Questions for the opposite sex

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

Originally Posted by Shikamaru

For the ladies:

What is the one thing you look for in a man?

Two things actually: honesty & respect.

[Choose]

(Perhaps a non pg-13 post)


Why/ how do women enjoy anal sex?

[sergio926]

Hey girls! I'm a guy and i need help dressing nicer! Not too flashy, not too out there, just something that might catch girl's eyes. I just lost a crapload of weight and i never really dressed well in the first place. I wear a lot of t-shirts. bands t-shirts, etc. But I'm really not getting many looks from girls because I just look so plain. I started wearing flannels a little more and i like them. I just don't know where to start on dressing better.

[Zyzz]

Originally Posted by sergio926

Hey girls! I'm a guy and i need help dressing nicer! Not too flashy, not too out there, just something that might catch girl's eyes. I just lost a crapload of weight and i never really dressed well in the first place. I wear a lot of t-shirts. bands t-shirts, etc. But I'm really not getting many looks from girls because I just look so plain. I started wearing flannels a little more and i like them. I just don't know where to start on dressing better.

This is going to be coming from a guy, But really if you want to get noticed by a girl youll have to do what is called peacocking. Show yourself as a potential guy in there life. Sure you will have to dress with what makes you, well you. But try going a lil classier. maybe add a playful either suit or sports coat.

Or if you want to go with your current style get close that fit. and add some a accessories. Like add a leather bracelet, a couple of rings, and maybe a necklace. But ones that will go with your style.

You cant also relay on how you dress alone. You also have to put yourself out there. And when you do show confidence. walk with a meaning in your step. even if you dont have much confidence just act as you do. and in time that feeling of confidence will blend in with your personality. if you need anymore help just shoot me a message i do have some knowledge.

[Choose]

Originally Posted by sergio926

Hey girls! I'm a guy and i need help dressing nicer! Not too flashy, not too out there, just something that might catch girl's eyes. I just lost a crapload of weight and i never really dressed well in the first place. I wear a lot of t-shirts. bands t-shirts, etc. But I'm really not getting many looks from girls because I just look so plain. I started wearing flannels a little more and i like them. I just don't know where to start on dressing better.

Originally Posted by Shikamaru

This is going to be coming from a guy, But really if you want to get noticed by a girl youll have to do what is called peacocking. Show yourself as a potential guy in there life. Sure you will have to dress with what makes you, well you. But try going a lil classier. maybe add a playful either suit or sports coat.

Or if you want to go with your current style get close that fit. and add some a accessories. Like add a leather bracelet, a couple of rings, and maybe a necklace. But ones that will go with your style.

You cant also relay on how you dress alone. You also have to put yourself out there. And when you do show confidence. walk with a meaning in your step. even if you dont have much confidence just act as you do. and in time that feeling of confidence will blend in with your personality. if you need anymore help just shoot me a message i do have some knowledge.

I am also a dude. Something I would ask that Shikamaru is- how old are you? In high school or early college the suit/ sport coat might not go over so well unless you are in a little bit more of a formal setting. It can, hoever be pulled off depending on the pants and stuff you wear (I like the look when it is pulled off like Dr. Gregory House in "House")

I'd prefer a well-fitting solid-colored button down and some good looking blue jeans for a casual setting, and you can always add khakis and tuck the shirt in if you need slightly more formal.

I do like Shikamaru's advice about the accessories. Just one little thing that is out of the ordinary and perhaps sentimental to you can get the ladies to be like "hm... what is that?" and voila! A conversation has started. Conversely, if a young lady is wearing something out of the ordinary or whatever, YOU can ask her the same thing, and another conversation has started.

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

Originally Posted by sergio926

Hey girls! I'm a guy and i need help dressing nicer! Not too flashy, not too out there, just something that might catch girl's eyes. I just lost a crapload of weight and i never really dressed well in the first place. I wear a lot of t-shirts. bands t-shirts, etc. But I'm really not getting many looks from girls because I just look so plain. I started wearing flannels a little more and i like them. I just don't know where to start on dressing better.

Honestly, just wear whatever is comfortable to you. I tend to look at guys dressed more casual anyways. But that's just my opinion.

Originally Posted by Dinosaur Trainer

Why/ how do women enjoy anal sex?

Depending on the girl, it can feel good. Personally, the few times I tried it, it felt good for a few minutes, then would start to hurt. I don't like to try that anymore though since the last time hurt a ton. I just did it for my boyfriend.

[Akito]

Originally Posted by Shikamaru

For the ladies:

What is the one thing you look for in a man?

