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Over-protective dad, seriously destroying relationships. -
January 26th 2011, 12:56 PM
My dad is such an over protective fuck head, I can't stand it. Our relationship is going down hill, he can't fucking see it though! He can't see how much he is distancing me from him. I know I'm going to rebel against him soon, I can feel it. And once I do, I'm going to tell him that it is his fault because he didn't give me enough freedom, when I was mature enough, and capable enough to look after myself. Hell, when I stay with my mum I practically look after myself, the only thing she does is cook dinner, and that's occasionally and doesn't even clean up. Anyways, not only is it ruining things between us, its ruining things with friends. Like tonight, it wasn't even 9:00pm on AUSTRALIA DAY the one day this WHOLE FUCKING HOLIDAYS that I have asked to be allowed to go out, so I was allowed to be driven to the beach at 2pm and driven home at 7:30pm and that's it. I asked him if I could go out with friends (whose mum was going to pick them up and drop everyone home and is also my best friend who I have known since i was 6) And he wont even let me get a chance to explain why I feel I should be allowed out for an hour or two at night. He just says no straight away, and wont even listen to me.
I don't fucking ask for much, and I barely ever ask to go out, but when I do I am always honest with him and everything but he still doesn't trust me and I hate it, I cant stand it any more. So tonight I'm going to go out anyway, once he falls asleep. Fuck him. Fuck all this over protection. If he doesn't cut me some slack I know I'm going to go off the rails, and when that happens it will be most likely too late to salvage our relationship. I can't ask my mum to go out because they are divorced and live in separate houses with split custody. I can't fucking stand it any more. |
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Re: Over-protective dad, seriously destroying relationships. -
January 30th 2011, 12:24 AM
Hey,
I'm sorry to hear about your dad.  My dad is kind of the same way, but not as extreme, so while I can sympathize with how you're feeling, your exact circumstances are beyond my imagination. What ended up happening? Are you okay? "Want to know a secret?
You are beautiful. Black, white, gay, straight, bisexual. Whether you are smart or quiet or impossibly in love with your best friend, someone out there cherishes your smile and gets butterflies when you walk into a room. Someone out there can't stop thinking about you. You Are Beautiful. Don't ever believe differently." If you ever want someone to talk to, about absolutely anything, feel free to inbox me!  |
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