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Mastubating too much - January 20th 2018, 10:19 AM

This is really awkward for me to be putting this on here. So excuse me if all this sound jumbled.

Anyways sometime I get into this mode where I tend to masturbate everyday for hours like 4 hours.So I started doing this again for about a month. But I usually do this toward night time while reading fanfiction.The thing is I always use a vibrator and the way I hold it is probably weird. But my third finger on my left hand is really close to it and I got a huge blister on that finger, I could stop masturbating though and my the finger hurts so damn much and I kind of have this funny sensation in that finger and the fourth finger.

I honestly don't know what to do. I really want to quit masturbating for awhile. But it's like I am addicted to it right now. I do have bpd and one this is excessive sex. I actually have never had sex so this is the equivalent to that for me.

When I was about five to seven I would masturbate all the damn time and we now know that is because of me being molested. I mean I would do it in class at daycare.

Could I be doing this so much because maybe I am have nightmares about the molestation but can't remember it so I am going back to the thing I know?

Anyways does anyone have any idea how I can cool it for awhile?


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Re: Mastubating too much - January 21st 2018, 09:13 PM

I'm glad you opened up about this!

I think like any kind of addiction, it's best to slowly cut down on the time spent masturbating, rather than trying to give up all at once.

Perhaps try setting a limit of how long you masturbate each day, and slowly lower that over time to an amount that feels comfortable and where you aren't at risk of hurting yourself. If you still have the urge or catch yourself masturbating after the limit, you'll have to find ways of distracting yourself, or make sure that you aren't getting aroused by anything e.g. fanfiction. You could also try changing how you masturbate to help prevent anymore blisters. You don't have to give up masturbating completely if you don't want to, but you shouldn't be masturbating to the point of pain and blisters either. Everything in moderation

It is possible that both the BPD and being molested when you were younger could be influencing how often you masturbate. But as long as you aren't choosing masturbation over other things, and you try to help prevent injuries from masturbating, then it should be okay.


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Re: Mastubating too much - January 21st 2018, 10:37 PM

Thank you for replying. It just pisses me off that i al doing it so damn much right now. I mean i can months and months with hardlydoing it At all, and then i get un this fase of being so addicted to it where i get blŪster and al sobre down there. I al trying really hatd to hardly to do it At all.


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Re: Mastubating too much - January 25th 2018, 12:34 AM

Switch up on some other things. I know is probably hard for you to stop masturbating, but you can maybe masturbate while doing something new.


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Re: Mastubating too much - January 25th 2018, 05:04 AM

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Switch up on some other things. I know is probably hard for you to stop masturbating, but you can maybe masturbate while doing something new.


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There might be other things OP can do but I am not sure that is what OP wants. It seems like they want to understand why this is happening and they are trying to figure out ways to cope. Incorporating different things might help some people and that might be something OP could look into or, talk to someone about if they'd feel comfortable.

I do know that people who have been molested as children can have certain issues with masturbation such as doing too much etc. I think the best thing op can do is try and limit how often they do it. By slowly stopping, they might have a greater chance of getting to a place where they don't do it as much.


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