes it was abuse, no matter what you say or believe. The damage you inflicted lasted 15 years, destroyed my little bit of self esteem and I somehow allowed it to deprive me of my right to self-confidence. I used to have dreams most nights where I would give you what you deserved and then wake up and realize that it hadn't really happened. I'm still working on undoing and working through everything you did to me. My hope is eiher that my last assignment opened your eyes to what you were doing, I imagined everything (even though I know I didn't), or that I'm the only one you ever treated that way because I know you're still teaching and the idea that you're doing this to someone else makes me sick

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I have vison problems that cannot be fixed which is why I was so uncoordinated and exercise induced asthma so when I said I couldn't breathe, especially while running I wasn't just out of shape I was dealing with an untreated medical condition! I understand that you didn't know that at the time, but you criticized me and yelled at me for not trying hard enough when I was doing the best I could. How dare you treat me that way. Of course it was a catch 22; the more you got on my case, the worse I did because I had lost all faith in my ability to even try figuring that it didn't matter how hard I tried or how well I did, you would be on me no matter what. The damage you inflicted was causing problems until about a year ago, but I think I'm finally over it.

And to Mrs.(last name) yes I failed your class while everyone else was Acing it, that did not give you the right to single me out and give me hell in front of everyone when I wasn't the only one doing something wrong. I was dealing with depression which your actions DIrectly contributed to.

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Re: Write A Letter To Your Bully Thread. - January 5th 2012, 06:42 PM

Dear bullies,

I remember everything you've ever done to me. I remember sitting in music class when I was just 11 years old, you pushed me over because I was in your spot on the carpet and you told me I was fat and was taking up half the carpet. That wasn't even true. I was the skinniest girl in the class. Why did you make me feel so worthless and ugly? You found out I kissed a girl and you made fun of me and said I was a curly q. Screw you, I like who I like and you can't hurt me anymore.

When I had to switch schools because I moved to a new state, you guys at the new school called me ugly and made fun of me because i was smart. While the old bullies were making death threats at me online because i just wanted a true friend.

I was looking for a new start in high school, I didnt get it. I was teased by you and your possy because i was smart and I was uninterested in your drugs. Oh and then you took Js side when I was abused by him. Told me id be a bad mom and it was a good thing i miscarried? Mhm. YOU are clueless and I know what I would've been. You are not going to make an impact on me anymore.

You are the bullies and you are the ones who are going to work at a fast food joint for the rest of your life while I make something of myself and become a doctor. You made my life hell but I know that I am beautiful and though im not the skinniest, I am good enough and I will get somewhere in life. No words from you will hurt me or make me hurt myself anymore. Never again.

I'm not the ugly one, you are for treating me the way you did and I hope someday karma bites you in the ass.

...Brittany, the girl who WILL get further than you and who IS more beautiful than you ever will be.


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Re: Write A Letter To Your Bully Thread. - January 6th 2012, 02:54 AM

Dear bullies,

How are all of you doing these days? On drugs? Drinking all the time? Flunking out of college? Running from the cops? Sitting in jail? That's where all of you were headed when I last saw you a little over 4 years ago. You all beat me. You all kicked me. You all caused the depression I struggled with for 3 years. You all pounded it into me that I was hideous and would never be loved. To this, I have something to say that you may find strange.

Thank you.

You see, if you all hadn't put me through a living hell every day of my life, my parents wouldn't have moved to the country with me and I wouldn't be sharing my life with the amazing man I love. I wouldn't have all the incredible friends I have now and I wouldn't be loved by everyone around me. Funny how things work, isn't it?

I also wouldn't have started art. I drew the characters that I came up with in my head to get away from the pain of all your bullying. I ended up writing a story and drawing out all the characters, practicing my art more and more. Over the years, I've become a great artist. I've had my work displayed in a museum, I've performed onstage at competitions, I've won trophies and awards for all my artwork. I wouldn't be the artist I am now if it weren't for all of your hatred.

