Lonely oh so Lonely
 

There are a lot of posts just like this so bear with me.

For a solid amount of time I have wanted someone special in my life :'(. I just felt like the right person would appear and if they were right, they'd show signs that they are interested in me. I wamt a relationship but my coworkers are all older than me (by a good 5+ years) and the people at my school that seem really cool to start a relationship with don't have any interest in having a relationship. So I'm stuck with no options and even though I have all the most desired physical traits (I found this through poles), I'm a generally a nice guy when I am not angry or frustrated, and I'm approachable but no one seems to want to talk to me. The only people that do are my friends and not so often my friends' friends. I guess I need either emotional support or hidden secrets in getting a girlfriend. I really don't want to wait to have my first relationship in college (I have 1 more year left of High school). I haven't dated once but I want/ need some experience.

Btw, I often use the excuse: Dating just cost too much when the topic of relationships is brought up. I know it's weak. But it was to advoid the shame of no experience what so ever.

P.S. Just in case you were wondering how I can give advice is because I am very observant and insightful. I use other's relationships and human behaviour to lend aid.

Re: Lonely oh so Lonely
 

I understand how you feel i was going through the same thing a while back until i finally found someone. It may take some more time which ik can be hard but eventually you will find someone. I believe that you will find someone in college everyone is much more mature there trust me you dont want to have a horrible first
relationship its better
r to wait for me my first boyfriend cheated on me so it was not worth rushing into.

Re: Lonely oh so Lonely
 

I've pretty much convinced myself that relationships are overrated.

Re: Lonely oh so Lonely
 

Hey there,

You sound like a nice guy and before you know it I'm sure you'll meet the right person. There is no sense in rushing to meet someone when you have all the time in the world. Just be yourself and I'm sure the right girl will come along soon enough, the more you want something the longer it seems to take to come to you. You're young, go out and have fun with your friends, make new friends and soon enough you'll meet someone special, just be patient.

I wish you the best of luck,
Paige

Re: Lonely oh so Lonely
 

Hey man don't worry I know how you feel. I'v only had 1 serious relationship in high school. I didn't even kiss my first girl till I was 18...

You're not alone man, if you ever need to talk let me know you can private message me.

On a side note, how do you know they're not interested in relationships? If you want my advice, find a girl you have something in common with, and find a right opportunity to approach her. For example, you see a girl reading a book you like (or havn't read for that matter), you can ask her how the book is so far, start up a conversation from there, throw in a couple compliments to. Or, next time you're in line for lunch, if there is a cute girl by you start up a conversation, not much else you can do while waiting in line.

With compliments to girls, don't over do it, you can compliment their jewelry, or there style. Not sure if this is true, but girls like to be complimented on their natural features, such as eyes (Don't compliment their butt or tit size of course).



For the loneliness, I know what helps me is to talk to my friends. Most of the time I don't tell them how I feel, but we have a lot of fun hanging out. You can also exercise, or even something as simple as playing video games.

Good luck my friend!