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Exclamation Masturbation - January 16th 2015, 10:38 PM

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What is your stance on masturbation? Are you for it or against it?


   
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Re: Masturbation - January 16th 2015, 11:13 PM

I'm all for it. If you want to do it go for it. It's not an issue at all unless it becomes an obsession that messes with you're ability to do other things.


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Re: Masturbation - January 17th 2015, 12:52 AM

I think it's a completely personal choice It's healthy, so I've heard.



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Re: Masturbation - January 17th 2015, 12:53 AM

I don't have anything against it. I heard it's healthy unless it becomes an obsession.


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Re: Masturbation - January 17th 2015, 01:07 AM

I like to masturbate but I take a neutral moral standpoint on it.


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Re: Masturbation - January 17th 2015, 03:24 AM

All day every day.
...in all seriousness, that'd be unhealthy. But I do it, love it, wouldn't stop it.


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Re: Masturbation - January 17th 2015, 03:42 AM

I personally do not do it. I understand it's natural and I'm not saying it's bad, it's just that I simply choose not to; I've tried in the past, on very few occasions, but I simply find that it's not arousing.


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Re: Masturbation - January 17th 2015, 04:05 AM

There's nothing wrong with masturbation. It's a natural and safe way to release urges and stress. Unless it becomes obsessive or you are somehow hurting yourself while doing it there's not an issue.


   
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Re: Masturbation - January 17th 2015, 04:47 AM

As others have said, masturbation is a personal choice. Personally, I think it's a great and beneficial thing.



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Re: Masturbation - January 17th 2015, 06:23 AM

I don't see any thing wrong with masturbation.


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Re: Masturbation - January 17th 2015, 07:49 AM

as others said its personal choice, as long aas it doesnt get in the way of other stuff.


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Re: Masturbation - January 17th 2015, 07:50 AM

Most of the people I've known who tell people not to masturbate are just sooooooo obsessed with attempting to control other peoples morality. Case in point, old me.
But I do it all the time, if I didn't I would stress the fuck out.


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Re: Masturbation - January 19th 2015, 02:05 PM

I'm all for it. I do it on a near daily basis, usually right before I go to sleep because it puts me into a relaxation mode, and helps me fall asleep faster. Sometimes, I don't feel up to it, and will just fall asleep without it, but I end up having a very restless night.
   
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Re: Masturbation - January 19th 2015, 04:59 PM

I don't see anything wrong with it. I heard that it can be good for you in some cases unless it comes an addiction/unhealthy habit.


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Re: Masturbation - January 19th 2015, 10:18 PM

There's nothing wrong with it at all. It does not cause any physical injury or any harm to oneself. Unless you're doing it excessively and it's interrupting your daily life then it's fine and normal.


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Re: Masturbation - January 19th 2015, 11:18 PM

I'll say this about masturbating though- The worst thing about having a roommate in college is that you can't get privacy to masturbate. At least it is to me.


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Re: Masturbation - January 20th 2015, 05:20 PM

Masturbation = fabulous idea.

But it is also a personal choice.

As long as it isn't interfering with your life (either by guilt or by doing it all day every day) then I say go for it.

Personally, I don't do it. I used to, but since I have a boyfriend now I just don't fee the desire to "take care of myself" so to say. But that's all about my own needs, so carry on.




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Re: Masturbation - January 20th 2015, 10:39 PM

I'm going to sit on the fence with this one, because I think there are reasons to be both for and against it. On the one hand, it is quite clearly a good source of stress relief and it also helps people become more aware of their sexuality in general, so in terms of self-awareness and moderating one's state of mind it can be useful. On the other hand, it is by definition a selfish act (focusing on one's sexual "needs") and I think there is some currency in suggesting it could affect a person's attitude towards sex and perhaps their performance with a partner - the sensation might not be the same and so on. I'm not suggesting everyone should give it up immediately because of that - it would be both incredibly unrealistic and a tad hypocritical for me to do so - but I think the phrase "proceed with caution" is well warranted. So I guess I'd say neutral.


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Re: Masturbation - January 20th 2015, 11:25 PM

I'm like a poster girl for masturbation.



