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I just can't get aroused anymore! - April 10th 2009, 02:32 AM

I have been having problems getting aroused lately. Normally, even the littlest thing could get me aroused but now it's taking me much longer and it's harder to stay aroused when I am. I feel really bad for my boyfriend because now he thinks he's "lost it" and it's not him it's me. Is there any advice you guys can give me on how to fix this problem or is there some sort of medication I should take? Could it possibly be a health problem or is it a normal thing? I'd really appreciate some help.
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Re: I just can't get aroused anymore! - April 10th 2009, 02:44 AM

One word. Foreplay. Lots of it. In another word? Kissing. Tongue kiss each other, a lot.

A male's saliva contains testosterone, which gets transferred to the female during kissing. Testosterone in a female raises libido, which enhances sex drive. Problem solved.

If that doesn't work, then you might have to take it slow, and that's OK. Try sensual massages. Try stimulating different areas. The female body doesn't have certain buttons that you push and it turns on. It has lots of tiny buttons everywhere. Every girl is different, but each has various erogenous zones in different places like behind the knees, on the back of the neck, around the ears... Try them out, find yours!

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Re: I just can't get aroused anymore! - April 10th 2009, 04:30 AM

I second what Exelus said. Oh, and teasing really helps. Get him to begin foreplay, then withdraw and do something else. It'll make you want him really badly. It's the whole "want what you can't have" thing, except more fun because in the end you get it.

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Re: I just can't get aroused anymore! - April 10th 2009, 12:54 PM

Sometimes I feel like this as well. And like your boyfriend, mine thinks he doesn't do it for me anymore. I agree with teasing. It does amazing things, hehe. It's probably the thing that gets me the most worked up. Or light touchings as well. :]


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Re: I just can't get aroused anymore! - April 10th 2009, 08:16 PM

tease tease tease...dress upp...send dirty texts throughout the day...you got to preheat the oven
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Re: I just can't get aroused anymore! - April 14th 2009, 03:51 PM

With us I find it is easier for her to get aroused if she has just got off her period and it is hardest to get her aroused if it is getting close to her period. I hope this helps

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