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Exclamation future freakout. soon ill be alone - January 29th 2009, 04:32 PM

a few culinary schools im looking at are in florida. and ive been slapped in the face that im gonna be alll alone once i got there. im gonna be so broke that i wont be able to afford frequent visits to home (jersey). i might loose all my friends. what if no one likes me at the new school? what if they look at me and think im just an overweight freak. ive never had a problem making friends depsite me being shy at first meeting. but im afraid that im gonna make no friends once university comes rolling around.

i dont want to loose my 2 best friends. one for sure i may not want to admit it, but i might loose her. its not gonna anyone's fault, its just gonna be two different situations. and she jokes around all the time saying oh ur not going to florida. the culinary school you want to go to closed down its miami campus. and all that. and i kno she is joking around, but what if she secretly gets mad at me for leavin? i know this is my future and i gotta do what's best for me. i hear that all the tme. but i dont think anyone will fully understand how much my close friends mean to me.

i cant go to Culinary Institute of America because i need a minimum of 3 years off food experience. and my crappy job at pathmark isnt cutting it. why am i not working at a restaurant? because when i applied for a job at the age of 17, i wasnt old enough to work in one. and pathmark is kinda my safety and love the people that work there. and im not into economics or politics, but the way the economy is, pathmark is my safe haven right now.

ugh! i dont want to grow up. i am not ready to accept big changes that are gonna go down in the next 2 years


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Re: future freakout. soon ill be alone - January 29th 2009, 05:00 PM

Hi Kelly,

I will be a senior next year and am already nervous about college, etc. I kind of understand how you feel. I do want to leave any of my close friends when I am off to college, but I know that I will still continue to talk to them online, on the phone, etc. Probably not as often as in the past, but I'll try to stay in touch with all of them no matter what. I think that is the best way to look at your situation: if you are really good friends with those two individuals, they will definitely understand AND try to stay in contact with you.


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