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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 15th 2021, 07:31 AM

I really want to put your number back in my phone, because I'm pretty sure you didn't actually change it. But, having it triggered the shit out of me, and your rant about it did the same. I suppose if I'm meant to get it back, either you'll tell me it's the same, or you'll give it to me again for some reason. You are constantly flooded with contact, I'm the last thing you need to deal with. But, it's only because I care and want to help you. And I know you know that.

Deleted, by you or automatically, it's probably a good thing. I'm not going to be the one to tell you that your videos more than 60 days old are all gone...


I'm done being a creepy stalker now. If I'm meant to have it back for some reason, I'll get it back.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 15th 2021, 10:01 PM

Why does it feel like you can never take a conversation seriously unless it's about you getting one up on me? I get it, you've got issues at work too, but you're paid significantly more than I am to put up with them. And I've already offered to help if I can, so you don't now need to talk about how great you'll be at helping when I've already agreed. You're my best friend but sometimes it's just exhausting to try and deal with, especially right now.



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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 16th 2021, 11:25 PM

I know it may not seem like it, but I am trying.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 17th 2021, 05:40 PM

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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 17th 2021, 09:34 PM

I think I'm messaging you too much.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 20th 2021, 08:08 AM

Your message may be valid, but you're probably going to get backlash for it. If you wouldn't say it about physical health, you shouldn't say it about mental health. Whether you suffer from a given illness or not.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 21st 2021, 01:56 PM

I don't think you realise your behaviour. You have a problem and you fail to see it. Before long, we're all going to leave you.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 21st 2021, 05:09 PM

I may look like a (expletive) but I sure as hell am not an (expletive). I certainly do not have the simple logic of (expletive-plural).


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 22nd 2021, 02:32 PM

You obviously have no self-control. You keep buying things. You're not going to be able to repair them.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 25th 2021, 07:32 AM

Almost 6 years later, I only have two questions:
What part of Ableism is empathic?
What part of gaslighting is ethical?

The answers are NONE you broke me because it didn't matter to you, and I wanted to be one of you so badly, I didn't realize what was happening. Your profession is ablest and hypocritical as F*** and you know it. I just wish everyone else knew the truth too.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 25th 2021, 04:26 PM

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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 27th 2021, 05:44 PM

Why are you telling me what I say makes zero sense when you're the one who started it. I'm merely responding to all the information you've given. Wrong information at that. You should consider all the facts and conduct proper research before making sweeping statements like that. Then have the gall to call me arrogant because I called you out on your behaviour.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 27th 2021, 11:25 PM

I am sorry, I know it was wrong. I was also panicked, triggered, and stand by what I originally said. There are far worse things to do than love too much and overstep with good intentions. Especially when less than stable.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 10th 2021, 06:51 AM

I feel sorry for you, it must suck to go through life that pissed off all the time

I'm not responsible for your boundaries, or lack thereof. I think the worst part of that, besides the fact that I was guilty of it, was the fact that you blamed us after admitting that you "Never set boundaries."

So, you blocked me, after I apologized. I literally did NOTHING to you, I think that's pretty shitty. But, if you consider yourself better than the rest of us because you "know how he is and can handle him." then maybe it's okay that you blocked me for apparently no reason.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 11th 2021, 07:43 PM

I bet I didn't make a 'bad investment' now did I?


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 24th 2021, 02:31 PM

I'd be more worried with the amount of calories I consume than how many drinks I have.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 25th 2021, 04:23 PM

Sometimes I wish you'd give me a second chance. I think we'd be better this go around.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 26th 2021, 12:16 AM

You don't need to make up 15 excuses when I've already called you out on being a liar It's not that deep, I just wont go to you in the future when I want something done properly is all.



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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 26th 2021, 04:06 AM

I thought my positive attitude would be contagious, and you'd be happier. Instead you dragged me down and we're both sad all the time.
   
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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 27th 2021, 06:02 AM

It sounds stupid, but I didn't know if you wanted me to take everything off the rack and fit it in somewhere, or move the whole rack to the floor and find a spot for it. Either way was too big of a pain in the ass. So, I cleared you a spot to put the rack, and if you want to just move the stuff, you can do that yourself.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 28th 2021, 06:00 AM

You make a lot of good points, but you also admit throughout the entirety of every video that it's mostly conjecture and that you have NO idea what you're talking about, which makes a lot of it completely invalid..


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - March 2nd 2021, 01:31 AM

If you truly want what you say you do you really need to communicate more.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - March 4th 2021, 08:19 PM

I told you that would happen didnt I.



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