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Penis Size advice!

Hi! My penis has quite quickly and rapidly growing to 12". I'm worried about the size, hiding, and chance of ever beeing with a girl. I also feel like I have to masturbate 3 (sometimes more) times a day as when I have an erection it won't go away until I finish. Has anyone had anything similar to this or have advice? Anything at all is appreciated! :)

Re: Penis Size advice!

Don't feel ashamed or anything like that about your size. You're perfect just the way you are!

Since your penis is rapidly growing and you are concerned, are you able to get to a doctor to make sure everything is normal and that your hormones are all right? It's better to get checked and find out there isn't actually a problem than to figure out too late that there IS one.

I'm not sure about hiding it since I do not own a penis myself, but maybe it involves how you position your penis in your pants, the direction you point things, etc?

Don't worry about being with a girl. Sexually, if things hurt you can try different positions, moves, and speed until you two get into a good rhythm and things stop hurting.

Masturbation is normal, especially when hormones are raging. The one thing to question is how it is impacting your life. Are you getting hurt at all by masturbating, or is masturbation something that is taking over too much of your time (such as giving up other obligations to masturbate)? If so, that's when it becomes a problem. Maybe you can do something like install a child block on your computer if you look up porn to masturbate to. Even though you know the password it would be a reminder to maybe do something else. Try other activities to distract yourself, such as exercise, video games, etc, to release some of the tension.

I wish you the best of luck!

Dez

Re: Penis Size advice!

Thanks for reaching out. First of all, I want to say you are a little bit too young to be engaging in any type of sexual activity. Don't worry about that now, you have plenty of time for it when you're older. Just enjoy the last days of childhood.

Second of all, I would speak to a doctor or a clinician about this. There could be hormonal imbalance or excessive testosterone. If it's bothering you this much, then you can come up with a treatment plan that works best for you.

Good luck!

Re: Penis Size advice!

Hello!
I see a hormonal imbalance in you.
Let's see how it grows and what it does in the next days. May be something temporarily.
I know who is in a similar situation, so if you have any question, just write to me.
Have you already get an appointment with an urologist?

Re: Penis Size advice!

Thank you, it is very useful.

Re: Penis Size advice!

Hello, feel free to PM me if you want.

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I think that's ok. Don't worry or be scared for that. You are still young!
The best thing to do in this cases is to go to an urologist!