I can't believe that I could even think that she liked me after I left her hanging. Why couldn't I just think!? She practically tells me "I want to go out with you" and what do I do? Nothing. Nothing at all. I really do like her. But honestly, shes already waited too long. She never talks to me anymore. I'm ALWAYS the one who goes up to her. Its like shes angry at me. I can't really blame her though I guess. I'm such an idiot. Everytime a girl I like talks to me I always try so hard to not say anything stupid, and I end up just not saying much of anything. I hate my life right now, and I have no idea what to do to make it any better...I'm so sick of being so shy and reserved. I want people to like me but i'm so afraid of what they think, that I end up just pushing them away...
Re: whats wrong with me? -
March 6th 2009, 12:47 AM
Hey, Well, you said that this girl likes you, right? So take you're chances and ask her out on a date. Take a big leap of faith, and do something completely out of your comfort zone. I know that alot of girls will become fusterated for a while because the guy they like is taking a while to admit their feelings, so it's normal for her to be feeling like this, but you're not an idiot. Almost everyone feels self-concious talking to someone they like, and it takes courage to ask someone out. Try not to worry what people think of you. You've got to live for you and not to please anyone else. :]