I look for a few things, that he's a good listener and is honest, respectful, good natured. Keeps his word. Can take a joke, but is also serious when appropriate. Courteous, but not overly so. I like a good balance, no extremities in behavior (and I don't mean mood swings or something temporary). Can make me laugh, can make me feel good when I'm around him. : )

[sergio926]

I can't seem to find any girls like the nice ones in this thread haha

[Ice-cream]

Originally Posted by tk338

How did you meet your partner, if you have one?[/b]

I met him in Maths Class when i was 14, I'm still with him now

Question for the boys, if a girl would do anything for you,w aht would you most want her to do?

[jay34]

Originally Posted by Ice-cream

Question for the boys, if a girl would do anything for you,w aht would you most want her to do?

As long as they're comfortable with me and I can trust them, that's all I ask.

[Pelios]

Women and men this one is for both.
What do you think is the biggest mistake that a man/woman can do in their relationships?

[Eternal]

Originally Posted by Pelios

Women and men this one is for both.
What do you think is the biggest mistake that a man/woman can do in their relationships?

I personally think its to cheat. You are with your significant other for a reason, so under no circumstances should you cheat on them with somebody else.

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

Originally Posted by Pelios

Women and men this one is for both.
What do you think is the biggest mistake that a man/woman can do in their relationships?

Lying, cheating, disloyalty, basically any dishonesty, & any form of abuse.

[Zyzz]

Originally Posted by Sincerely Yours

Lying, cheating, disloyalty, basically any dishonesty, & any form of abuse.

I'll have to agree with this and I'll also add disrespect

[Acheron]

Originally Posted by Sincerely Yours

Lying, cheating, disloyalty, basically any dishonesty, & any form of abuse.

These, and using sex as a weapon.

[Evanesco]

Originally Posted by Pelios

Women and men this one is for both.
What do you think is the biggest mistake that a man/woman can do in their relationships?

To add to the other things people have said, I'd go with accusing the person of cheating without evidence. I have to admit, I did this, and it was definitely the worst thing I could have done to the guy.

[Zyzz]

I have a few questions for the ladies. Gotta love thinking while at work

Question one: Why do girls find musicians sexier then regular guys?


Question two: What instrument do you find sexiest on a guy?


Question three: Do you like(Would you like) it if a guy quoted Shakespeare to you?

[PSY]

Originally Posted by Shikamaru

Question one: Why do girls find musicians sexier then regular guys?

I don't find musicians any sexier than "regular guys." What I DO find sexy is developing a talent that requires a great deal of time and discipline. You can't learn how to play an instrument overnight, nor can you learn a computer/verbal language overnight, or a sport, or a lot of things. If someone aspires to do more than play video games all day (which is a "talent", but not one I value in a boyfriend), I'll find that "sexier" than Joe Schmoe who doesn't challenge himself in other ways.

Originally Posted by Shikamaru

Question two: What instrument do you find sexiest on a guy?

It doesn't matter. =)

Originally Posted by Shikamaru

Question three: Do you like(Would you like) it if a guy quoted Shakespeare to you?

Absolutely, assuming he's not just grabbing and memorizing random quotes. If someone can quote Shakespeare because they've actually read his works, then that shows he put time and discipline into studying literature.

[Eternal]

Originally Posted by Shikamaru

Question one: Why do girls find musicians sexier then regular guys?

I'm not exactly sure. I love music, so when a guy can sing or play an instrument its always really nice to hear him play something for me.

Originally Posted by Shikamaru

Question two: What instrument do you find sexiest on a guy?

Guitar or piano

Originally Posted by Shikamaru

Question three: Do you like(Would you like) it if a guy quoted Shakespeare to you?

Yes, I love Shakespeare and I think it would be really cute!

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

Originally Posted by Shikamaru

Question one: Why do girls find musicians sexier then regular guys?

I personally find musicians sexier, because it's a common interest.

Originally Posted by Shikamaru

Question two: What instrument do you find sexiest on a guy?

Guitar or drums.

Originally Posted by Shikamaru

Question three: Do you like(Would you like) it if a guy quoted Shakespeare to you?

Depends on the quote

[Warachia]

Can dancing(even randomly for no reason), attract a girl?(in say a situation, where no one else is dancing)?

Do girls hate guys who are "random","off-the-wall" or "weird"?(Like me, because I'm UNDATEABLE GUY~sugoi. >)

[Eternal]

Originally Posted by Warachia

Can dancing(even randomly for no reason), attract a girl?(in say a situation, where no one else is dancing)?

It definitely can. You have to think about how many girls there are in the world. Dancing is bound to attract some of them. Personally, I love when a guy is a good dancer.

