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Why Me? Here is a safe space to let it all out, where you can rant about all the bad things life throws your way. Sometimes it just helps to ask "why me?"

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Focus - April 6th 2017, 01:05 PM

When someone is working, clearly busy, and has things to do, and you have something to say to them, just fucking say it to the point.

Don't take 15 minutes to drone on about something that can be said in 2 minutes, literally repeating the same things several times. Wasted time, wasted energy. And annoying.

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Re: Focus - April 7th 2017, 05:35 PM

I know that feeling.

I understand there are some things that are difficult to say or speak about. But if it's something mundane, then it can be said in thirty seconds.
   
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Re: Focus - April 7th 2017, 07:21 PM

i am very outgoing girl, so have no problem with interrupting people sometimes get bad feedback from do that but perhaps will not change it
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Re: Focus - April 14th 2017, 01:01 AM

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i am very outgoing girl, so have no problem with interrupting people sometimes get bad feedback from do that but perhaps will not change it
That's good, but I prefer to think that there is a time and place for that.

When I sit down to do something, I like to focus on it as much as possible. I don't like distractions, TV, radio, chit-chat, coffee, cleaning the oven, or whatever else. Anything that disrupts my focus that way, feels about as irritating as stepping barefoot on a LEGO brick.

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"I don't care about politics"
Then politics doesn't care about you either. Truth. You've got to make your voice heard, if you want to be listened to. But that's too logical for some people, so let me go a step further. Not making your voice heard, leaves other people free to hijack it by speaking on your behalf, even if they don't actually give a shit about you. That's politics. So, make your voice heard. That's not a quote from anywhere. That's just me.


   
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Re: Focus - April 18th 2017, 11:26 PM

I went through this, this past weekend! Someone just needed to ask if I could call someone for them, and they talked to me for like 10-15 minutes just to ask me that. I definitely understand how annoying and stressful it can be!



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