True, I have lasting scars. They'll probably never go away. I'll never forget being mercilessly beaten by groups of you because you were all too afraid to fight me without your lackeys there to back you up and help you lie your way out. I'll never forget those daily death threats. I'll never forget my head being slammed into my locker nearly every day. I'll never forget eating alone every day. I'll never forget what you did to me.

Even though I have lasting scars, the love from my friends and especially from my boyfriend is managing to help them fade. My boyfriend tells me daily that I'm beautiful, while you told me daily I was ugly. My boyfriend tells me he loves me every day, while you told me to die every day. My boyfriend's arms are gentle and make me feel safe, while your arms beat me and made me afraid of everyone around me. My boyfriend protects me from people like you. As long as I have him and the love of all my other friends, I'll never be a victim of your evil again.

Sincerely, Haru (or as you may remember me, stupid piece of shit who needs to die.)


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Re: Write A Letter To Your Bully Thread. - January 9th 2012, 01:42 AM

Dear J, N, D, D, and A,

I'm grouping you all together because I've learned that's all you'll ever be in my eyes. None of you will have minds separate enough to be individuals. I'll never forget the day you wrote "whore" all over my car. I didn't have water or anything to wipe it off. I had to drive home with that. I remember how I thought you all were my best friends. How you of all people wouldn't be the ones to judge me. I remember holding 3 of you when you cried. And I remember you having the audacity to betray me.

I wanna say that you scarred me, but I guess you didn't mean enough to me to do that. You embarrassed me and made me feel unloved, but all you'll ever be is a bad memory. There's a difference between letting go of pain and forgiveness, so thank you for teaching me that.



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Re: Write A Letter To Your Bully Thread. - January 9th 2012, 02:10 AM

I have mine on a document, I am writing it slowly everyday...it will get posted...


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Re: Write A Letter To Your Bully Thread. - January 9th 2012, 02:33 AM

Dear bullies,

You have scarred me for life. I just love it how you treated me like shit, when I had done nothing but be nice to all of you. But what I find most amusing, is how you think little to none of how your words affect people. Why, of course it doesn't hurt people! It didn't hurt me at all when you started rumors, called me names, tripped me, threw things at me, and stabbed me in the back. Think again. Your words put me in a mental hospital. Your words caused me to slice open my own skin. Your words made me want to die. So, thank you, for destroying over a year of life I can never relive. My self-esteem still suffers because of all of you. But it's been a year since then, you probably don't even remember any of that. You don't know why I was gone for two weeks; so you all just went along with all of the rumors started about me. But, you know what? I forgive you all. I forgive you for making my life so bad, I thought hell would be better. I forgive for all the suffering and pain you caused me. For all the scars imprinted on my skin and my soul forever. I forgive you because it's my nature to forgive, and it only hurts me to hold a grudge against you. But I won't forget. I will never forget every single word you said to me. Every single thing you have done to me, I will never forget.
Even though I'm better, remembering what you all said and did is like needles in the heart. I never go a day without thinking about it. Your bullying has had so many long-term affects on me... but, I'll save you the time and not name every single one. But a huge one? I can't trust. I have been betrayed by so many fucking people, I cannot trust anyone. No one, at all. I think every single person is going to stab me in the back if I let out one secret.
I hope you know you are all pathetic. I'm a loser? Take a look in the mirror. Because yes, making a person contemplate suicide is sooo cool! Karma is a bitch. I hope this comes back to haunt you someday. I would tell you all to grow up, but that won't happen until you're about 60 years old.
You aren't worth my time anymore. I'm stronger and won't take crap from you anymore, so remember that.
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Re: Write A Letter To Your Bully Thread. - January 9th 2012, 01:55 PM

Dear Bullies.
Why did you pick on me every day all through school. You got your little gang together and picked on me day in day out, continuously. You pushed me into bins, stole my money, stole my things. Wound me up, spread rumours about me. I ended up hiding in the library and learning support room because of you and when those places were shut I hid behind the sports ramp with my friend to just get away from you. But where I ever went you were there.
I can't forgive you for what you put me through, you then continued in college. Though F I forgive you, you did something that I didn't expect you to do. When you found out about my dad, you stopped picking on me , you told my tutor , you tried to get me help. We're now friends. You started to worry about me and tried to help me. Thank you F.
As for the rest of you I can't forgive you and I never will. You hurt me. You destroyed me, you had your fun with me, thats all I was to you someone you could pick on for fun. Nothing more, nothing less.




