Uninvited roommates...

[Broken Record]

First off I want to mention I'm on a joint lease, cause if this was individual lease I would have been out of here by now. We had two people move out, so my roommate had a friend of his sign the lease without asking for my permission. Then that guy invited one of his friends to live here without even asking!! And now, without him even asking, his girlfriend is now living with us. First she would come spend the night (then her mom would come slamming on our door looking for her). I've already had a problem in the past with guy's girlfriends moving in... I don't want to deal with it again.

She is 18 and got kicked out of her house for not listening to what her mother asked of her.

I would probably be nicer about the situation, but she NEVER speaks to me. I feel SOOOO awkward around her! Whenever I do try and talk to her, she speaks with an attitude back to me or ignores me. I feel like I'm not getting any respect. If you're moving into someone's apartment I think you should put a little more effort in being friendly. I don't want to deal with this in my own house. In fact, all the new people are very rude to me. Plus now there's 7 people living in a 4 bedroom townhouse!

So legally, in the state of Florida, is there anything I can do? I'm thinking about talking to her mom. I know her mom has a Facebook...would it be a bad idea to send her a message? I don't know her phone number.

I personally want to move out to a one bedroom with my boyfriend, but our rent is so cheap here. We're both full time college students, so saving money helps a lot. I think I could afford it with a student loan, but I don't want to make my boyfriend work more than he already does to help pay too. He is doesn't mind living here, but he does agree that she shouldn't be here. It makes our rent no cheaper.

I just hate coming home just to be unhappy.

[Guile]

Originally Posted by Broken Record

First off I want to mention I'm on a joint lease, cause if this was individual lease I would have been out of here by now. We had two people move out, so my roommate had a friend of his sign the lease without asking for my permission. Then that guy invited one of his friends to live here without even asking!! And now, without him even asking, his girlfriend is now living with us. First she would come spend the night (then her mom would come slamming on our door looking for her). I've already had a problem in the past with guy's girlfriends moving in... I don't want to deal with it again.

She is 18 and got kicked out of her house for not listening to what her mother asked of her.

I would probably be nicer about the situation, but she NEVER speaks to me. I feel SOOOO awkward around her! Whenever I do try and talk to her, she speaks with an attitude back to me or ignores me. I feel like I'm not getting any respect. If you're moving into someone's apartment I think you should put a little more effort in being friendly. I don't want to deal with this in my own house. In fact, all the new people are very rude to me. Plus now there's 7 people living in a 4 bedroom townhouse!

So legally, in the state of Florida, is there anything I can do? I'm thinking about talking to her mom. I know her mom has a Facebook...would it be a bad idea to send her a message? I don't know her phone number.

I personally want to move out to a one bedroom with my boyfriend, but our rent is so cheap here. We're both full time college students, so saving money helps a lot. I think I could afford it with a student loan, but I don't want to make my boyfriend work more than he already does to help pay too. He is doesn't mind living here, but he does agree that she shouldn't be here. It makes our rent no cheaper.

I just hate coming home just to be unhappy.

Send me a message with a bit more detail about dates and your rental agreement and I can tell you.

[Justin Bieber]

Maybe you could talk to the person you pay rent to? There could be rules against a certain amount of people living in one home. I think that's your best bet really if you want action to be taken. Or, you can talk to your roommates about how you feel, and see if they are willing to make some changes.

[MisplacedDreamer]

I think your landlord may have broken a rental agreement with you by allowing someone you didn't consent to move into the house. Do you still have your copy of the lease that your roommate signed with you? I am trying to find more information about it.

[DeadlySin]

I would message her mom. I'd also either discuss it with your land lord and see if he/she could do anything. Maybe convince them to move out?
I understand it is cheap, but if you're unhappy and people are rude to you in your own house. I think it would be best to find new living arrangements and leave.
You shouldn't have to deal with that at all.

[Ryan1]

I would take a stroll down to the police department and see what can be done, unfortunately I have doubts. Is there anyway you can ride this out till your done collage? Then move in with your boyfriend and live happily-ever-after.