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Why Me? Here is a safe space to let it all out, where you can rant about all the bad things life throws your way. Sometimes it just helps to ask "why me?"

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A rant in the form of an email I wish I could send. - January 15th 2009, 10:16 PM

To Someone -

I doubt that you remember me, but I decided to send you an email anyway.
I'm your pathetic friend Amanda, who apparently isn't good enough for you anymore, if you forget. Just making sure, obviously I don't mean much. But I guess I just wanted you to know that I've fucking through with trying to be your friend, and being here to listen to all your shitty fake problems. If you want the truth, it's that your sitting in your room crying your eyes out because your life's not like some cheesy fantasy movie, while some of us actually have real problems that are going on in our lives. So go ahead and forward this to all of my friends [which apparently are your too] and make them hate my guts, I could care less anymore. Your not worth the five times I went to the bathroom today in school to cry my eyes out. And your definitely not worth all the time I put into trying to be a good friend. I remember when you played the whole 'poor me, my friends always ditch me' bit last year, but that's not gonna work on me now, sorry. If you don't remember correctly, you're the one who blew me off when I needed someone to talk to more than anything. I thank you for that, by the way.

Well, I guess that that's it. Since you hate hurting people so much and it just breaks your heart, I just wanted you to know that half of the red marks on my arm are there because of how you made me feel. I hope you have a ball crying over that one. And I hope your new buddies do an amazing job of comforting you.

Have a nice life. Just don't expect me to be in it again come next Monday when you suddenly love being my friend again. Because I'm gone, just to let you know. Have fun with your ruined friendship! Best wishes.
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Re: A rant in the form of an email I wish I could send. - January 15th 2009, 10:43 PM

You know what?
I'm putting this into a message.
And hitting send.
Because I'm not keeping this inside.
I hope it does make her cry.

Sure, I'll regret it.
But who fucking cares?





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Re: A rant in the form of an email I wish I could send. - January 16th 2009, 04:18 AM

I don't know if you should send it or not. It's pretty harsh but I guess in a way it's good to let her know how you truly feel, especially if she hurt you that sounds pretty bad from what I've read. Although are you sure you really want to put a weight like that on her shoulders? Maybe you should just walk away and not send it? I don't know it's just my opinion.


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Re: A rant in the form of an email I wish I could send. - January 16th 2009, 09:39 AM

Ive sent a similar thing before and I felt such a relief.
But it didnt all come out good for obvious reasons.
I was told I should walk away and forget it but Im the kind of person that just couldnt do that... I had to have it all out.

I did feel guilty but then she did and said worse to me and I stopped feeling guilty.
Although we did talk about it one day but still could never be friends after that.

You will probably be relieved but with some guilt. Do what you have to do to get over things.
   
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Re: A rant in the form of an email I wish I could send. - January 16th 2009, 12:52 PM

i think the best thing to do is forget this person making you feel like shit
   
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Re: A rant in the form of an email I wish I could send. - January 16th 2009, 01:13 PM

Hey hun! *hugs* I'm sorry someone is making you feel like this, sure go ahead and send it, but it will probably make things worse. Delete it.Move on from her, and let her go. Then, get on with your life. She'll soon find out thats she's messed up a great friendship and hurt a great girl

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Re: A rant in the form of an email I wish I could send. - January 16th 2009, 03:28 PM

I sent an email like this instead :

I doubt that you remember me, but I decided to send you an email anyway.
I'm your pathetic friend Amanda, who apparently isn't good enough for you anymore, if you forgot. Just making sure, obviously I don't mean much. Which is why after sitting here for two hours trying to figure out what I did wrong, I decided it honestly didn't matter. I've been trying to hold up one end of a friendship for the past few weeks, while the other end has been dragging on the ground. I understand if there's something bothering you, and if there is I'm really sorry. But I just don't want to be part of this anymore, because I only keep getting trampled all over and hurt.

Well, I guess that that's it. Since you hate hurting people so much and it just breaks your heart, I just wanted you to know that you've been the reason for a lot of my tears in the past few weeks. Which is why I'm officially done with you, and this 'friendship.' I'm sure it's fine by you, but I just wanted you to know.

I hope you have an amazing life. Just don't expect me to be in it again come next Monday when you suddenly love being my friend again. Because I'm done. The end. I'm sure you have a lot of other people to talk to. As for me, I get used to having no one, I guess...you can send this to everyone if you want and tell them how completely mean I am, that's fine. I don't care anymore. I'm sick of all this stupid drama, I've never been the kind of person who thrives on it.

Oh, right, and please don't email me back and blame me for doing everything wrong, because like I said, I'm finally done. I guess what I've learned is staying in a hurtful friendship just to feel like you matter to someone just isn't worth it. It hurts when you find out you've never mattered to that person, but oh well..life goes on. Anyway, see ya. - Amanda.


I don't know, I felt like I really had to just maybe even remind myself that I was letting her walk all over me. She does the same thing at least once every two months, and I guess I've just had enough of it.

Now I'm just scared because I don't have anyone anymore...I could always talk to her, it seemed like.





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Re: A rant in the form of an email I wish I could send. - January 16th 2009, 04:34 PM

I'm glad you sent it hun, good for you. Yeah it might be a bit harsh, but if you've done that much crying and this person is leading to you SH then you shouldn't put up with that. I'm glad you've stuck up for yourself. If you let people walk over you a few times, they keep doing it and everyone around you starts too. I hope you feel better now, you deserve to x x x
   
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Re: A rant in the form of an email I wish I could send. - January 16th 2009, 07:11 PM

Now youve sent that you should just move on and really do what you said.
Dont be scared, you dont need someone that just dragged you down all the time.
You dont need her to talk to, you can find someone better to talk to and where its the type of friendship you want and need.
And remember if you really feel like you dont have anyone to talk to anymore, come on th and there will always be people here to talk to
   
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Re: A rant in the form of an email I wish I could send. - January 18th 2009, 01:43 AM

Good for you for doing that!

I can relate to you more than you know...

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Re: A rant in the form of an email I wish I could send. - January 18th 2009, 01:03 PM

i'm glad you had the courage to send her an email to explain how she's making you feel. if you don't want anything to do with her anymore hopefully this will give you some closure and you'll be able to move on with your life and forget about all the times this person has upset you.
i'm glad you decided to change some of the wording slightly, because i think the first email you posted did sound a bit too harsh, although i don't know the extent to which she has hurt you, obviously.


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