bdsm troubles
 

Hi there. I'm 14.

I'm currently on the verge of a panic attack. I have had this problem for months and I'm sick of this endless cycle of feeling so sad. I'm interested in BDSM and I'm so creeped out by myself. I try to accept it but everytime I masturbate to bondage or something I feel so dirty and wrong. I feel like I'm objectifying women. And then I try to not be into it which in turn makes me feel awful because I can't help being attracted to it. And it's all I think about day in day out and I'm just exhausted. I have no friends or family to talk to and talking to strangers online is my only way of venting. I understand BDSM is about consent and trust but I feel like I'm some creep who likes seeing women tied up. Why am I like this? ( I need to stress I do have anxiety which is pretty much the cause of all this).

Re: bdsm troubles
 

trust me this is totally normal, bdsm is perfectly fine to be into. as long as everyone is consenting there's nothing wrong with it. the women in the bdsm community who are subs are consenting to be tied up or objectified, you shouldn't feel guilty for what you're into

Re: bdsm troubles
 

The fact that you like it is quite normal, but what others do not like is their personal problems. You should not listen to other people and change your opinion about them.

Re: bdsm troubles
 

find people like u and do it.

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Certainly nothing wrong with it. What is wrong is you our letting outside things interfere with what you enjoy. You aren't pushing it onto other people so what is wrong with enjoying it for yourself? Find a ground of people that have the same interest and join in.

Re: bdsm troubles
 

For me BDSM is the only way to get horny and that scares shit out of me. I am going to try using edited or somethink like this, maybe that way I'll fell something about normal sex. And if it doesn't work, I'll definitely go talk to a therapist.

Re: bdsm troubles
 

Bdsm often calls problems.