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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - December 12th 2021, 05:37 AM

25 years later and you're STILL haunting me because you chose humiliation over constructive help. You were the adult, and had you acted like one, I might not be this f***ed up. You weren't the only one, but you were the first one when I was particularly vulnerable. I remember back to finally having the guts to tell you everything and then letting you go because "I don't care, I'm never going to see her again." I wish I could've maintained that.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - December 19th 2021, 04:12 PM

Don't go, please don't go, please don't go.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - December 20th 2021, 08:45 AM

Actually, maybe you should go.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - December 20th 2021, 06:38 PM

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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - December 21st 2021, 12:11 AM

You're making me melt. I can't stop thinking about you and it's horrible. The way you turned and smiled at me so enthusiastically. The way you spoke to me. I just want to melt.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - December 21st 2021, 01:11 AM

You are a bitch and everyone hates you. That's why we're leaving in droves. We went from having the best manager most of us had ever had to dealing with you, your shitty management style, and your condescending as fuck attitude. And you don't see it. You'll just blame anyone who leaves for being "anti-team" or whatever other bullshit excuse you come up with that doesn't involve you being the cause or having to change anything about yourself.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - December 21st 2021, 11:17 AM

I wish I knew, I wish I knew, if you're the best or the worst that's ever happened to me.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 2nd 2022, 08:13 PM

I want to complain about how horrible people are, and they are! But, I almost feel sorry for them. You're so bored and unfulfilled in your own sad little lives that you get completely up in arms over things that DON'T EVEN AFFECT YOU! PATHETIC. At least I was directly insulted, the rest of you have no excuse.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 2nd 2022, 08:40 PM

I cut you off from Facebook a month ago but you've appeared twice in my dreams since then.

Please, just... get out of my subconsciousness. Stop sending me vibes and energy, just fucking stop.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 3rd 2022, 02:52 PM

Maybe it would be better for both of us if we had never met each other!!!!


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 7th 2022, 02:56 AM

I will not allow you to pass blame to me for your shitty management decisions because you are unwilling to take responsibility for them. The reality is you screwed me over because you could and thought you'd get away with it no questions asked, Then came at me for asking questions and getting mad at your attitude. And you can claim it wasn't personal all you want, the timing was too coincidental for me to believe that. I've been through this once in my life and I refuse to accept it again.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 9th 2022, 09:33 PM

I really didn't expect you to be there today. It was still really nice to see you though.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 10th 2022, 06:16 AM

If you try to call me in, I will be torn. You cut everyone's hours to shreds, so I need the money. But, I am SICK to death of picking up everyone else's slack, only to end up screwed over in return. You obviously can't schedule appropriately, so why should I bail you out?! Especially considering that you just stabbed me in the back. You obviously don't want me there any more than I already am, you've said your piece and I don't owe you favors. But, yeah the "extra" money would be nice.


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Unhappy Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 13th 2022, 07:16 PM

If I'm doing something wrong, I wish you'd tell me more lightly.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 15th 2022, 04:32 PM

Ouch. That one hit hard....


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 15th 2022, 07:19 PM

You're so sweet. "I wish there was something I could do, if it was anybody but her..." I wish I could take you with me, I'll miss you SO MUCH

After 4.5 years of busting my ass to keep things afloat only to be screwed over in return time and time again, this is how it ends. With you blaming me and no one beliving you would act like that and saying it doesn't make sense. Sounds so fucking familiar I can't even. This is probably how its going to go for the rest of my life.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 18th 2022, 01:26 AM

ur messing with my head...i dunno what i want anymore
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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 18th 2022, 07:30 PM

Phone interviews are a thing, WHY do I have to meet in person forever away for a job that is supposed to be 10 minutes from home!?


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 20th 2022, 03:08 PM

no 1 cares, stop telling me u do…i just wanna disappear


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 21st 2022, 02:35 AM

If I run into either of your bosses or her again, I WILL IMMEDIATELY tell them what you've done. It's clear you don't want or think you need me, I don't owe you any favors, and they like me a lot better than you do. I deserve better, and just because I will leave because of this, doesn't mean I'm doing so without letting YOUR superiors know that your behavior is at the root of it. You don't have as much power as you think, and obviously you need to learn how to handle it.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 24th 2022, 09:33 PM

Please come more often so I can see you.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 25th 2022, 08:30 PM

I wish I could go back to my childhood and reconnect with you, and it feels like it'd be impossible to reconnect today.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 25th 2022, 11:34 PM

You know exactly what you did. Personal or not doesn't matter. And the fact that you're the only one who's okay with it, is just proof that you did in fact screw me over. The victim-blaming when confronted was just icing on the cake.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 26th 2022, 12:12 AM

That's perpetuating a very dangerous lifestyle.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 27th 2022, 02:36 AM

I don't know why that hurt, it's not like you're the first one to not work, or not be okay with me. But, I'm not meeting until I'm ready, I won't be pushed into it, and I'm not going to do it as an ultimatum. I don't need anyone badly enough to compromise on the big things just to "keep" them.

People like you are the reason I leave notifications off for replies and don't read them. It's nothing anyone else couldn't do, and you better believe she's probably done the same, as have you for yourself. Google has been right for me SO MANY TIMES, who are you to tell me what I should or shouldn't do?!


