Sex and shaving

[iamverybeautiful]

Hi, I have a questions for girls who are sexually active. Do you feel pressured to always shave if you are having sex regularly? Do you shave everything down there? How much shaving is enough (or not enough)?

[zumbaqueen2012]

Up to yourself really.
I think it looks wrong if you shave too much and there's like nothing down there.
I shave every once in a while, every few months maybe but always leave something. I definitely dont feel under pressure.
But everyones different

[TheLittleNinja]

Hey.

I agree with the above post. You do what your happy with :] Shaving isn't important for sex, but maybe a little more important for something like oral. As long as your clean and tidy - mean generally don't mind :]

I don't like the 'bald' look - it's to 'kiddy' for me. So, I just leave a bit. But as with the above post - Sometimes I just leave it. Don't get pressured into things - just find something you like :]

[bitesize]

I keep my bikini line shaved and the rest trimmed very very short.

[iDream]

I can't stand having hair between my legs. :x It's really uncomfortable to me. But I keep the hair on top/front to reassure myself that I'm not 11. lol If a guy asked me to shave everything, I probably wouldn't do it because it'd make me feel awkward.

[kayduh2010]

just my opinion, i HATE having hair in my area down there. i shave it all. period. i go with the "bald" look. i know im not 10, so it doesn't bother me. i do feel pressured to shave though, cause my bf doesn't like hair, but at the same time im not, because i shave anyways because of not liking it. and i shave at least 2 times a week. usually on saturdays, and tuesdays. i have a schedule...lol.

[DanceCommander]

I dislike having hair in that area of my body. Its much more neat and clean to have it all off, to me at least. I also shave probably two or three times a week.

[LittleMiss]

I wax, but sometimes I feel I should more often because I get lazy and don't for a few months and he might comment which has a little pressure to it. But then he'll add that he doesn't mind... which is a contradiction in my mind.

[Melody Pond]

Originally Posted by bitesize

I keep my bikini line shaved and the rest trimmed very very short.

^^This.

My boyfriend doesn't pressure me into it at all. I usually make sure everything is tidy down there before we go out or I go to his house but some times we don't plan anything so I haven't had a chance and my boyfriend isn't bothered by it.

[TheBabyEater]

I think every girl should do as they please really. It's her body after all. Sometimes shaving and waxing is a hassle.

Personally, even though I don't have sex that often, (maybe once a month. long distance relationship) I don't like it when it's too long anyway. I think it's just... eh, too much.
But I do feel a tad pressured because even though now he'll assure me he loves ME, not my body. Because when we were first starting to do anything down there, he did make a comment about it when I wasn't sure if I wanted to do anything... He was just like "you're not 100% sure you're ready, so we won't. Plus, I don't like hair." So even though that was months ago, I still remember it So when I go I tend to get rid of everything