I am so lonely.

[Larrinda]

I dumped my boyfriend on my birthday.
I really think that he was cheating on my I just had a bad feeling and he called me by the wrong have and ugh.

I am not sad about it because we were not together that long but I am lonely.

Like I dont like being single. Lately I have just wanted someone to be there for me. I always seems to find guys that try to use me and hurt me and I cant handle anymore heartbreaks.

I just keep hoping that I find someone.

Our school banquet is coming up and I dont have a date so we will see what happens.

Hey there Larrinda,

I am sorry you have to deal with all of this but I am glad that you placed your needs first and broke up with someone who was cheating. No one deserves to be cheated on. When people are in a relationship they deserve to be treated with kindness, respect, and love and it sounds like your old boyfriend was not providing you with those things. I know that you are lonely now but hang in there and you will find the right thing.

You know, sometimes the best things are worth waiting for. I know it sucks to be lonely but when you rush yourself to find a relationship you sometimes run into people that are not all that good and won't take your needs first. Take your time in finding a relationship because then it might be more real and more worth while.

As for the loneliness you are feeling the truth is that a relationship won't solve it. loneliness comes and goes in life and relationships won't make that any better. Sometimes when people are in relationships they still feel lonely. Take time to enjoy the single life and what not. Everything will be fine in the end.

I hope this helped and best of luck,

Jenna

[powerbomb91]

why dont you ask...that guy who's always been there for you...and is a good freind...you'll be suprised what could happen.........

[Larrinda]

I am so nervous they will say no..
And its guys ask girls this year

[Rhop101]

That seems like a really dumb rule

[Larrinda]

Like everyother year the girls plan it and ask the guys.
But its a odd year so the guys planned it and they have to ask us.

Yeah I dont think I am gonna get a date I am not really "pretty" enough for the guys here,...

[Rhop101]

oh don't be silly and honestly it's not about how pretty you are at all
It's about personality if a guy likes you. I found my gf not because I liked her in the first place, it's because I got to know her and started to like her. Same with girls and guys. ^_^

Look I used to feel the same way but it really isn't about that. My girlfriend kisses me even if I have pimple problems at times and she wants to. I care much less about it though than I used to and I do my best to address it and she hasn't had any problems. It really is more about inner beauty, than outer. I make her laugh she makes me feel wanted and seeing her smile makes me happy. not saying outer doesn't matter, but I never thought I would end up with someone from Beijing China who came to america for college.

Do you have to go with a date?

If you like going there's no reason you can't go ^_^

[tk338]

Originally Posted by Larrinda

I am so nervous they will say no..
And its guys ask girls this year

So what would happen if you were to break the rule? You should go for it Or ask him to ask you, or hint strongly you have noone to go with ...

[Larrinda]

Haha.
I think I might go with this guy that I am really good friends with. I just dont want it to be awkward after I ask him or him to go tell a bunch of people I asked him.

My school has alot of drama and alot of gossip. Its crazy parents pay 16000 dollars so their children can be mean to everyone haha.

I am so jealous. All the guys I do like use me. For a long time I thought I was a slut because I will say I never wanna talk to them again cause they just want to try to get in my pants and its not gonna happen then they get mad at me and then I crawl back because I dont know how to not have someone. I am co-dependent