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Thumbs up Re: Write A Letter To Your Bully Thread. - January 9th 2012, 10:31 PM

Dear Bullies...

I just want to thank you, because you made me a stronger and also, more aware person. And, I just want to let you know that I forgive you. I've always wondered why I was a target for bullies. I guess I was just too sensitive. But, it was NEVER my fault, and I didn't deserve any of it. I pity you, because I can tell you are a tortured soul. You're insecure, lonely, scared... I won't pretend I was your only victim. You've hurt countless people in our school, including some of my friends, who knows who else. But, unlike you, I was mature enough to let go of the anger, grow up, and see you for who you truly are - someone in deep pain. And pain, it spreads like wildfire, doesn't it? Because you caused me pain, and everyone else pain, and who knows how far it spread? You've woven a web of pain around our school.

I truly feel bad for you. You're negativity has made you loose all of your friends, and no one wants to be around you. How does that make you feel? I would say you deserve it, but I don't believe that. I just think that people bring what they get, onto themselves, most of the time. After graduating this year, I will likely never see you again. I hope you enjoy your life the way you're living it. I just hope that one day you grow up and look yourself in the mirror and realize what a monster you've become. I hope you stop being so insecure, negative, and cruel. You cannot get through life by pushing people around like you do. You can, I guess... but it won't be a very fulfilling one. You will just end up dying alone. But, truly, thank you. Now that I've been bullied myself, I can feel even greater sympathy towards others who have been bullied and will be able to reach my hand out even further to them. I will never bully anyone - ever - because I know how much it hurt. And boy did it hurt, A LOT.

Because of you (and every other bully I've encountered) - for the rest of my life, I'm going to be kind to everyone I meet, for we're all fighting a hard battle. So, thanks, and enjoy your life. Goodbye.
   
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Re: Write A Letter To Your Bully Thread. - January 10th 2012, 02:52 AM

Dear bullies,

Why? Why did you feel the need to hurt me like you did? I'm not saying that in an accusatory way. I'm genuinely curious. Why? Okay, I'll admit I was an easy target. I was extremely quiet and almost always alone. That doesn't explain why. Was it fun? Did it cheer you up? I bet your friends thought you were pretty funny.

Well while you were improving your social status and enjoying yourself at my expense, you were making my life horrible. What did I ever do to you? Did you ever stop to wonder what effect you might have been having on me? Do you ever feel guilty? Probably not.

Considering how little you think about it why am I still letting myself be affected by your words? So this is goodbye.


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Re: Write A Letter To Your Bully Thread. - January 10th 2012, 08:48 PM

Dear Bullies,

You're not worth any of my time to write you a letter full of my damaged emotions because you obviously don't care about that anyway, so simply put........FUCK YOU ALL!


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Re: Write A Letter To Your Bully Thread. - January 11th 2012, 11:28 AM

I'm not even gonna address you, it'd be showing more respect than you deserve. All of you, every single one of you, sucks. It's ironic that not one of you has job, or any chances of even getting a decent one, after acting for so long like you're better than me. I know, you'l probably blame the immigrants for it like they all do.

It seems you don't move on. We're adults (in theory), and you still hold onto some bullshit from 5,6 even 7 years ago. It's satisfying watching you rot away in your shithole apartment block.

Anyway, I've moved on, but I won't show leniency to any of you. If you approach me aggressively, ever again, come near my house, throw a bottle, smash a window, or anything like it, you'l be lucky if I go to the police and you get locked up for it. It's good, you've been behaving yourselves, keep it that way.

