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Why Me? Here is a safe space to let it all out, where you can rant about all the bad things life throws your way. Sometimes it just helps to ask "why me?"

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Regrets - February 15th 2009, 11:08 AM

They're the things that are haunting me night and day, I haven't slept in weeks. Everything reminds me of how fucked up I actually am. I know the things that I've done are in the past but they'll always be the front of my effing mind! There's just no moving on from them! Why do I have to stay here and suffer my punishment?


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Re: Regrets - February 15th 2009, 01:33 PM

Trust me, we all have regrets. I've done so many things in the past that I am definitely not proud of. And for awhile I thought I couldn't move on either, but then I realized that I can't change it and those regrets are what has made me who I am today. I like who I am now so as long as I think about the present and the future, the past doesn't matter as much.
   
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Re: Regrets - February 15th 2009, 01:56 PM

I hate who I am but I can't change it...I've never wanted to live and my regrets are becoming another reason to go.


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Re: Regrets - February 15th 2009, 02:26 PM

I'm so sorry you feel this way
I just want you to know, that moving on is possible no matter how hard it may seem. Try writing about how you feel or something. That always helped me. Just try to keep your chin up, things will get better, i promise. Talk to me if you need to
   
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Re: Regrets - February 15th 2009, 02:30 PM

I try to write it out but there isn't a lot of ways to explain it and it doesn't help much either . Leaving just makes it easier


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Re: Regrets - February 15th 2009, 09:56 PM

Well, this is kind of a vague situation since I don't know exactly why you're feeling sad. But I'll try to help anyway- whenever I feel lonely or upset I listen to some uplifting music. And I also think of things that give you that natural high- like a sunset or sunrise or a full moon or laughing really hard. I can't say I can completely relate to how you're feeling but I know that I have been extremely sad in my life and these things always helped. No matter how much you dislike yourself at the time, there is always someone who loves you. Think of what you'd be missing. Hope I helped at least a bit
   
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Re: Regrets - February 15th 2009, 11:26 PM

You did help, and I always have music on...I got insane without it lol. There's no one that loves me though so there's no need to stay, I can just slip I guess.


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Re: Regrets - February 15th 2009, 11:54 PM

Sorry too intruude. (sp?)
But chanise loves you!! and i can list a billion reasons why you should stay!!
And i know for a fact your loved by others.. Hang in there for me my lovely! Things will be okay!! No you cant just slip ans i refuse too let you...I mean it! Trust me... x


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Re: Regrets - February 16th 2009, 12:24 AM

So this was what you meant by look around the forums?

Sorry I can't believe you on the whole loving me part, it just doesn't exist =/. I feel like I've gone mentally so all I need to do now is go physically.


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Re: Regrets - February 16th 2009, 12:28 AM

Yeh uh!!
You can't or you don't want too..? - I'm sorry You feel like you have gone.. But that could change in time.. I know it can! - You cant go physically, Your not allowed too. x


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Re: Regrets - February 16th 2009, 12:33 AM

I can't I've lost too much. Who says I'm not allowed? It just doesn't matter.


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Re: Regrets - February 16th 2009, 12:38 AM

Babes I'm sorry.. =(
I know it dont matter what i say..But i say its not allowed and all the other people who care about you!
Babe it does matter.. It matters alot....

check ure Inbox again..

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Re: Regrets - February 16th 2009, 12:57 AM

Why does it matter? There's no point. I hurt so much


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Re: Regrets - February 16th 2009, 11:59 AM

It matters Because Faith HAS to stay. Your too amazing to go.
I know your hurting babes I really wish you wasn't hurting you don't deserve to be feeling like this.

What is it that makes you hurt so bad? (I know this is like a stuoid question)
But maybe we/you could work on how you can solve these things and come up with a solution.
I know its not has easy has i say, But it could work i know it can.
I dont want you hurting anymore and im sure you dont want to hurt either..
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Re: Regrets - February 16th 2009, 01:10 PM

I'm far from amazing =/. The pain won't go so there's just no point in being here. We all die anyway


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Re: Regrets - February 16th 2009, 01:17 PM

I think you should read my post in Depression and Suicide.
Sure, your regrets might hurt you, but you can put them right.
Everyone deserves a chance in life.
We might 'all die anyway', but to give up so soon? You were given life, be grateful and live it to its fullest.
   
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Re: Regrets - February 16th 2009, 01:17 PM

I know, Thats because amazing is not a good enough word for you.. Im not Kidding! - You need to start beleiving it.
What would make the pain go? (Apart from Faith leaving because thats NOT an option)
Yeah we all go..But when its the right time..Your time is not up..
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Re: Regrets - February 16th 2009, 05:14 PM

Nothing can make it go, I'm just stuck with my pain and I can't move on from it.


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Re: Regrets - February 16th 2009, 07:49 PM

Hey, I know you don't believe us but we really do care. I don't want to see you sad, and I don't want you to feel like this, I really do want you to see how beautiful the world can be. Just think about it. We were all born, and we all feel both sad and unbelievably happy at certain points in our lives. It's human to feel the way you do, because we all have regrets. I'm sure you're a good person, because otherwise you would not have these regrets for mistakes you made. You don't have to believe what I'm saying, although I do want you to. Just understand that we all really are here for you and we mean it. You can do this!! Things will get better, I promise!
   
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Re: Regrets - February 16th 2009, 07:55 PM

But would it really matter if I left? No one on here would matter, it'd just be one less poster.


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Re: Regrets - February 16th 2009, 08:01 PM

Omg!! You did Not just say that!! TH would be Faith-less!
I cant imagine it without you..! I'd be devasted seriously i would! And so would many other TH'ers! would be too..
You are loved by many on here.. you have so many friends here who would care!
I want you too fee better i hate knowing That your hurting and feeling like this. i really want too see you feel better i'd do anything!...


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Re: Regrets - February 16th 2009, 10:22 PM

Never know, a better Faith could come alone. Plus TH would be fine.
Thing is none of you can do anything to make it stop...I have no energy to do anything but let it consume me.


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