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Sexy - April 29th 2010, 03:28 AM

I'm not sure if this goes here or not but my boyfriend recently told me that he wanted me to be sexy... more sexy. He often complains that my clothes are too baggy and I dont wear enough makeup...ect. My question to you all is: What is sexy? I mean what in the world does that constitute and how do you do it and still look classy? Opinions?
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Re: Sexy - April 29th 2010, 04:25 AM

Don't change how you dress if you don't want to. Dress for yourself, not for your boyfriend. And everyones definition of whats sexy is different.. If you want to have a bit of fun and dress up for him then ask him what sort of things he finds sexy. Idk.. i just find the whole 'my boyfriend wants me to wear more make up and dress more sexy' thing annoying. You're not his possession.


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Re: Sexy - April 29th 2010, 09:57 PM

I agree with Elle. You should never change for a guy. if he doesn't agree with how you are that's his problem and he should find you sexy for how you are already. Gurr, boys


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Re: Sexy - April 30th 2010, 07:25 PM

My gosh, that is extremely rude of him. Don't listen to him. I agree with the two posters above me. Don't change yourself for a guy.
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Re: Sexy - April 30th 2010, 07:29 PM

I agree with Elle, you are not his possession. You should dress how you want to dress, and wear clothes that you feel comfortable in. Don't change yourself for someone else, even if it is your boyfriend. He should be able to accept you in whatever clothes you choose to wear.


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Re: Sexy - April 30th 2010, 07:35 PM

well i would lecture you on 'what a good boyfriend is' which is what i feel like doing, but tbh thats not what you really asked for and if you posted it on here then you must really care about him and what he's said so in my opinion 'sexy' is just confidence. You can wear anything and still be sexy, if you really think he is worth it just let lose and be confident and show him that you are you, and that you ARE sexy.
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Re: Sexy - May 2nd 2010, 04:55 PM

If he is that stupid, and actually asks you to be someone else, you really should find someone else, that loves you for who you are, and you're actions, not someone that wants you to be someone else! What kind of a man is that ?
   
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Re: Sexy - May 2nd 2010, 04:58 PM

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well i would lecture you on 'what a good boyfriend is' which is what i feel like doing, but tbh thats not what you really asked for and if you posted it on here then you must really care about him and what he's said so in my opinion 'sexy' is just confidence. You can wear anything and still be sexy, if you really think he is worth it just let lose and be confident and show him that you are you, and that you ARE sexy.

That's true, even know we know what we're saying it's not really what you asked for, sorry. But sexiness is confidence. Be confident in yourself and everything about you ~ and if you don't feel it, fake it ~ and THAT'S what's sexy.


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Re: Sexy - May 3rd 2010, 11:32 PM

I agree with them, DONT change for a guy. Be yourself. It's all about being comfortable. He should be able to accept you for who you are and what you wear. Sexy? sometimes I see it as the girls who dress all fashionable with heels and tons of makeup and stuff, because they have major confidence, but on the inside, they are afraid they won't be noticed. Thats just what I think.
   
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