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Wake Up - June 9th 2019, 04:13 AM

So you feel like nobody cares about you.

Your ďbest friendĒ betrayed you, your boyfriend/girlfriend
dumped you, you get bullied nearly every day, and everything
else with your circumstances is all just a complete disaster
like the whole world crashing down on you.

And here you think if you sit here and write about it,
telling others how you think the world is this merciless,
cold, dark, unwelcoming place based on some bad experiences,
itís going to make it any better?

Youíre just inviting more of the same problem to come in.

It doesnít matter what the problem is youíre complaining about.

Think of it this way:

Whatever it is youíre upset/sad/angry about,
is it going to matter in 5 years from now?

If the answer is no, then donít spend more than
5 minutes out of your day being upset about it.

Take responsibility for your own problems.

Figure out what you need to do to make yourself better.

Quit playing the victim and hope that someone
is coming to save you, and that you will finally
have the love and significance you always wanted.

Itís self-destructive behavior and no genuine love
is going to come out of it no matter who youíre with.

Wake up and get yourself together.

Nobody is going to do that for you except yourself.

You have to be the one to solve your problems,
but donít be afraid/embarrassed to ask someone
to support you while you solve your own problems.

Quit acting so entitled.




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Re: Wake Up - June 9th 2019, 07:06 PM

I liked this. Thank you for sharing!


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Re: Wake Up - June 9th 2019, 07:52 PM

I really liked this part:

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Whatever it is you’re upset/sad/angry about,
is it going to matter in 5 years from now?

If the answer is no, then don’t spend more than
5 minutes out of your day being upset about it.
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Re: Wake Up - June 9th 2019, 10:15 PM

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I liked this. Thank you for sharing!
Glad you did, and you're welcome!




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Re: Wake Up - June 9th 2019, 10:16 PM

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Thanks for sharing
You're welcome That part actually came from an inspiration post I saw on social media, and I loved it, so I thought I'd incorporate it as part of my message.




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Re: Wake Up - June 13th 2019, 12:15 AM

You did well with this!


   
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Re: Wake Up - June 13th 2019, 02:40 AM

Thanks Dez, I appreciate the feedback!




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