TeenHelp - Non-PG13 (Strong Language): male and female advice welcome but mostly lesbians

Hi there :)

Thank you for reaching you - and welcome to TeenHelp! :D

Unfortunately we can't recommend specifics here, but I would recommend doing some research before going ahead with any sexual activities if you're not very knowledgeable about these things. TH has some great resources you could try, such as sex etc which has a really useful dictionary of terms to help you get familiar with sex. It also has information on sexual health and other things you may want to do some research into before becoming sexually active!

I would also recommend making sure you and your friend are being as safe as possible. Because you're still incredibly new to this, please do some research on this before having sex as you want to make sure you've taken everything into account, such as birth control etc. There's a wonderful article you can read here which might give you an overview, but it might be good to discuss this with your potential partner too so that they are on the same page as you.

Ultimately, you should always make sure you know enough to engage in sex safely and consensually. There's no rush either, so do as much research as you can to feel comfortable with everything, and just make sure you are both on the same page, comfortable and safe!

Hope this helps. :)