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IM SO EMBARRASSED - May 5th 2016, 01:23 AM

We were at a science fieldtrip today and during one of the lectures, I farted realllllllyyyyyyyy long, and loud. I kid you not, it lasted like a good 6 or 7 seconds,(not like a normal one thats like, 2 seconds or something)

It was in front of my whole science class, it was so mortifying!
Everybody gave each other weird looks, some kinda smiled mockingly at each other.

I'm already kind of a lame outcast, but this made like 90% of my grade even more repelled by me. The whole time at the fieldtrip, they would stay away from me, a few times they whispered stuff to each other then looked at me and giggled. I am so so so sooooooo embarrassed ahhhh!!!

Like literally there were 2 popular girls sitting next to me when it happened. They are already kinda mean and gossip about people, I bet they'll tell everyone!

One of the main reasons of my anxiety is that if my crush finds out. He'll hate me even more and might even talk about me to other students!
   
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Re: IM SO EMBARRASSED - May 5th 2016, 06:18 AM

Hey there,

First I want to say I wouldn't worry about it to much. Believe me when I say that you aren't the only person who's ever let out a flatulent around other people.
It's a normal function of the body so try not to let it bother you.

I can understand how people giggling at you can make you a embarrassed. If you want to really throw them off - laugh with them. (:
Just remember to not let people get to you. What could the possibly tell each other?
"Raindrop farted today" ... sounds kind of silly, doesn't it?

Don't worry about your crush, at the end of the day, believe it or not, he farts too.

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Re: IM SO EMBARRASSED - May 5th 2016, 06:55 AM

i agree with everything the above poster said~!

trust me, you're definitely not the only one who this has happened to. just think, in 3 weeks, nobody will be talking about it anymore. if they were, that would be hella weird that they're so obsessed with your fart, and you can tell them that.

i heard a great piece of advice once for when embarrassing things happen to you.
"think about the people who were there when you did something embarrassing. can you remember a time that they did anything embarrassing? no?? then they probably don't remember yours either."

seriously, the only people who would hold on to something like that is assholes and your best friend.
if the bullying and teasing gets too obvious, obnoxious, and severe, you should report it to the front office. can't guarantee there's anything they'll do about it, but at least an adult in charge will know it's going on.

P.S. if it makes you feel any better, one time in PE the teacher made us all stretch after our workout by bringing our arms to above our head in a slow circular motion.
well when i was stretching i accidentally let out this hella high-pitched but somehow still loudass fart, right when the room got silent. (pro tip; don't do anal the day before you have PE ) i could've easily blamed it on the person next to me but my stupid friends were in the row right behind me so they started calling me out.
some chick stopped hanging out because of it, so just think -- this is a great way to find out who your true friends are.



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Re: IM SO EMBARRASSED - May 5th 2016, 10:09 PM

As said above, really don't worry about it. Of course it is embarrassing, but people have always have far to many things happen to them than remember one little embarrassing thing. I really don't think you have anything to worry about, by tomorrow everyone will have forgotten!


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Re: IM SO EMBARRASSED - May 7th 2016, 05:05 AM

I'm sorry you were embarrassed and that they laughed at you. Hopefully they leave you alone. If they do not that shows their immaturity. They do it too.
Everyone farts, it is natural and we cannot always stop them until we are in the restroom.
Next time something like this happens try to make light of it.
I had this happen when I was at a friend's house. We were talking and I was laughing. I got up to leave the room for bed and my friend said something hillarious/I was exhausted and I was laughing a ton. I ended up farting really loudly as I was walking away. Embarrassing but not the end of the world or friendships.
Not sure how much that helps but I hope it shows you that we all have these moments.


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Re: IM SO EMBARRASSED - May 7th 2016, 10:42 PM

I wouldnt worry about it to much - I do karate and have farted a few times in karate and its been loud - the thing it is natural and people usually only laugh when someone farts because most people just find farting in general pretty funny.. each time I've farted in karate and people have laughed I've just like laughed along with them and I find this helps me alot. It will all be forgotten about in like a few weeks time.



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