You threw shit at me, I took it, rubbed it in your face and shoved it down your throat till you chocked on it. What did you think I should do? What would you do in my place?

Anyway, I can throw my feet up, stretch out with an arrogant grin on my face, knowing that you won't get a half decent job because of me. Flipping burgers at best for a minimum wage. I like to think I've ruined your life. I hope you read this. lol. That would be golden. You only have yourself to blame. So you can get depressed on your guilt trip, and go kill yourself like you told me to do. Haha.

Again though, don't even come near me. If you have some anger you need to take out, it'd be better for your health to shoot yourself in the foot. You know me well enough by now, and you know I'll very likely get away with it. There's nothing you can do. You're like the dogshit in the street, people don't even want to step on you pathetic fucks. No sympathy... until I hear from you, yourself that you're sorry for everything from the beginning, from trying to set my house on fire, breaking into my parents' car, chasing me around the nieghbourhood and generally pissing me off, vandalising, intimidating, threatening.

That was therapeutic.


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Re: Write A Letter To Your Bully Thread. - January 13th 2012, 12:15 AM

To you, you know who you are; I'm standing by my word. I'm not the cowardly, silent girl you always knew. I've found my voice and it's pretty damn loud. You push me, I'm going to push back. I told over 200 of my peers at the leadership summit that I will never allow anyone to walk all over me again, not like I always have. Your pathetic attempts at belittling me just make me laugh, because you know what I've finally realized? I'm the bigger person because I haven't stooped to your level. I don't find joy in telling insecure girls, or anyone, that they'll fat. I don't find joy in calling people "homo", "fag", or "dyke". I don't find joy in seeing pain in someone's eyes, and that's something you'll never find in mine again. Push me, just watch, this shy, timid little girl has learned how to push back.

To you, you know who you are; you will never hit me again. I might not hit back, but I'll walk away. I'll leave and I'm not afraid of doing so anymore. Now I know, those bruises you left on me, those words you said, all the times you hit me, I didn't deserve it. Now we have none of the same classes, and every time I see you, you're happy, you hug me and we talk. And if you ever hit me again, I won't hesitate, I will tell someone. I will protect myself.

To you, you know who you are; I went home crying because of you for the first time when I was six years old. That happened so often and nothing was ever done. You won't stop your shit now, but I don't care. I'm smarter than you, I have real friends, I might not be pretty like you are, but at least I'm not a plastic. I'll never cry again because of you. Your words can't hurt me anymore.

To you, you know who you are; your threats mean nothing. I learned long ago that they're empty, but I always feared them. I have enough people to protect me, I can protect myself. Grow up and find a target your own size.

To you, you know who you are; next time you push me in the hallway and say those terrible words, next time you tell me that I'm a dirty homo who should die and go to hell, I'm going to protect myself. And I promise you, if those guys from my English class see you do that again, they're going to carry out the promise they made to you.

To you, to all of you who know who you are; I've found my voice, and I'm damned loud. Push me, I'm pushing back. You have no control over me anymore.


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Re: Write A Letter To Your Bully Thread. - January 13th 2012, 12:11 PM

Dear___,

You all tried to bring me down, but it has made me who I am today. And I look back and see how much I've grown since then. You all made me learn how to tune out people, and how to solve problems on my own. You've also taught me that there are still people out there who are more insecure as me. Know who those people are? You.
Its pathetic that you have to make remarks on someone else just to make yourself appear better. Too bad it does the opposite. You're only going to lose trust, respect, and friendship. You really don't gain anything from this. Maybe that will teach you a lesson as well?

