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Want to cry. - October 29th 2019, 11:30 PM

[FONT=""][COLOR=""][SIZE=""]I'm a girl and I was going on a date and my mom drove me to the restaurant and we are waiting, 10 minutes before the data he texted me saying that he never wanted to go on a date with me and don't text him back. I don't know what I did wrong. I can't stop crying.*[/size][/color][/font]
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Re: Want to cry. - October 30th 2019, 05:18 AM

To start I wanna say I'm sorry he did that to you and it was 100% not your fault, you did absolutely nothing wrong. That being said, that guy is a total jerk for doing that. Also don't let it get you down, at the end of the day you should think it was his loss. He missed a chance to hangout with an awesome person. You're a strong, independent,woman and you should never settle for anyone that won't put you first.
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Re: Want to cry. - October 30th 2019, 07:00 PM

I agree with Louie.

It sounds like this person stood you up. Sometimes this happens when the other person gets nervous or when they have changed their mind about going on date but don't know how to say this.

You didn't do anything wrong at all. Sometimes dates just don't work out but it's not a reflection on you, especially when the other person says that they didn't want to go on a date- they should've made that clear to avoid setting up a date to begin with.

I'm sorry that this didn't work out for you. It's okay to cry and feel upset. But as Louie said, it's his loss. You deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you, just as much as you want them. And I'm sure you will find that in time

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Re: Want to cry. - November 25th 2019, 02:15 AM

Ok first off, you did nothing wrong. Second whoever this guy is is obviously a total jerk and doesn’t deserve you, especially if he’s just gonna ghost you and stand you up after you were already waiting for him. That says NOTHING ABOUT YOU but it speaks VOLUMES about him.

My advice? Let yourself have a good cry and maybe indulge in some comfort food. Wallow for a couple days if you want to and then pick up the pieces and push forward. Just because that jerk wasn’t worthy of you, doesn’t mean someone better who deserves you and treats you right isn’t waiting just around the corner.

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