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Talking I Told Him Off! xD - December 4th 2011, 09:06 PM

Yup. The abusive ex is gone! Basically, he told me that he wanted to make things work with me, but only if we had sex. The way I see it, relationships should not be conditional like that. So, I told him off. I basically told him that I was worth more than that and I deserved to be treated as more than a sex toy. It was great! He told me he's never going to talk to me again. I feel so much lighter!! I never knew how good it would feel to get over my fear of him and tell him what I was thinking. It's awesome!



   
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Re: I Told Him Off! xD - December 4th 2011, 09:45 PM

That's awesome, Sammi.


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Re: I Told Him Off! xD - December 4th 2011, 11:31 PM

That's so great! Congratulations! I wish I had those guts of yours!
   
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Re: I Told Him Off! xD - December 4th 2011, 11:38 PM

^ I agree. I deff wouldn't be able to do that!


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Re: I Told Him Off! xD - December 5th 2011, 04:14 AM

Congratulations Sam! That's wonderful You deserve way better!



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Re: I Told Him Off! xD - December 5th 2011, 11:03 AM

Oh my God, that's really great. Abusive relationships can be so hard to stand up to.....I'm really glad you were able to do this. (: Congrats!!


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Re: I Told Him Off! xD - December 6th 2011, 03:48 AM

Thanks guys! I'm loving the support. Oh, and I met another great guy. Life is good.



   
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Re: I Told Him Off! xD - December 8th 2011, 12:30 AM

I wish my mum had guts like you, it took her 7 years to stand up to her ex.
You met someone else already? Be careful, you might still be very vulnerable yourself and some guys use that to their advantage.
   
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