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Re: Write A Letter To Your Bully Thread. - January 26th 2012, 01:45 PM

Dear Bullies,
I wish it hadn't taken me this long to remember the way you treated me. I wish my counselor hadn't had to drag it out of me because I forced it into a little box and forgot about it. But, you broke me at an early age. I've always thought that my self-esteem issues stemmed from my parents. Nope. They stemmed from you and your little games. How would you feel right now if you knew that you caused a 7 year old girl to feel unworthy and slightly suicidal? How would you feel if you knew that the same 7 year old girl cuts herself, gets herself into bad relationships to feel loved, and has thought about killing herself since then? This is what you did to me. I was too naive to really understand it then. I locked it up and threw away the key to stop myself from remembering it. But, it's out now and I hate you. I never deserved to feel like that. Ever. No one does.



   
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Re: Write A Letter To Your Bully Thread. - January 27th 2012, 03:37 AM

Dear J,

For years, I thought you ruined my life. You made me lose friends, you made people think I was someone I wasn't, you ruined school for me, you even physically hurt me sometimes. I HATED you. Now I see, I love my life. I love how it's ended up. But I hate the road I took to get here. I forgave you a couple years ago, not that you'd ever hear about it. I don't think you'll ever realize how much pain you caused me. I literally cried myself to sleep almost every night throughout school. I recently saw you at a pet store where you work. We didn't acknowledge we knew each other, but I knew you recognized me from how you kept looking at me. It's weird thinking you're married & stuff now, when you seemed to be the school druggie a few years ago. I feel okay now. Seeing how you moved on & I moved on. I'm at peace.

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Re: Write A Letter To Your Bully Thread. - January 27th 2012, 09:23 PM

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Re: Write A Letter To Your Bully Thread. - January 27th 2012, 10:00 PM

Dear Bullies.
I know that a lot of this, you'd claim that I'm too sensitive and that what I say, are lies, but fuck you. Did any of you ever think I needed that? Needed to spend minutes, hours, nights, crying? Was that what you wanted? did you want me to die? I didn't. I'm still alive.
I remember being called all those hurtful things, I remember everything, every feeling, every cry. I KNOW I'm fat, and hairy, and unattractive, so did you really need to bring it up? Why couldn't you ever let me feel beautiful?

Did you know, it wasn't always you guys bullying me on the bus? It was my friends, my family, my classmates, people I never did anything to. I'm broken, because of it. I don't know what happiness really feels like anymore. I don't know what it feels like to belong because of this.

Did you know, right now my mom is chidding me because I'm not perfect? That I LIVE with that? Everyday. Bullying. From you, as peers, to my family, as me not being good enough.


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Re: Write A Letter To Your Bully Thread. - January 30th 2012, 02:02 AM

Dear (name),
We knew each other since kindergarten, barely knew each other though. I never really had a 'friend' before you, always alone, and I didn't really care. Then in 5th grade your 'friends' left you, so you befriended me. It was okay, then you got so cruel, the hurtful things you said to me, I knew I was skinny, really skinny, and I was smart too, I know I wasn't the prettiest, but I was okay, you led me to believe I was good for nothing, and I hated myself, I started cutting, and I was forced to quit playing baseball, fear that people would know. We were *best friends* we drifted apart in 8th grade, and I loved it, I couldn't wait to be away from you, now that we're in highschool we only have one class together! You ruined my life, I considered suicide 7 times, cut 178 times, have 176 scars, hate my life, have depression, and low self esteem. Everytime I see you, I panic. But now I have three GREAT friends, stopped cutting, and I'm beginning to regain some of my self-esteem. So I still hate you, but I'm getting better.

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Re: Write A Letter To Your Bully Thread. - January 30th 2012, 08:52 AM

Dear... D.
You kicked me when I was down. Why, why are you such a ****, do you not feel bad the tiniest bit doing such things. I have racing thoughts, and thus, hate you even more and know that when you see me (cause he does) I hate you, I know you, and I believe man can change, but even when you change, I won't forgive your ass. You drove me near suicide, know that, but what am I to expect of you, a man with no morales. I ******** cry a tiny bit and you still, show no mercy you ******* if there is a God, renounce your religion because you better hope he doesn't exist. **** you.

