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Why Me? Here is a safe space to let it all out, where you can rant about all the bad things life throws your way. Sometimes it just helps to ask "why me?"

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What exactly is it about me? - October 18th 2016, 06:18 AM

What exactly is it about me? Is it that even though I'm pretty sure someone hates me, I still make an effort to talk to them and make things better? That sometimes I don't know when to stop. Or, I mean, I seem to get on people's nerves quite a lot. Like I'm sorry I basically don't exist unless you want me to do something for you as simple as copying down homework. Why is it that you like everyone but me, that you're nice to everyone but me? What have I done to you to make you possibly hate me... You know what? Forget it. It doesn't matter. I don't care if you hate me. All I need to know is what I think about myself and I think we're on the same side for once.
   
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Re: What exactly is it about me? - October 18th 2016, 09:33 AM

We all get this... Ive read some Buddhist stuff which says that romantic passion is not actually the desire to be with someone, but the desire for that person to want to be with you. Once that is established, the desire fades. We all want to be appreciated, and this leads to most of our heartache.

Confidence is the key! If you're proud of yourself then these people wont bother you, they will then try hard to win your affections!!! We allllll get this!
   
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Re: What exactly is it about me? - October 20th 2016, 02:51 AM

Because if you're too nice then people think you're a push-over. A doormat. They might not "hate" you, but they just don't want to be around you... because people think you're a doormat. Anyone who might want to hang with you, will probably get laughed at by their peers.

Stop giving people your homework to copy for free. If you're going to give them homework to copy, at least ask for something in return. Anything, is better than nothing. It's about the principle.

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"I don't care about politics"
Then politics doesn't care about you either. Truth. You've got to make your voice heard, if you want to be listened to. But that's too logical for some people, so let me go a step further. Not making your voice heard, leaves other people free to hijack it by speaking on your behalf, even if they don't actually give a shit about you. That's politics. So, make your voice heard. That's not a quote from anywhere. That's just me.


   
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