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I'm wondering if there is data on this, like scientific studies. Personally, in the classes I've taken on human sexuality (three different classes, and four years of teaching sex education), I've never seen anything about this; I've heard personal anecdotes or heard about churches telling individuals this, but never any evidence from a scientific standpoint. Sex therapists will actually often recommended women masturbate if they come in for performance issues in order to learn more about their bodies and better communicate to their partners their needs. I'm guessing there may be evidence of this in pornography watching and maybe intense vibrator use, but otherwise...I'm not sure this is valid?


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Re: Masturbation - January 21st 2015, 07:23 PM

There is nothing wrong with masturbation at all as long as it does not become an obsession/addiction and interferes with day to day functioning.




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I'm wondering if there is data on this, like scientific studies. Personally, in the classes I've taken on human sexuality (three different classes, and four years of teaching sex education), I've never seen anything about this; I've heard personal anecdotes or heard about churches telling individuals this, but never any evidence from a scientific standpoint. Sex therapists will actually often recommended women masturbate if they come in for performance issues in order to learn more about their bodies and better communicate to their partners their needs. I'm guessing there may be evidence of this in pornography watching and maybe intense vibrator use, but otherwise...I'm not sure this is valid?
Haven't been able to locate a direct source to a study (mainly because my logins are for legal resources), but this article refers to one in the Journal of Sexual Medicine which refers to the issue in respect of male masturbation and its effect on sexual relationships when certain stimuli are relied upon. Admittedly the examples are more extreme, but the last few paragraphs also makes a point about conditioning and the potential impact of too much masturbation. As I said, I haven't been able to review the study myself so would be grateful for any input, but it would appear to support my contention that it could affect attitude and performance. (Note: could, not will. I always deal in caveats )


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Haven't been able to locate a direct source to a study (mainly because my logins are for legal resources), but this article refers to one in the Journal of Sexual Medicine which refers to the issue in respect of male masturbation and its effect on sexual relationships when certain stimuli are relied upon. Admittedly the examples are more extreme, but the last few paragraphs also makes a point about conditioning and the potential impact of too much masturbation. As I said, I haven't been able to review the study myself so would be grateful for any input, but it would appear to support my contention that it could affect attitude and performance. (Note: could, not will. I always deal in caveats )
Whenever I get some downtime, I'll do a lit search on my own. I'm curious. Orgasm is a very powerful way to a condition a person, and I can imagine that there can be some bad side effects of masturbating to particular stimuli or to a speed that may train yourself to ejaculate faster than a partner would like you to, or need harder stimuli for pleasure. However, this isn't an issue of masturbation itself, but really technique, and education could prevent a lot of these effects. It's also reversible, usually, when different stimuli are introduced and a person is reconditioned. These are my thoughts, anyway.

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Whenever I get some downtime, I'll do a lit search on my own. I'm curious. Orgasm is a very powerful way to a condition a person, and I can imagine that there can be some bad side effects of masturbating to particular stimuli or to a speed that may train yourself to ejaculate faster than a partner would like you to, or need harder stimuli for pleasure. However, this isn't an issue of masturbation itself, but really technique, and education could prevent a lot of these effects. It's also reversible, usually, when different stimuli are introduced and a person is reconditioned. These are my thoughts, anyway.

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Happy to leave you to it and see what you come up with. Needless to say, if I start searching for it on my professional resources I'll either turn up some frankly alarming case law or find my 2 weeks' notice arriving in my inbox... I agree it's probably a case of how it's utilised as much as anything, my point was more that it's open to misuse (or indeed abuse) with the usual consequences that follow.


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Re: Masturbation - January 22nd 2015, 07:28 PM

I'm neutral on the subject as I'm not completely for or against masturbation. I'm neutral because it depends on the circumstances.

From my own personal experience, I've been more likely to make a woman orgasm through oral sex when she doesn't use vibrators to masturbate. The women who did use vibrators, they'd use vibrators while I was performing oral sex. It's a small sample of women, of course. It might not be an indication that a woman's clitoris is being overly-stimulated with intense vibrations, but it's an intense feeling that you can get accustomed to. If you develop a pattern to something, whether it's masturbating, or locking your house, you're not going to feel the same when you break from that pattern. So if you are a woman that regularly masturbates with a vibrator, try to masturbate using fingers only to find that it's difficult to achieve orgasm or impossible, then that might be an indication of dependence.