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - January 31st 2022, 01:41 AM

And if I cry walking out of there on my last day, it won't be for you; and it won't be because of you.
You don't deserve that reaction. It will be because of the amazing coworkers I'm losing, and the memories I'll be leaving behind. For the part of me that loved it there so much, she never wants to leave. It's because of the respect I received there before you, and the growth that it allowed that I know I deserve better, that I didn't fall for your attempt at manipulative victim-blaming, and that I'm not afraid to ask for it. I am not only no longer served, but stabbed in the back for no reason. It won't be because of you, it will be because the choice was taken away from me. You admitted I did NOTHING to cause it, so this one is your full responsibility and you will never take it. Because people like you don't do well with power, and you never learn. And for the record, it's not just the loss of hours, that happens everywhere (although "cut hours" before you took over meant my minimum of 20, not 5); it's because the hours were cut as a result of/because you stabbed me in the back.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 4th 2022, 01:36 PM

I give up trying to interact with you. I really like you, but no matter how many times I try and place myself in a situation to talk to you, or try and look at you to make eye contact... I get nothing back. I could literally see you looking at me from the corner of your eye. You wait until I've passed by. It's time to move on.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 4th 2022, 10:46 PM

I know this is silly, because it's so unlikely, but I'm scared something bad will happen to you. I guess with my fear of planes and new places, I'm catastrophising. I can't help but fear something will go wrong, something will happen to you. It hurts always having you so far away. I just want to be able to keep you close, where I can always know you're safe. I'm sorry, I know I'm overreacting. It's very likely you'll be fine. But I can't help it. Please, be safe, won't you?


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 8th 2022, 04:16 AM

If you left and I got my hours, I would stay. But, it robably won't happen, I deserve better, and I need more money


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 13th 2022, 01:54 AM

If no one up front was helping you because they were insanely busy, I don't know why on Earth you thought screaming HELLO at me repeatedly at the top of your lungs would get you what you wanted. I didn't want to waste the energy or give you the satisfaction of yelling back at you, but ignoring you wasn't working and I wanted you to shut up.

There's more than one reason that won't work, but I also want to punish you a little. Make you appreciate me, so I have some leverage now that they're both leaving. You give me enough hours and if you don't, I'm not picking them up for you. Learn your lesson and treat me right the first time.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 20th 2022, 10:01 PM

I wish you would shut up and stop moaning. Maybe leave while you're at it.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 21st 2022, 07:56 PM

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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 23rd 2022, 04:35 AM

No, I don't really want to do this. Just the IDEA of trying to do both jobs without completely exhausting myself and losing my mind is not registering. But, YOUR poor decisions forced my hand. Not only did you stab me in the back, but then cut my hours to the point that I had no choice. Now, you want to give some of them back, so it's more work, but it's still not enough. I won't be doing both for very long. But, they have the money and you have the benefits. But YOU put me in this position, and the blame rests on your shoulders. You should've just done the right thing and I wouldn't even have to consider this.

And as for your little "coaching session" I've been hearing the same exact shit for 4 years and it hasn't gotten me fired yet. So, I'm not changing a damn thing or accepting blame because you can't figure out how to do your fucking job.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 24th 2022, 01:49 PM

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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - February 24th 2022, 03:39 PM

STOP PROMISING ME WE'LL DO SOMETHING AND THEN NOT DOING IT!!!!!!!!! IF YOURE TOO SAD TO DO IT TODAY JUST TELL ME!!! STOP MAKING FALSE PROMISES IM FUCKING SICK OF IT


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - March 3rd 2022, 11:32 PM

You had the hours before, because I had them. And you had them, and more to use for nepotism. So, you have them to give back to me. Correct this. CONSITSTENTLY. ASAP. Or I walk. I've already given you WAY more chances than you deserve!

And even if it's from corporate, the hours were only cut because your management is so bad that you tanked our metrics. And FYI I know that the availability excuse was bullshit because I changed it and they didn't go up. And nepotism doesn't have to be illegal or personal to be obviously targeted and shitty. I still blame you for all of it.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - March 4th 2022, 05:57 PM

I know you don’t mean to hurt me but your attitude towards me recently has been so draining. I still love you though and I miss having fun with you. You have no idea how much this is breaking my heart.
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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - March 4th 2022, 09:28 PM

Me feeling bad isn't always because of you. I'm fucking depressed. Please understand this.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - March 7th 2022, 07:18 AM

I think I might've been right that you're struggling with something. You never have to tell me anything about it, but I haven't seen you, so I hope you're okay.


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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. - March 11th 2022, 12:36 AM

You'll probably figure out eventually that I have 2 jobs. I'm not stupid enough to tell you, but it's kind of common sense at this point. ANY counteroffers WILL be put in WRITING before I change ANYTHING. I'm onto your bullshit, and I'm beyond over it.

And now you might not be leaving. YOU are the reason people are QUITTING in DROVES. But I doubt you'll ever acknowledge that, even if you manage to figure it out. And NO I'm not the only one who knows you were the WRONG person for the promotion in the first place.

7 postings in less than 24 hours is not a coincidence. Maybe everyone else has figured out you aren't going anywhere.


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