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July 9th 2011, 05:55 AM
For me, I think it would really depend on the situation (what happened? why did we/they have to go to court?). Also, it might depend on how close I am to that family member/friend.
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July 9th 2011, 06:22 AM
If I knew for a fact they were guilty I'd almost definitely admit it. Only time I wouldn't would be in a situation in which it had a righteous motivation (random example: stealing food to feed starving kids or something).
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July 9th 2011, 06:35 AM
I wouldn't lie because there's the risk I may be caught lying or the person may turn on me. I haven't been convicted of any crime and have a clean criminal record, so I'd like to keep it that way. If it's a person I care about, then the most I would do is help fund legal services. If it's not a severe crime (i.e. not indictable offense or greater), then I would also not testify against them and may help find evidence in their defense (depending how I feel about the charge and trial). If it is an indictable offense or greater, then I may testify against them IFF the evidence and arguments are not strong enough without it but I would not lie during my testimony.
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July 9th 2011, 06:43 AM
If i knew they were guilty then no way. They have to be responsible for their own actions.
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July 9th 2011, 11:06 AM
Perhaps unsurprisingly, my answer is definitely no - for one thing, perjury is a criminal offence and one which can land you in prison for quite a long time in some circumstances. I will support my family members and friends to the hilt throughout the proceedings, but if I am called to the stand under oath then I must abide by that oath. Otherwise, my integrity as a human being is completely destroyed.
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July 9th 2011, 01:14 PM
I say NO. If you did it you DESERVE the punishment that goes with the crime. I do not care who you are. Now would I visit them while they were doing their time yes. However I would NOT lie to save them from time. This is BOTH morally and LEGALLY wrong.
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July 9th 2011, 06:28 PM
Depends on the crime they're accused of.
Something like murder, no, I would gladly do all I could to help prosecute them. Something that was illegal but morally right, such as stealing to survive, I would lie, yes. I thought about you for the rest of the day. Catching my head turning to find you again. I hated myself for it. |
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July 9th 2011, 06:31 PM
I don't think I would lie because not only would they be in trouble, I would be too. Even if I was really close with them, they commit some kind of crime and it wouldn't be fair.
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July 9th 2011, 07:22 PM
I would be honest for most people, I think there's only one person I would consider lying for.
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July 10th 2011, 06:49 PM
Aside from the threat of perjury, this is basically a question of morality versus loyalty.
Regardless of who the person was, if they did something wrong, I would speak the truth to the court. However, I could also be used as a character witness in stating that what they had done wrong was something that they thought needed to be done. Not all wrongdoings go without fair justification. We will ask nothing. We will demand nothing. We will take. French Graffiti, 1968 29078006202249 |
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July 10th 2011, 07:23 PM
It depends. If it was for murder/stealing/rape then they are sure as hell going to jail.
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July 10th 2011, 08:31 PM
Usually you do not go to court for a parking ticket. unless you are there to fight it.
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July 23rd 2011, 09:05 PM
If you didn't pay you'd have to go.
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July 24th 2011, 07:24 PM
but usually people just pay and do not even fight.
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July 25th 2011, 04:42 AM
It depends. I think rape would be the only constant in which I wouldn't lie in court. I wouldn't actively prosecute the family member either, unless it was highly necessary.
Anything else (even murder) would depend on the situation. Like the nature of the crime, why my family member did it, etc. Then I would make my decision to help or not. If I decide yes, I would try to help the person as much as I could, but I would leave the perjury thing as a LAST case scenario. Not only because I'm a terrible liar, but because I also don't want to risk getting in trouble. But I may risk it, depending on how I felt about the case. Again...It depends. There's so many factors into this that I really can't give a straight answer. |
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July 25th 2011, 07:41 PM
To those saying they would lie in such circumstances: Do you feel that such a course of action undermines the justice system and the notion of equality before the law? If not, why not? If so, would that affect your answer?
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July 25th 2011, 11:23 PM
I'd probably be honest no matter what. I don't want to get in serious trouble for what they did.
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July 25th 2011, 11:29 PM
I wouldn't lie. Aside from the fact that I'm really bad at it and I'd probably get caught, if people do something then they deserve the consequences that come with it helping them avoid that isn't helping them because they are less likely to learn
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July 27th 2011, 08:17 AM
I don't believe all laws are fair. i don't believe all laws should be in place, nor that all punishments are fitting to the crime. Some are over-proportional to the crime (such as $100000000 for pirating one movie). If I don't believe the law is fair, I may lie. Depends if I'd get caught. If I wasn't going to get caught, and I didn't feel the law was right, I would lie. I don't see an inherent benefit of the law at all, honestly. Most humans govern themselves perfectly. Eg. road laws were already in practise before they were made into official punishable law for decades.
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July 27th 2011, 10:24 AM
It honestly depends on the situation and the person for me.
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July 29th 2011, 03:44 PM
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July 29th 2011, 07:39 PM
I would lie for the special people in my life!
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August 2nd 2011, 02:32 AM
Well it certainly depends. Say if I was raped and my brother went out and beat the crap out of the guy who did it, sure I would lie for him. For one thing I would feel responsible for him doing the crime in the first place. Even if he had killed him I would probably lie. However only if I honestly thought it would help, I mean if they had his fingerprints or video there would be no point in my lying.
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August 2nd 2011, 04:10 AM
I would cheat the system. The problem with cheating the system is this sort of thing happens all the time; jurors and justices can pretty much see through a fairly shit alibi - and one of the things I was told by my Evidence and Procedure lecturer is that no matter what, family members are never good at providing at an alibi because, quite simply, they'd do anything to keep you out of jail (most of the time).
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August 2nd 2011, 04:16 AM
I would not lie but I would help them with the lawyer fees get them the best lawyers so they have a good chance in court.
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August 5th 2011, 02:18 AM
It'd depend on the crime. But most likely I'd lie. If someone was killed or raped, of course not. But I could see myself being willing to lie in certain situations.
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August 5th 2011, 05:07 PM
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August 5th 2011, 07:28 PM
Totally this. You'll get caught out. I'd only lie if I somehow knew I'd get away with it.
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August 6th 2011, 01:59 AM
For those who say they would not lie are you basing that off moral or secular grounds?
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August 6th 2011, 11:38 AM
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For me, it would just depend on the circumstances. If it was something they were properly guilty of, I would tell the truth. My loyalty doesn't override my morality. However if I felt they were being unjustly prosecuted, I would at least consider lying to protect them. The atoms that make up you and me were born in the hearts of suns many times greater than ours and in time our atoms will return once again to reside amongst the stars. Life is but an idle dalliance of the cosmos, frail, and soon forgotten. We have been set adrift in an ocean whose tides we are only beginning to comprehend, and with that maturity has come the realization that we are, at least for now, alone. In that loneliness, it falls to us to shine as brightly as the stars from which we came.
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August 6th 2011, 09:01 PM
Those are both secular reasons; the division you wanted to ask about was between morality and pragmatism.
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August 7th 2011, 05:22 PM
no, right and wrong is moral, but just I do not want to be arrested looked down upon ECT is secular.
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August 9th 2011, 03:44 AM
It wouldn't depend on the person for me, at least I don't think it would, it'd depend on the velocity of what happened. If it is something serious, I'd tell the truth, if it wasn't, I'd try to protect them.
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August 15th 2011, 04:55 PM
Why should the punishment for a crime be changed or erased, simply because I have a personal connection to a person? If someone has done something bad, then they should have to make restitution, whether it's financial in nature or serving time in prison. Rather than lying in court about what a family member did, I would ask that family member why they broke the law to begin with.
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