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Re: Do you ever worry someone will find you on here? - July 28th 2011, 10:20 PM

I don't worry about being found out what I post or who I am, as everyone mostly knows already. I only worry because this feels like "MY" place to get away from the people I know. I've encouraged a few friends to join though.

   
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Re: Do you ever worry someone will find you on here? - July 29th 2011, 04:43 AM

Not really, I've got nothing to hide, really. I've even invited people I know to join the forum.


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Re: Do you ever worry someone will find you on here? - August 3rd 2011, 02:50 AM

I did, originally. Not so much anymore.
I've posted some personal stuff, but mainly in my blog. And some pictures, but thats private to users only. So it's not that likely anyone would find me on here. But if they did I wouldn't care so much.
I've got one person I know irl who I slipped up and mentioned the site to, but I don't think she's likely to try and hunt me down. But even if she did, I don't think she'd freak out or anything.


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Re: Do you ever worry someone will find you on here? - August 3rd 2011, 02:55 AM

My mom and dad yes, anyone else not really. My mom would freak for being on a site like this and talking to random people... she's done it before.



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Re: Do you ever worry someone will find you on here? - August 3rd 2011, 06:41 AM

My stepdad googled my email address when I was 13 and found the stuff about cutting I had on here. Thats how the found out. Not anymore, though


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Re: Do you ever worry someone will find you on here? - August 3rd 2011, 07:08 AM

They know I come here my parents are cool with it some frineds know one even made an account but never comes.
   
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Re: Do you ever worry someone will find you on here? - August 3rd 2011, 06:44 PM

Yes i do which is why i made this suggestion a few months back. Hopefully sometime soon they adjust the privacy settings so people are more comfortable to post.




   
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Re: Do you ever worry someone will find you on here? - August 4th 2011, 05:16 AM

I'd like more privacy settings. I've seen some forums where they had "members only" section. I'm worried about stuff showing up on search engines.
   
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Re: Do you ever worry someone will find you on here? - August 4th 2011, 06:08 AM

I don't really care.

But I don't want anyone to find out somethings that I say on here.
They won't though, so it's all good.




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Re: Do you ever worry someone will find you on here? - August 4th 2011, 04:25 PM

My brothers and my best friend know about this forum I don't care its something I'm into. I’ll admit at frist I was, now I don't care so much. If I'm reading something with extreme content I don't necessarily advertise it to people.
   
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Re: Do you ever worry someone will find you on here? - August 5th 2011, 03:25 PM

I'm glad I'm not the only one that worries a ton about this, lol(:
   
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Re: Do you ever worry someone will find you on here? - August 7th 2011, 12:08 AM

I worry about that all the time. I put a lot o personal things on here, a lot that I don't want anyone but THers to see.


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Re: Do you ever worry someone will find you on here? - August 7th 2011, 03:00 PM

I know a few people I know in person and else where who joined here..I'm not too fussed to be honest. My family know I'm on here, they don't really care about it; to be honest.
   
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Re: Do you ever worry someone will find you on here? - August 8th 2011, 08:19 PM

I worry about my parents finding out about all this all the time. That would be very bad....And my real life friends. My online friends know about all this and that I come here. They're really happy about it too.


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Re: Do you ever worry someone will find you on here? - August 9th 2011, 03:52 AM

My parents know about TH, along with my girlfriend, but that is it. I've told other offline friends before, but they wanted a help website so I did research to find some good ones so TH wouldn't be the only one I listed. =P

I do get nervous about my parents finding me on TH. I've figured out how to erase the history on the computer of specific websites, and pretty much anything that says my name is Eclipse Dee is erased. I'm pretty sure they know my username here because of a not-so-helpful suicide form I posted to a few months ago, but I'm pretty sure(hopeful anyway) that they don't look at my post count. Even if they look at my profile I have it set so all one can see if they're offline is my age, date I joined, and number of posts. I have no idea what it's set as for people not on m friend's list. I don't worry about kids from school finding out, if they do that means they're here too, so I bet they wouldn't say anything.


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Re: Do you ever worry someone will find you on here? - August 9th 2011, 07:24 AM

It already happened. Someone I know irl is on here too. So I ditched my old account and I'm using my middle name (Marguerite... not my first name! You learn something knew everyday). I've talked to them on here before, they don't know. Maybe they will now if they read this, but I'm not to fussed anymore. I'd like to keep it quiet but my old account was used when I was in a bad place, stuff about suicide and cutting and what not. It was embarrassing. I don't post stuff (or do stuff) like that anymore though.


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Re: Do you ever worry someone will find you on here? - August 9th 2011, 05:06 PM

Yup i do worry about it all the time, i would hate it if my friends and family found out about TH. Its my escape and helps me so much i would hate for them to know and ban me


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Re: Do you ever worry someone will find you on here? - August 12th 2011, 01:19 PM

yes, but i just hope not!!


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Re: Do you ever worry someone will find you on here? - August 12th 2011, 06:51 PM

Not really, I don't have anything to hide to be worried about people finding me. I don't say anything on here that I wouldn't say to them.
   
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Unhappy Re: Do you ever worry someone will find you on here? - August 12th 2011, 08:48 PM

If anyone from school found me on here I would become even more unhappy. No one knows about the stuff I post on here. If my parents found out about it, it would be even worse.
   
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Re: Do you ever worry someone will find you on here? - August 12th 2011, 11:24 PM

My mom knows I'm on here. I wouldn't want her to see my posts because then she would see how much pain I am really in, she would then blame herself for my pain even though it's not her fault.
   
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Re: Do you ever worry someone will find you on here? - August 13th 2011, 02:29 AM

I don't worry about it, cuz I don't care.


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Re: Do you ever worry someone will find you on here? - August 13th 2011, 04:05 AM

I have before. I don't anymore. If you're that worried, just keep your birth date and your name and location hidden. That way nobody could really identify it's you.
   
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Re: Do you ever worry someone will find you on here? - August 13th 2011, 04:11 AM

yup. thats why i used a fake name. my names not lola.


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Re: Do you ever worry someone will find you on here? - August 13th 2011, 04:14 AM

That's a very good idea!
   
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Re: Do you ever worry someone will find you on here? - August 14th 2011, 04:16 PM

*dances*

Someone else doesn't use their real name and admits it! =D YAY!


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Re: Do you ever worry someone will find you on here? - August 14th 2011, 05:12 PM

To be honest, I worry constantly about that.
   
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