Originally Posted by Warachia

Do girls hate guys who are "random","off-the-wall" or "weird"?(Like me, because I'm UNDATEABLE GUY~sugoi. >)

Not all girls hate it. The more mature ones might, but you're only 16 so lots of girls won't hate it, they'll love someone who they can just have fun with.

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

Originally Posted by Warachia

Can dancing(even randomly for no reason), attract a girl?(in say a situation, where no one else is dancing)?

Do girls hate guys who are "random","off-the-wall" or "weird"?(Like me, because I'm UNDATEABLE GUY~sugoi. >)

I love random guys.

[Zyzz]

Do girls love dimples on a guy? just wondering.

[Evanesco]

Originally Posted by Shikamaru

Do girls love dimples on a guy? just wondering.

I don't really have a preference. I have nothing against dimples, but they're not exactly the deciding factor. xD If he has dimples and looks cute then that's great.

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

Originally Posted by Shikamaru

Do girls love dimples on a guy? just wondering.

YESSSS.

[Warachia]

Do girls like it when you sing on stage, even if your voice isn't exactly good?

[anony mouse.]

It depends. If you're really dreadful, sometimes it just turns into secondhand embarrassment.

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

Originally Posted by Warachia

Do girls like it when you sing on stage, even if your voice isn't exactly good?

I agree with Cheyenne. It really just depends.

[Eternal]

Originally Posted by Warachia

Do girls like it when you sing on stage, even if your voice isn't exactly good?

I think if they were trying it can be cute, but sometimes people can overdo it and it just looks silly

[Evanesco]

Originally Posted by Warachia

Do girls like it when you sing on stage, even if your voice isn't exactly good?

If a guy can sing, I find it attractive. If a guy isn't good then it's embarrassing and I'd rather he showed me something he was good at, not something he thought I'd like.

[Warachia]

Do girls like guys who write poetry or their own quotations(in my case.), even if it's dark?

[Evanesco]

Originally Posted by Warachia

Do girls like guys who write poetry or their own quotations(in my case.), even if it's dark?

If a guy is good at writing poetry then for me it can be a good quality. However, I did date a guy who wrote incredibly dark poetry, shoved it in my face but wouldn't read anything I had written. So in his case it wasn't a good thing.

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

Originally Posted by Warachia

Do girls like guys who write poetry or their own quotations(in my case.), even if it's dark?

If he's good at it, sure.

[theawesomeman]

What are good presents to get my gf for christmas

[Warachia]

Would being silent be the best girl repellent?

Do girls hate guys sit away from everyone else(in the back,at a empty table,etc.)?

[Zyzz]

Originally Posted by theawesomeman

What are good presents to get my gf for christmas

Find what her interests are and go from there. And maybe add a nice romantic gesture to it. Maybe a nice poem or note telling her how you feel about her. It may sound cheesy, but more often then not cheesy works wonders.

Originally Posted by Warachia

Would being silent be the best girl repellent?

Do girls hate guys sit away from everyone else(in the back,at a empty table,etc.)?

This one I can easily answer. Really the best girl repellent is being a huge jerk. Not showing them any kind of proper respect or kindness.

And girls don't hate guys who sit away from everyone else. Most girls may not approach a guy that's like that. Only because they will seem harder to approach. But I'm only going by what I've seen and talked to girls about.

[Warachia]

How come being silent isn't the best repellent?

Do girls hate guys who don't talk much,listen, but only give short answers, when asked questions?

[Zyzz]

Originally Posted by Warachia

How come being silent isn't the best repellent?

Do girls hate guys who don't talk much,listen, but only give short answers, when asked questions?

Because silence is golden It could really repel some girls. But most times being an utter jerk repels girls the quickest.

Honestly a lot of girls I've met love it when a guy can listen. Also being quiet is a good thing. You'll learn more about her. And sure short answers are good. But some girls would rather have a good sized answer on it. So she can learn about you.

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

Originally Posted by theawesomeman

What are good presents to get my gf for christmas

Anything that shows you pay attention to the little things. For example, I'm getting my boyfriend an aquarium, because I know his old tank broke & he has tons of fish applications on his phone.

Originally Posted by Warachia

Would being silent be the best girl repellent?

Do girls hate guys sit away from everyone else(in the back,at a empty table,etc.)?

Silent isn't the best girl repellent. & Girls don't necessarily hate when guy sit away from everyone else.

Originally Posted by Warachia

How come being silent isn't the best repellent?

Do girls hate guys who don't talk much,listen, but only give short answers, when asked questions?

Silent doesn't mean the guy doesn't want to talk to girls, it could mean he is just shy. & It really depends on the girl about whether they hate it if guys don't talk much, listen, & give only short answers. Personally, I hate it because it shows the guy isn't interested.