Also, every woman who hasn't used dildos have said that I was "big" or "perfect size," while women who do use dildos said that it was "okay" or "average." I'm not going to jump to conclusions and say that women who use dildos are more "loose," but, like I said, breaking from patterns can have certain consequences. Whether it's physical, mental, or both, is something that I don't have enough evidence for.

Of course, there's also the whole issue with porn. I was with a woman who watched a lot of porn; specifically bondage, rough, and triggering fantasies. When we had sex, she was clearly not "in the moment." She seemed rather disappointed in how things went and possibly had certain expectations. Her porn choice was the result of her fetishes or desires, but I believe that when you build certain expectations on what sex is supposed to be, you're not really enjoying the experience when it doesn't meet your expectations.

But women are less likely to watch porn than men due to women being more mentally stimulated. Men are more visually stimulated which is possibly why most men watch porn or have watched porn.

For men, it's a different situation because we don't have vibrators or dildos. There are sex toys for guys, which I won't go into, but I'm going to discuss the problems of male masturbation assuming most men use their hands to masturbate while watching porn.

Porn is an entirely different issue, there's still scientific development that porn may be a contribution to early cases of erectile dysfunction during sexual intercourse. "Your Brain on Porn" by Gary Wilson is a good book that explains more about the effects of porn on the brain.

So I potentially disapprove men watching porn while masturbating as porn is potentially harmful. As far as masturbation is concerned, men can develop patterns too. When a man watches porn, he's potentially sitting in a seat. Once you develop a pattern of masturbating a certain way, breaking from that pattern becomes more difficult. On a personal account, I've always masturbated sitting in a chair, or laying down on the ground. Whenever I tried to masturbate standing up, it was difficult or impossible. Is there a correlation? Perhaps.

Potentially, there's also a thing called the "death grip" in the NoFap community which is a community of people who abstain from watching porn and masturbating. Gary Wilson explains the science behind the death grip in his book, as well. Potentially, some men masturbate with a lot of force which develops a certain expectation. Since a woman's vagina can't always compete with a man's grip, it may have complications during intercourse. A man may not be able to achieve an orgasm because he's not sitting in a chair, and there's not enough friction and speed to continue that level of stimulation.

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Re: Masturbation - January 31st 2015, 07:27 AM

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Re: Masturbation - January 31st 2015, 08:45 AM

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Re: Masturbation - February 2nd 2015, 05:29 AM

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Re: Masturbation - February 2nd 2015, 07:54 AM

Jesus Christ, somebody actually voted no?? Meh. I wouldve before junior year.


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Re: Masturbation - February 4th 2015, 05:48 PM

It's natural for all men and women to masturbate


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Re: Masturbation - February 6th 2015, 05:53 PM

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Is it natural to need both hands to do it?
   
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Re: Masturbation - February 7th 2015, 04:46 AM

I have a neutral standpoint about it, meaning I don't think it's good or bad. It doesn't do any harm to the person.

But it can make it easier for a person not to rush and do something they could regret down the line.
   
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Re: Masturbation - February 7th 2015, 06:59 AM

I'm nay for myself, yay for everyone else. I don't find it pleasurable and don't have many sexual feelings to begin with, so I just don't do it.


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Re: Masturbation - February 7th 2015, 07:27 PM

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Is it natural to need both hands to do it?
Sheeeeeit, I don't even use my hands.


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Re: Masturbation - February 12th 2015, 10:47 AM

I think it's natural and completely personal choice. Obviously at the point where is obsessive, it is unhealthy, but aside from that it is proven to relieve stress, a pain relief, allows people to get to know their body and what they like


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Re: Masturbation - February 15th 2015, 11:59 PM

For it! Why not??


   
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Re: Masturbation - February 18th 2015, 09:47 PM

hi what is masturbation ? im very new 2 this website so im kindove dumb xD ..
   
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Re: Masturbation - February 18th 2015, 09:50 PM

also can some ppl look at my other post i rly need help
   
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