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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - December 13th 2019, 06:09 AM

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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - December 13th 2019, 07:03 AM

Did you intentionally jip me out of holiday pay for Christmas? 3 day off, but no holiday pay after you keep trying to get me to pick up more hours. I'm not sure how I feel about that.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - December 13th 2019, 07:49 AM

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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - December 13th 2019, 11:28 PM

I feel like I said something to push you away. I can't put my finger on it though.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - December 14th 2019, 05:55 AM

I hope you don't come back. You haven't fooled anyone.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - December 14th 2019, 07:02 AM

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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - December 24th 2019, 06:55 PM

Yes, you're getting the bare minimum. Considering what I put up with from you, you're lucky to get that; and it's not my fault if you refuse to listen when I try to explain why.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - December 24th 2019, 09:25 PM

I wished I hadn't bothered asking you. I feel like I made a poor choice by asking you to join me because you end up being miserable almost all the time. I just wanted to have fun with you on Christmas Eve and now it feels soured and miserable.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - December 26th 2019, 08:07 AM

And I'm sure every other illness is a "choice" too. I hate judgemental people like you.

I would've 100% quit if I had to deal with her while everything else was a mess. But, if she comes back and continues her bullshit, I will 100% quit. Keep her on a leash or you're losing me.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 5th 2020, 07:21 PM

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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 6th 2020, 11:29 AM

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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 6th 2020, 02:23 PM

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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 6th 2020, 02:51 PM

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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 8th 2020, 11:51 PM

Whether you were right or not, it's ironic as hell. I guess the longer you get away with it, the more you convince yourself it's okay. I feel sorry for anybody you ever treat. Just because you somehow got away with what you did to me and managed to fly under the radar for YEARS when I couldn't, doesn't mean you're any better suited to deal with people than you claimed I am. At least my concern for people is genuine, my feelings are real and I'm not capable of faking or hiding who I really am.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 9th 2020, 12:54 PM

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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 11th 2020, 03:30 PM

I really wish you'd ask him a little more to go get things. I get why you don't, but I've told you so many times that I'm busy. It feels like my time isn't valuable.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 12th 2020, 07:01 AM

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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 12th 2020, 06:20 PM

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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 14th 2020, 12:52 PM

I get it's my fault for forgetting and agreeing to work, but I've done everything I can already to get an earlier shift, so going on at me to ask to leave even earlier and to call in sick is getting frustrating now.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 14th 2020, 02:24 PM

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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 22nd 2020, 11:45 PM

okay, i'mma talk to 2 people lol. the things i wanna say to them are very different
Riley: I love you. You're literally so beautiful. I really want to be your best friend forever. I know you're best friends with Sophie, but... can I be your other best friend? You're so pretty, nice, and I'm sorry that you go through so much pressure. I'm really sorry, Riley. What your mom said in fourth grade isn't true. You're so perfect. So pretty, so nice, so talented. Can I work with you on the makerspace project? I really want to. I'm going to tell you for the thousandth time; you're beautiful.
Bea: I hate you. You pretend to be so nice and sweet, but you're really a liar. Also, I don't like how, when I poured my heart out to you, you were like "I think you should know that your message was cut off after 1000 words." First of all, it was characters, NOT words. GENIUS!!!!!! Second of all, I already knew that. Third of all, why don't you focus on what I'm SAYING? Also, I didn't talk about you behind your back, you liar. I hate you!!!!!!!!!!!!! Bea, I thought you were a great friend in fourth grade. I thought you were the best of the best. But by fifth grade, it started to get fuzzy, and now, Bea, I see who you really are. I wish you were Riley. In fact, if we could all be like R, the world would be so much better. But you're not Riley, or Nadia, or Sophie. You're Bea, and that's bad. With a capital B.
   
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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 24th 2020, 09:03 AM

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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 2nd 2020, 08:11 AM

I know you're hurting, I know it sucks, and I wish I could do something to help. I just hope you pull through it. You know we care, even if it doesn't mean that much to you. We're here, and we're staying.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 3rd 2020, 08:21 AM

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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 9th 2020, 11:46 PM

This is more of a thought that what I'd wish I could say but...

I kind of wish I'd see you on the bus more. I did quite a lot before university and then I went away. Seeing you for the first time after all these years, knowing you still live nearby, I really wish I could get to know you.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 10th 2020, 02:41 AM

I'm working this nightmare schedule so YOU can have lunch on Friday, so you'd BETTER ENJOY it. You're welcome!


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 10th 2020, 08:14 AM

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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 12th 2020, 11:58 PM

You say all the time you raised him as a "3rd caregiver" out of necessity and now that you have support, after 18 years, 15 of him literally being obligated, you wonder why he's always focused on her and you have to encourage him to have his own life because you don't want him to feel obligated anymore?! You raised him from basically her day one, to be obligated to care for her. He's built his life around caring, and suddenly you're mad that he doesn't know how not to? It makes no sense to me.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 13th 2020, 08:28 AM

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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 14th 2020, 12:57 AM

Why did you do that? Couldn't you have at least asked me beforehand? There was a reason I left it blank. I worked hard for it, and you've gone and violated it. I feel violated.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 14th 2020, 10:18 AM

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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 14th 2020, 11:50 PM

I want you to leave me alone. I'm extremely close to going no contact. I don't care if you're my dad, you're clearly toxic and even my therapist admits you have "narcissistic tendencies and probably won't change."


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 15th 2020, 09:41 AM

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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 18th 2020, 03:16 AM

Stream is late and you deleted your tweet, I know that usually means you're having a bad mental health day. Please take care of yourself. I hope you're okay!


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 18th 2020, 11:19 AM

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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - Yesterday, 08:52 AM

First of all, you need to mind your own business and not mention it EVERY TIME. And second, even IF I qualify, it's a HUGE hassle for completely UNRELIABLE transportation. Considering I'd be taking it to WORK, I can't risk being late or I'd lose my job. Training would be another option, but there are NO BUSES available. I could at least learn to do it by myself, but there's nothing to RIDE by myself!


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