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Exclamation How do i change? - August 2nd 2010, 08:43 PM

well see...i somehow made this loud, outgoing, and talkative personality (idk how kinda weird )...and i like being that quiet person that likes to be alone..but at the same time likes to talk and be outgoing sometimes. and well when i tried to let my quiet-ish personality come out..my friends started to think something was wrong with me ..i dont want to be the loud talkative person i am known as..but i dont know how to ..like...show it without problems occuring
   
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Re: How do i change? - August 2nd 2010, 09:26 PM

It sounds like you're keeping the outgoing personality at the moment purely because of your friends. The only thing you can really do is not let them worry you. Be yourself, if they question it, tell them how you feel about it. They might think something is wrong at first, but eventually they'll become accustomed to your actual personality. Maintaining a different personality in social situations to keep others happy is normal but it can be a little stressful. Just try to remember friends are those who accept who we are deep down and appreciate us for it. Just be yourself. Your true friends will accept it.


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Re: How do i change? - August 2nd 2010, 10:02 PM

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Re: How do i change? - August 4th 2010, 01:33 AM

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well see...i somehow made this loud, outgoing, and talkative personality (idk how kinda weird )...and i like being that quiet person that likes to be alone..but at the same time likes to talk and be outgoing sometimes. and well when i tried to let my quiet-ish personality come out..my friends started to think something was wrong with me ..i dont want to be the loud talkative person i am known as..but i dont know how to ..like...show it without problems occuring
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Re: How do i change? - August 4th 2010, 04:12 PM

i did the same thing. i actualy dislike talking to people, being in big groups,going to parties, but somehow i shifted gear to be talkitive and outgoing and anoyying. i just kinda stoped doin stuff a lil at a time so not to freak my friends out. i still do fun stuff, but i can be my quite loner self again most of the time. if they ask, tell them thats not you :3


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