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Sex toys - August 2nd 2014, 10:52 PM

I'm a virgin and I want to use a dildo so when time comes it won't be as awkward and painful. I don't know what kind a dildo I should use or what kind would be the easiest to use. Please help.
   
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Re: Sex toys - August 2nd 2014, 11:13 PM

There are some really slim dildos that you can use if you wish to take this path - I did.

You could also the end of a hairbrush, that'll also do the trick. Just make sure you sterilize it with boiling water first.
   
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Re: Sex toys - August 2nd 2014, 11:32 PM

Where would you get the really slim ones?
   
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Re: Sex toys - August 2nd 2014, 11:34 PM

You can get them online or in an adult book store, but you have to be at least 18 in the US. If you are underage try the hairbrush or even a fat highlighter.
   
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Re: Sex toys - August 3rd 2014, 01:14 AM

I recommend just using your fingers. Using a dildo now won't make it less painful if you have sex in the future since it would only stretch your hymen temporarily. If you want sex to not be painful, just be sure to use lube and have lots of foreplay to get you in the mood.


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Re: Sex toys - August 3rd 2014, 11:07 AM

I don't think anything will make the first time you have sex less painful. It's usually the stress and tensed muscles that make it hurt. Your first time is still probably going to be awkward and uncomfortable because that's just how it goes.

Have you tried masturbating without anything? You should probably just start with that for now. Using toys can be quite intimidating, and it's better to find out what you like before you try anything special.

If you still want to buy a sex toy to use, just have a look online. And for the different types, the internet will tell you that as we can't go into too much detail.



   
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