Didn't want to say this

[Nicole!]

But I need to vent. Badly.
I told my best friend that I might be pregnant.
What did she do? Yell at me so that everyone in the whole fucking cafeteria could hear what I did. Then she punched me really hard and basically said its my fault and I should have told him to use a condom.
I'm so fucking sick of this. I get it, I know its my fault. But does everyone have to be so harsh about it?
Worst of all, I don't think she even cares. She doesn't fucking care that my life might be ruined.

[Ibanez]

It's hack, I know, but your friend wouldn't be angry if she didn't care. It's the same thing when parents are mad at their kids for doing something wrong. It's frustrating seeing someone you care about make an obvious mistake. This isn't affecting her life at all, she's upset because its affecting yours. She wont be mad forever, its just a reactionary thing. Trust me, she cares a whole lot more than you think.

If she wasn't angry when you told her, then I'd be worried . Good luck.

[Nicole!]

Originally Posted by Caliber

It's hack, I know, but your friend wouldn't be angry if she didn't care. It's the same thing when parents are mad at their kids for doing something wrong. It's frustrating seeing someone you care about make an obvious mistake. This isn't affecting her life at all, she's upset because its affecting yours. She wont be mad forever, its just a reactionary thing. Trust me, she cares a whole lot more than you think.

If she wasn't angry when you told her, then I'd be worried . Good luck.

Well she didn't seem angry exactly. She's pretty violent anyways, definitely not out of the normal for her to hit me when I do something stupid.
I guess she had kind of a 'whatever' attitude.

[Tynan]

Nicole she doesnt seem like a really good friend if shes violent with you. Maybe just ignore her for a while. And if you need to talk about it just send me a message. Things will get better

[Nicole!]

She texted me last night and apologized and said she really is worried. I guess she just wasn't quite sure how to handle it.
Thanks guys

[annaft]

Glad everything is okay now

[Nicole!]

Originally Posted by annaft

Glad everything is okay now

Well not quite everything...

[The Goblins Blade]

Sounds like she went way to far, if you told me you were pregnant i would be happy for you and supportive at the same time.

[Nicole!]

Originally Posted by The Goblins Blade

Sounds like she went way to far, if you told me you were pregnant i would be happy for you and supportive at the same time.

Thanks Will
I'm praying that I'm not though. I have to wait a couple weeks before I can find out.

[The Goblins Blade]

Originally Posted by Melody

Thanks Will
I'm praying that I'm not though. I have to wait a couple weeks before I can find out.

Np. You can always come talk to me if you want support

[Le bonheur*]

I'm sorry she wasn't all that supportive, Nicole. I really hope that she comes around and learns how to react in a more proper way... I also hope things work out the way that you want them to. I'm always here if you need/want to talk. <3

[Jas]

This is a total side note, but...

Originally Posted by Caliber

If she wasn't angry when you told her, then I'd be worried . Good luck.

....really? Because I have to say, being trusted enough by a friend to have them confide something like that to me - my first response is definitely not going to be anger. I also sure as hell hope that none of my friends would be angry at me if I was in Melody's situation and needed support. It seems like you were right and she just didn't know how to handle her response but I still think she reacted badly and politely disagree with you.


Anyway Melody, I'm glad you've reconciled and I wish you the best of luck. It's hard, needing to wait, yeah? Try not to dwell on it because there's nothing you can do until you can take the test and stress is only going to convince you of things that might not be true. Chin up!

[Nicole!]

Thanks everyone!
Now I just have to figure out how to get Sean out of my life.

[Le bonheur*]

Does he attend your school?

[Nicole!]

No, he graduated last year. But he knows where I live and what school I go to.

[Le bonheur*]

So I'm guessing he shows up a lot when he's unwanted?

..I'm sorry, I don't know much about the situation.

[Nicole!]

Its okay, I haven't said much
And no, not really. He goes from constantly asking to hang out, to ignoring me for a couple days. Its really hot/cold but he's been lying to me and saying that he doesn't just want me for sex, but I know that's not true. That's all he ever wants to do.

[Le bonheur*]

He doesn't really seem like a good guy. I think that if he's going to be like that, you should really just delete his number, block him on FB, and try to avoid him at all costs. I would say you should try to talk to him about how you're feeling but I get the feeling that you already did from you saying he said 'he doesn't just want me for sex'... You deserve better than that. You deserve a relationship with feelings, not just sex.

[Nicole!]

Yeah, the problem is he has anger issues. I tried to ignore him but that didn't work very well, he kept making me feel guilty.
Thank though Brittany

[Le bonheur*]

Anytime!
Just as a sidenote, don't let him make you feel guilty. You deserve happiness and that's what you should be aiming for.

[Xx.Shes.Unbroken.xX]

Originally Posted by Melody

Its okay, I haven't said much
And no, not really. He goes from constantly asking to hang out, to ignoring me for a couple days. Its really hot/cold but he's been lying to me and saying that he doesn't just want me for sex, but I know that's not true. That's all he ever wants to do.

My ex is the same way. -Rolls eyes- Yeah, I know exactly how you feel about that. lol