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Why Me? Here is a safe space to let it all out, where you can rant about all the bad things life throws your way. Sometimes it just helps to ask "why me?"

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Nothing important - August 1st 2009, 09:13 PM

I just feel like complete shit. I am just so fed up of everything. I went on holiday with a really good friend a few weeks and since I got back things just haven't been the same between us. We had a few arguments on holiday but not going to go into that. But since we got back she is being totally off with me and she says I am being off with her and she wonders why after how she treated me on holiday. Last week she was meant to be coming out and she promised she would come but my other friend had invited her to hers after I invited her and she decided to go to hers. Then used the excuse of having no money, which is a complete lie because I saw photos of her on facebook a few days later of her going on a night out. And she has been out a number of times this week. Have I been invited once? No I haven't. Shes just a liar. She could at least say the truth instead of lieing. We use to go out all the time together and now I don't even get an invite. She has pretty much taken all my other friends off me because she is always with them and invites them out but not me. I am pretty close to texting her and exploding at her because I have had enough of her offness.

Maybe it is just that I am a shit friend. I feel like cutting deeply because I deserve it. I deserve the pain.
   
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Re: Nothing important - August 2nd 2009, 01:01 PM

Hey Jen,
First off, you do not deserve pain, okay? You don't deserve the pain, and you're not a bad friend. What I think you need to do is contact your friend and set a time to meet her. Sit down and talk to her about how things are different ever since you got back from the trip, and how it's hurting you the way she's ignoring you. Exploding at her is probably not going to help the situation, so try and keep calm and when you talk to her, and try and sound like you're not putting the blame on her, or accusing her of anything, as she'd probably get defensive or angry. If she continues to ignore you and treat you like this, then she doesn't deserve you. You should be treated with respect and maturity, so if she keeps up the attitude, you should know she's not worth your time and effort. Take care Jen. :]


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Re: Nothing important - August 2nd 2009, 01:35 PM


Hi, i'm new to the forums and wanted to start out by answering to this thread.
I totally understand what you mean about feeling like shit.
But you should never, ever, ever, harm yourself.
YOU DON'T DESERVE THE PAIN.
try relaxing a bit, by listening to music, going for a walk, doing something productive. Try and think about your problems in a calm and peacful manner.
(: every thing will be alright.
   
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