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Angry I'm LEAVING - November 30th 2011, 12:58 AM

I can't take this anymore. I came here for help and for friends. I found neither. And for the few of you that wasted your time reaching out to me, I'm sorry.

All people have done is try to tell me I'm wrong. Does anyone here use common sense anymore? I don't really think so I was not impressed from the first day I came here. And I don't plan on coming back anytime soon.

Everything I do/say is wrong. WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG. I know that already, I thought I would be able to find help and comfort here for my mistakes. All I got was stabbed in the back. SEVERAL TIMES.

All right. I'm done with my ranting. Don't even bother replying, this thread was a waste of my time anyways.


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Re: I'm LEAVING - November 30th 2011, 12:58 AM

please stay


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Re: I'm LEAVING - November 30th 2011, 12:59 AM

I am very sorry to hear that you feel that way. If you do decide to talk to someone, you can PM me anytime. Take care.
   
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Re: I'm LEAVING - November 30th 2011, 01:00 AM

i'm sorry nobody's been able to help you and that you still feel betrayed and alone... i know the feeling. you can always talk to me, please, just don't give up quite yet


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Re: I'm LEAVING - November 30th 2011, 01:01 AM

I'm sorry you feel that way..if you wanna stay and talk I'd be happy to talk to you anytime..I'm sorry about your past experiences here
   
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Re: I'm LEAVING - November 30th 2011, 01:04 AM

I can't stay anymore. Everytime I come on here I'm an emotional wreck. My boyfriend and I are both tired of me calling him in tears. I have clinical depression and I came here to find help... And all I got is an emotional roller coaster...


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Re: I'm LEAVING - November 30th 2011, 01:11 AM

Perhaps stay and try and avoid thread that are likely to upset you? This forum is filled with people with extremely strong opinions and it's human nature to try and get your opinion across, I doubt anyone has tried to upset you purposefully.
   
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Re: I'm LEAVING - November 30th 2011, 01:15 AM

Usually... everywhere BUT the debates forum is super friendly and helpful. As long as you steer clear of current events and debates, you're pretty set I know how you feel, I've made the mistake in entering the debates... it's just not worth it.

We're here to help, not hurt, and I'm sorry TH has been more hurtful than helpful. I encourage you to seek help in the chat room, LiveHelp, HelipLINK, and forums such as Depression and Suicide. Or PM people you think may be helpful!



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Re: I'm LEAVING - November 30th 2011, 01:20 AM

I'm sorry you feel that way. No one is trying to offend you or anything, so please consider that. Anyway, I hope you stay or at least come back soon. We will always be here if you need us.
   
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Re: I'm LEAVING - November 30th 2011, 01:21 AM

Im sorry to hear about this. Sometimes with so many different opionions we just shut down. However everyone on here has a heart and tries to help others to the best of their ability (Atleast I do). I really hope that you will find that TeenHelp really is here to help you, and not hurt you.

If you need anything, please know that I am here, and that I will listen even when others arent.

Hope all goes well.


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Re: I'm LEAVING - November 30th 2011, 01:21 AM

I am sorry you feel this way. I am here if you ever wish to come back and need someone to talk to. I don't judge or tell people there wrong. I will tell it like it is. but i wont hurt someone by doing so. Im here if you need me.. again I am sorry.
   
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Re: I'm LEAVING - November 30th 2011, 01:26 AM

I hope you come back.
   
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Re: I'm LEAVING - November 30th 2011, 01:39 AM

I'm sorry you've had such a rough experience here. I know I've replied to some threads of you, and I'm sorry if I've been a part of the negativity. It was never my intention. I hope you decide to stay. But, if you don't, take care of yourself. Best of luck with everything you choose to do.


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Re: I'm LEAVING - November 30th 2011, 02:18 AM

I don't think anyone meant to make you feel this way, they were simply pointing out some things that you yourself could possibly change because we cannot always change what is happening around us.
Anyways, I'm sorry you feel this way and no matter what you are always welcome back at any time. I hope you feel better soon <3


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Re: I'm LEAVING - November 30th 2011, 02:33 AM

I'm sorry that you feel this way, but you are welcome back at any time. We'll miss you!


   
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Re: I'm LEAVING - November 30th 2011, 05:27 AM

I'm sorry that you feel that way. I would definitely recommend asking for advice through HelpLink if you're not finding any comfort through the forums. PM me any time if you need to talk!



   
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Re: I'm LEAVING - November 30th 2011, 07:07 AM

I don't usually look at threads in this sub-forum, but yours caught my eye. I can assure you 99% of the time people on here at least try to be friendly, or if not then honest, or both (what I try to do). Honest advice on someone's behalf may not always be what you want to hear, and so can be misinterpreted as unfriendly, but it's usually the truth.

But like others said, if you don't have a thick skin, don't go in the debates sub-forum. The debates sub-forum is the boxing ring of this website, with very few rules. 10 on 1, 1 on 10, and almost anything goes as long as it's not directly personally insulting.

I don't think I've seen any of your posts from what I remember... so I don't exactly know what the issue is... but if you feel like talking over it with me go ahead.


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Re: I'm LEAVING - November 30th 2011, 08:52 AM

Sorry that you feel this way, the events and debates forum is full of trolls and extremists. Its like dog eat dog in there.

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Re: I'm LEAVING - November 30th 2011, 10:04 AM

I'm sorry to hear that you're leaving TeenHelp. If you decide to stay then that's great, if you are leaving then take care of yourself and I wish you all the best.
   
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Re: I'm LEAVING - November 30th 2011, 10:43 AM

I'm sorry to see that you're leaving.
If you need anything, feel free to message me. We'll be here if you want to return.
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Re: I'm LEAVING - November 30th 2011, 04:30 PM

I'm sorry to hear this. If you feel like you are not getting the help you require through the forums, have you tried HelpLink or LiveHelp?

We all have differing opinions and views on things and sometimes, especially on the internet, things can come across as harsh or nasty, even if they werent intended in that way.

If you feel the need or want to come back at any time, you are most welcome.

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Re: I'm LEAVING - November 30th 2011, 06:01 PM

Hey there.

Santa is right. The debates forum can become a bit touchy and when you post in that forum you need to be aware that you are infact going to get replies which you don't like because everyone is entitled and do have their own opinion. However, like said, the marjoity of us here are friendly and a lot of us come here, who like you need and want help and support. And you'll find a lot of people have been through similar thing to you or can relate to how you're feeling. Even the staffies have been through things, not all of them but I know for myself and other staff members here, we volunteer helping here because we know how it feels and we can relate and we do want to help people like yourself.

Saying that sometimes the support from an online forum is enough for some people or isn't the right support they need. But we are always here for you and if you ever need a chat you are more than welcome to shoot me a PM.

I really hope you are okay.
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Re: I'm LEAVING - November 30th 2011, 11:36 PM

Thanks for your help and advice guys... just so you know it isn't just the debates forum I've found rude people :/ they're everywhere. So I'm a bit thin skinned.

Just letting everybody know I will still be here to PM, and possibly FCRD's, but I officially am off the forums until I can handle it :/


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