Loosening the bottle cap.

[katpanda]

Just over a week ago me and my mum had a arguement over something that in the end was majorly her fault and she was trying to push the blame on me. The next day I had plans to meet up in the city with my boyfriend who wa going to take me on a lunch date. While I was on the train on the way to meet him mum called me and she was starting arguments with me over what had happened the day before, I kept telling her we will talk about it when I got home and she kept subtley insisting that I come home because the weather wasn't looking all that good (even though it did brighten up later). That phone call turned my good mood to a bad one, I was angry all day and my boyfriend was worried. My boyfriend lives 2 hours away and I didn't want to go home so I decided I wanted to go and stay at his for the night. I knew mum would be totally against it, but I went anyway. Such an irrational decision, I know. Mum was calling me and was yelling over the phone for me to come home. SHe was threatening my boyfriends mum and etc. It was getting late so I decided to just go and get pciked up from the closest train station my other family members and stay with them the night.
Mum blamed my decision on my boyfriend, saying that he should have said no to me coming or at least made me call my mum to tell her where I was. He obviously didn;t think of that, he just wanted me to be okay.

Because of this, mum dislikes my boyfriend and she keeps provoking him over facebook. She keeps making out like he is the only bad one here. It isn;t fair. I haven't been allowed to talk to him or see him since that day and it is killing me.
I wanted him to come to my graduation which I am singing at, but no.. He can't.
I just wish I would have been rational that day and just went home and sorted out the problem.
I hope this all gets fixed soon..
I approached my nan and mum yesterday telling them that we should all sit down with my boyfriend as well and come to a solution that we are all happy to live by for a while.
I just want to move out already! UGH.
I could keep going, but I need to rinse this hair dye out.

[softball]

It sounds like your mum needs a serious mind-re-adjustment. You should try sitting her down and calmly explaining how much this boy means to you and how much you miss him. Tell your mum that it was your decision to stay there and that you respect her for looking out for you, but also that you're almost an adult and you need to exercise some independence. Tell her how much it would mean to you to see you boyfriend at your graduation and tell her how much it would mean to him to watch you graduate. It sounds like you have a great guy, so try letting your mum see that. I hope I've helped <3 message me if you ever need to sweetie

[katpanda]

I have tried all of that, but she always has to come back at me with petty little things. She thinks she can see bad things in him. She just doesn't know him well enough.
I just hope things get sorted soon.
Thanks for the help <3