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Moving interstate for university... - January 17th 2011, 12:48 PM

I found out today that I got into the best med school in the country, only problem - it's interstate.

This wouldn't be such a problem but my boyfriend is heartbroken.
Deep down I want to go but it makes me really sad because I don't want to leave him.

Everyone's telling me to go because it's the chance of a lifetime.

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Re: Moving interstate for university... - January 17th 2011, 09:11 PM

If you and your boyfriend truley love eachother you guys can get over this obstacle. And i agree it is a chance of a lifetime. Maybe , he can make visits to you every now and then . You guys talk oin the phone every night , then hang out on the weekends. I'm sure if you two truely love eachother you two can work something out (:
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Re: Moving interstate for university... - January 18th 2011, 05:55 AM

I would go to the university and tell your boyfriend it's what you want to do with your future plus you guys can still communicate via skype, msn, etc... . True love involves allowing one's partner to do what they want in life so there's no selfishness.


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Re: Moving interstate for university... - January 20th 2011, 07:23 AM

Your boyfriend will understand if he really loves you. Your friends are right, getting into a top medical university is an enormous feat and shouldn't even be contemplated as many people would give their left arm to be where you're at. Go with your head held high, remember this doesn't mark the end of your relationship with him. You could always keep a long distance relationship, or keep things on hold for a while.


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Re: Moving interstate for university... - January 20th 2011, 12:20 PM

We worked it out, I'm coming back for semester breaks and holidays so it's not so bad.
We're now enjoying maximising out time together ;p


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Re: Moving interstate for university... - January 21st 2011, 03:13 AM

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We worked it out, I'm coming back for semester breaks and holidays so it's not so bad.
We're now enjoying maximising out time together ;p
That's great to hear. Like I was gonna say, if you both really love eachother and you can work this out.


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Re: Moving interstate for university... - January 22nd 2011, 02:10 AM

Thats great
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Re: Moving interstate for university... - January 22nd 2011, 09:15 AM

It's your career. It's more important than your boyfriend.


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Re: Moving interstate for university... - January 27th 2011, 08:30 AM

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It's your career. It's more important than your boyfriend.
Yeah I agree, but I think it's great she got it sorted out to avoid losing either of them!


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