This man....... changed me in the most possible way of my life I'd say. Please don't mind the rage... I'd... simply hate him the most in the world. Even though I don't see him anymore. Physically, Mentally, It all. Running thoughts is the only thing flushing out the factors of depression, and I consider it a blessing, otherwise I think I might be a serial killer, because I myself established morales even with the worst possible childhood.

edit:; I might be overexagerating my childhood.. but my cousin pushed me down the stairs, I was a crybaby detested kindergarten and cried daily before going, and I see my crazy mom beat my sisters and then me, but now, she doesn't anymore thank the dear lords. By beat, I mean asian standards of beating with like those hangers and sticks.

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Re: Write A Letter To Your Bully Thread. - February 2nd 2012, 02:04 AM

Id have to start off my saying...
Dear elementary school bully...

I know part of growing up is teasing one and other, but when it gets to the point that you got it to, its gone too far. You cant call somebody in Grade 4 a "fag" when you don't even have an ounce of understanding of what sexuality is. I really wish I had stood up to you back then, a lot of my insecurities have stemmed from the grief you caused me over 8 years ago... You really did put a negative mark on my life. Just so you know i'm much stronger now than I once was, and I hope one day you realise what you did to many kids years ago was wrong, and you do not deserve one ounce of respect from any person in this world.

.. You did teach me one thing however: To treat the people around me with respect until they give me a reason not to. I wish you knew that I have moved on now, I may still have problems in my life but I can no longer blame you for them. I may not be perfect, but I think I turned out okay. (=

Sincerely,
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Re: Write A Letter To Your Bully Thread. - February 5th 2012, 03:08 PM

Dear you know who,

I don't get it. It still puzzles me. I was the new girl and you were my first friend. That meant so much to me; I was a nervous wreck on the first day. But then all of a sudden, out of the blue, you tortured me. I came home and cried nearly everyday. That year was the first year anyone said they hated me. No one had ever said something so cruel to me before. It hurt me so much, and yet they had no idea how bad I was truly affected. It was that year, and that year alone, I went from a carefree happy girl, to a stressed, over thinking tween. And now you want to be my "friend", and you say your "sorry"- No your not. I gave you second chances, and what did you do? You went back to being a jerk. I can barely look at you without wanting to scream at you, tell you what you did to me. But instead, I'll just keep on pretending like I'm ok, and nothing's wrong. That's what everybody wants me to do, I guess . . .

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Re: Write A Letter To Your Bully Thread. - February 15th 2012, 05:47 PM

Dear Bullies,
i hate you all, i want you all to hurt as much as i do, one day i will get my revenge.
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Re: Write A Letter To Your Bully Thread. - February 15th 2012, 06:01 PM

I'm probably coming back this summer, and I might be staying in the area for several years. All of you assholes better stay the fuck out of my way. I'm coming prepared... believe me, I am.


If you've got some spare time, read this:

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Re: Write A Letter To Your Bully Thread. - February 15th 2012, 10:06 PM

Dear Haters aka Bullies,

Guess what I'm still here! You didn't win , so I hope while your fucking up your life you know how I felt for so long. For the longest time I used to think I had to be like you, dress like you, be a slut, bitch, nasty like you. Then I moved, and I still got hate from people who WERE MY SO CALLED FRIENDS. I learned the hard way, that you can't trust every body and from that I have grown. I am stronger than I have ever been, and it's thanks to you. So thank you for calling me fat, I now embrace my curves fully and don't want to be stick thin. Thank you for calling me weird cause, I believe in the supernatural. I now accept my weirdness, and understand not everyone has a open mind. Thank you for making my life a living hell and me a out cast, I now am more social and actually have people I can trust. Thank you for everything you did, because in the end I have won. I may not be like you, but I don't ever want to be because I am happy being me. I happy being Julia, who went from a sad little girl to a social butterfly. So thank you, oh and karma will eventually catch up to you remember that.




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