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right and wrong - April 30th 2010, 11:09 PM

so pretty much this year i keep worrying about right and wrong....like ill worry that im bad like a bad person and that i am doing bad things...and just keep worrying and thinking about it....idk why but its really annoying.

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Re: right and wrong - May 1st 2010, 12:57 AM

Hey Blue! We gotta catch up in chat sometime. lol if I ever find time to.

It's actually really, surprisingly normal to be going through this sort of thing, to be trying to figure out what is right and what is wrong, according to your own beliefs and standards and not just what society dictates is right and wrong. Especially during your teenage and young adult years. It's kind of linked to the whole 'ranging hormones' and crap. (and yes, even at 18 you'll still have that stuff going on, you're not quite done being tormented by your hormones. Soon enough though, maybe around your early 20s they'll chill and your mind and body can relax a little.)

However, while thinking about whats right and wrong is normal, it's not so fun when this starts to consume you and it starts to invade your every thought, much less be worrying all the time whether you're doing the right thing or not. Which is why I don't think this is just the regular teenage worries, and even if it is, you still need help somehow to get it to stop. Sometimes, it really doesn't matter if it's just the 'normal teenage stuff,' because if it's still hurting you...

Well, anyway. I know you Blue, we've talked a lot in chat. And I know you're a good person. I can kind of sense these things about people, even over the internet. But always remember a very important part of living. You, are, human. You may make mistakes in life, in fact, I can almost guarantee it... (not so much of a pep talk is it.) But, it doesn't have to be the end of the world. In the end, deep down, you ARE a good person, and most of the time those little mistakes that we as a human race obsess over, saying something rude to a friend or tripping in the hallway, they really aren't that big of a deal. We're constantly thinking that other people will notice these little things, and haunt us over them forever, but they don't. They're too busy thinking the exact same thing about themselves.

If this is really bothering you, have you tried talking to one of your teachers? How that situation coming lately? I know things have been rough with that principle lately..

But remember this, you are a good person inside, no matter what happens. And you DO do the right things. Think about it, you're on TH a lot and I often see you helping people. There are so few people in our society that I see regularly doing this. It's so rare, and so great, to find someone who goes into something like an S&A chatroom just for the sake of helping someone.

And yes. I do tend to ramble in like, all of my posts... lol



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Re: right and wrong - May 1st 2010, 11:29 PM

thanks.....lol i dont know what to say....but i read it and its good...so thanks! lol
   
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Re: right and wrong - May 2nd 2010, 08:48 PM

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