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Unhappy My dad is a c*** - August 20th 2018, 08:06 PM

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My dad is an absolute cunt he aways acts like im some fuking wirdo in the house i play video games and hes like you stay too late you dont help around the house and its annoying he is abusing me and hitting me not as a joke but like as real punches and it hurts one time even he broke my tooth like all the time and is "pranking" me more like abuse calling me names im thinking about calling the child abuse service should i do that?

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re: My dad is a c*** - August 21st 2018, 01:18 AM

Profanity aside, your dad is absolutely being abusive. Hitting you is never acceptable, neither is the verbal abuse.

Do you have anywhere safe to go? And do you have siblings who are also being abused? If possible, I would like to encourage you to speak with another trusted adult and let them know you need a safe place to stay.

If there is no where else you can stay with someone you know, look up youth shelters or even women's/men's shelters where you live. Youth shelters generally accept people up to the age of 24 or 25 (where I live it's this age, I know this for a fact because I had a friend who stayed in a youth shelter when he was 23). I think the age thing is somewhat conditional, for example, my friend was kind of... behind where you should be by 23. I feel like someone who's a rougher 23 year old might be referred to another place as you could also be a 13 year old at a youth shelter and they don't want potential pedophiles in with the actual children so... any ways, please check this option out. It saved my friends life during a dangerous time in his life.

In addition, I would definitely call Child Protective Services / Family and Children Services and get help from them.

Finally, start to document everything. Record times and places and take pictures of bruises and cuts.
   
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Re: My dad is a c*** - August 31st 2018, 05:28 PM

Hello,

Welcome to teenhelp It is wonderful that you have joined and we're able to tell us what you are going through. Wonderful job.

I am so sorry that you are having a hard time with this right now and I hope that you will be okay soon. You're dad should not be treating you like this. Parents should always help out the kids no matter how old they may be and never hurt them or put them down. Would you be able to talk with someone about this? Do you have a teacher at school or are you able to talk with the school coaches or counselor and let them know about this and how it is hurting you? Are you able to talk to someone in you're family too or friends and let them know about this.

You said that you are thinking about calling child abuse service if you feel like you should do this, then go for it. If you are having trouble saying everything you can write everything down on paper and then you can read this to them and you will not forget anything that you want to say. Or if you are not sure if you can call them, ask a teacher or someone else at school to call them for you to help you out with this. I hope that you will be okay soon.


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