Orgasm help please

[Beautifuldreams13]

Sooo I lost my virginity this last Thursday. I've always been a gorny girl and love anything physical. I've had sex five times since then with my boyfriend but I'm not getting an orgasm. I think I've been close??we have tried different positions...do I just need to give it a little more time? Is it something I'm doing wrong? I just really wanna get orgasms when we have intercourse :/

[jenntasticxx]

this is probably going to sound weird coming from a virgin, but foreplay is super important. have him tease you for the longest time. its common for girls to not orgasm from just stimulation to the gspot. the clit is really a good place to start. also, girls' nipples are super sensitive. but try foreplay for a while and then see how it goes! :]

[Beautifuldreams13]

Originally Posted by jenntasticxx

this is probably going to sound weird coming from a virgin, but foreplay is super important. have him tease you for the longest time. its common for girls to not orgasm from just stimulation to the gspot. the clit is really a good place to start. also, girls' nipples are super sensitive. but try foreplay for a while and then see how it goes! :]

I agree with you!! I've been tellin him I need more foreplay but we have been rather rushed time wise. I guess I'll get there!

[Skeleton]

Foreplay is a good idea but it could just be that it'll take sometime. Woman do sometimes have problems orgasming, it took a few years and my fifth partner to finally achieve an orgasm. My advice would be just to relax, try and enjoy it and not focus too much on trying to orgasm because I find if I'm thinking about it, it doesn't happen.

[Harmony♥]

If having an orgasm during sex is something you completely focus on while having sex, it's not going to happen. Some woman can't have an orgasm through intercourse alone. They need to have some sort of extra stimulation in order to get to that point. Lots of foreplay could work, but then again, it might not. I'd suggest trying to get yourself to the big O by yourself before you achieve one with your boyfriend. It might make things easier.

[Acheron]

Most women don't orgasm from intercourse alone. It might be that you're just in the majority. If you're determined to orgasm while he's inside you, find a position that will allow either you or him to play with your clit. Charlie is right, though: focusing on orgasm will make it less likely to happen. Just relax and enjoy it. Oh, and if you want more orgasms, don't be afraid to ask for oral or something.

[Jaguar]

1) Put your fingers on the sides of his hips and guide his movements (missionary)

2) Have him give you enough room to get your hand down there and massage your clit while he's inside.

3) Lie face down on a bed with your feel on the floor while he does the doggy and massages your clitoral are with your hand. Or you can do it.

[Beautifuldreams13]

Ok thanks everyone!!!

[DestroyedSoul]

Like everyone else said, I'd say try more foreplay, and the stimulation to the clit might be a big help to get to orgasm, and trying to reach one yourself first is a good idea.