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Why Me? Here is a safe space to let it all out, where you can rant about all the bad things life throws your way. Sometimes it just helps to ask "why me?"

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Unhappy I know I messed up... - November 12th 2011, 04:31 AM

You know how everyone deserves a second chance at least once in their lives?? Yeah, I messed up. Yeah, I was a stubborn bitch. But, it still hurts. I still think of him every day. And, it's been 10 months since we've broken up. I just wouldn't fucking listen to anyone. They all told me to shut my mouth, he'll break up with you. But, I thought I knew him better than that. Apparently, not that well. Even though, I have changed so much. And, I talked to him constantly today... it doesn't change anything. He still thinks of me as this depressed, stubborn bitch. I wish I could show him the new me. But, I can't. Cause, I'm homeschooled, he lives 40 minutes away, and my mom hates him and his mom hates me. I wish I could go back and change everything. Cause, I swear... It wouldn't have ended up like this.

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Re: I know I messed up... - November 14th 2011, 01:10 AM

Hey Michelle, sometimes these things just happen. Don't beat yourself up over whats happened in the past, we make to make mistakes in order to learn and grow. Do you think you would be the better person you are today if you two hadn't broken up 10 months ago? There is a positive side to every negative thing that happens.
Since he lives far away and your parents hate you two, it doesn't sound like its an idea situation anyway. Not talking to him for awhile might be best so you can get over him and move on. Then you can find someone who lives closer and will see how you really are instead of being hung up on how you used to be.

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Re: I know I messed up... - November 16th 2011, 12:24 AM

Just like your signature says, everything happens for a reason. You cant change what happened, but you can learn from it.
It just wasn't meant to be. You'll find someone else and you will find happiness again. But you have to let this one go. It hurts a lot, I know, but its temporary. Stay strong!

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