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Question Sex Without Getting Caught - November 27th 2009, 03:37 AM

First of all, I have plenty of condoms and she is on the pill. We are both virgins. She is coming to my town (Sandwich, IL) from North Aurora. My parents don't know about her coming over. We can't drive, unless I can get a friend to. Where are some places we could go to have sex? Also, tips on first time sex would be appreciated.

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Re: Sex Without Getting Caught - November 27th 2009, 03:43 AM

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And as for tips, to be honest she may well have her own ideas about technique etc, take it slow, and go easy first of all, if something goes wrong shrug it off, practice makes perfect, just keep trying... Unless she wants to stop!

However its the most natural thing in the world, people have been doing it since well the first human...


EDIT: For your first time though, you really want, time, space and somewhere comfy to be honest... leave stone floors and hanging upside down to later xD

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Re: Sex Without Getting Caught - November 27th 2009, 05:01 PM

Don't do it anywhere public. She will be nervous enough and you want to make sure she is comfortable. And if things dont' work out, there is lots of time to try again.
Is it possible you can have an older friend drive you somewhere?
If you can't find a place, I would honestly wait a while. You don't want to be caught or make her so nervous that it is uncomfortable.
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Re: Sex Without Getting Caught - November 27th 2009, 10:22 PM

go wherever you both feel comfortable.. first time sex is probably better if you're not worrying about someone seeing you though.. so make sure you're somewhere pretty private. the only advise i would give you is to take it slow, listen to her and don't get too stressed out if it all goes wrong or it's not enjoyable..

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Re: Sex Without Getting Caught - November 28th 2009, 10:25 PM

Finding a safe and private place is a major problem if you're not our on your own. Usually people can do it at home when family members are away, but it seem that's not possible in your case. Unless a friend can fix you up with some place, you've got a problem.

Don't consider public places, like the back seat of a car cuz you can be disturbed by police or even by people who will beat you up and rape her (it happens). Your options are limited since winters coming on and it's too cold outside, which is not the best option anyway. If you can't work something out with a friend or at home, prob best to wait till things change anyway.

If she's on the pill, and takes it properly, that's the best BC going and if you're both virgins you don't have to worry about STDs, so that makes things much simpler since you don't have to worry about dealing with condoms. Have lube handy, astro glide is wonderful, but something like butter works in a pinch. If you don't need it, that's fine, but if you do, you have it. Take it really slow and gentle your first time, and don't get discouraged if things don't work out the first try, there's always a next time. Don't forget to compliment her the first time you see her naked, like she's the most beautiful woman you ever saw (true), she's perfectly proportioned, she has a figure like a statue, you wish you could be with her forever, etc. That's important. Ask her if she's ok once during sex and if she's experiencing pain, does she want to stop. It's a bigger deal for a girl than it is for a guy so be considerate. If she gets scared, remember there's always a next time and she'll respect you for giving her space.

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Re: Sex Without Getting Caught - November 28th 2009, 11:54 PM

safe,private and comfortable.
someplace that will leave enjoyable memories is always a plus..
think of an area where she would be amazed..
worry free.. nothing trashy...

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Re: Sex Without Getting Caught - November 29th 2009, 12:35 AM

If you have having sex in public, there is a HIGH chance of getting caught. My advice: If you can't have the first encounter be meaningful, wait until it works out. Trust me, even if you both are rearing to go, the girl wants it at least memorable. At least I would want it to be memorable.

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