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Hello! I have a question on anal....I have recently tried it and I did not like it in the least. It didn't hurt it just felt awkward. Like every time my boyfriend would pull out a bit it felt like I was shitting O_o How is that sexual or fun?! I have talked to my other female friends who have tried it and they said they actually enjoyed it yet I don't understand how. Am I doing something wrong? Has anyone else tried it and not liked it?
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August 4th 2012, 01:46 AM
I've tried it, and thought the same as you. But, one negative experience with it won't stop me from trying again. It was just one time. It could be different the second time around.
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August 4th 2012, 01:57 AM
If it isn't hurting then you're doing nothing wrong technique-wise. Like Shannon said, you shouldn't necessarily write it off after the first time. After all, how many people enjoy their first intercourse? But some people just don't like anal, and that's fine. Me, though, I like it. Although it takes more preparation, so it isn't an option for just a quickie.
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August 4th 2012, 07:55 AM
I've not tried it but don't have a lot of interest in trying it. If my partner expressed he'd really like to, we'd negotiate from there, but he hasn't, so I don't care.
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August 4th 2012, 08:27 AM
I'm the same as Traci, it just doesn't sound that appealing to me.
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August 4th 2012, 09:00 AM
I haven't had sex at all yet (virgin, woo!) but once I do I guess it'd be something I'd try once if I have a boyfriend.
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August 4th 2012, 09:06 AM
I don't like it at all, in terms of both pitching and catching. It hurts a lot to receive, and I don't exactly feel any pressing inclination to put my penis in contact with fecal matter.
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August 4th 2012, 09:53 AM
I tried it a few times. I enjoyed it a couple of the times, didn't a couple of others. I think it depended on a lot of things. How relaxed I felt, what mood I was in ect.
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August 4th 2012, 05:32 PM
i enjoyed it a few times and a couple times hated it.. all depends on how you prepared and size of the utensil so to speak
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August 4th 2012, 05:44 PM
Never tried it, but I'm willing to. In the same way that I'm willing to try vaginal sex, even though both are going to hurt like hell. I'd have to really psyche myself up to do anal. And I have no idea if my boyfriend's into it... I doubt it actually. If he said he wanted to then I'd want to try it, but it's not something I'm desperate to mention, and I have no idea whether or not I'd enjoy it.
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August 4th 2012, 06:03 PM
It's funny because later that day after I posted this I tried it again and it wasn't as bad as the first time =) So you guys were right.
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August 4th 2012, 08:41 PM
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Whether we're talking anal sex or vaginal sex, neither should ever be hurting you. If it's "hurting like hell" something is wrong and you need to stop and reassess. Please, please, PLEASE do not continue to have sex of any kind if it is hurting you - that's a message from your body that it's not happy! Maybe there's not enough lubrication, maybe you're not relaxed, maybe there's an underlying infection (sexually transmitted or otherwise), maybe there's a tear or another condition affecting it..... but there's usually a solution, and then you can get back to sex as it should be: mutually pleasurable and satisfying! As regards anal, I like it. It's not sexually satisfying pleasure in the same way that clitoral stimulation is, for instance, but it's satisfying in other ways: I like the sensation of pressure and fullness, I love how much my partner gets off on it, and just generally it feels more intimate because you both have to try a little bit harder to make it work well! |
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