What Do You Say?

[Lynnnnn]

When me and my boyfriend have sex, he's usually really....verbal,
while i'm fairly quite.
I was wondering what people say during sex? (thats nasty ik, but i think my bf liikes it)

my favorite of his is "you feel so good" haha or something along those lines.

Ok thanks, i appriecate everyones post!

[Jocelyn.]

You kinda just have to go with the flow, and say what feels right at that moment. But what you quoted it a good start :P If its something your boyfriend is in to, I'm sure all those cheezy lines that you hear are bound to stroke his ego a bit, even if it feels uncomfortable saying it at first hehe.

I hope this is appropriate lol... but you can start with things like "oh god" "ooh yeah" "right there" "harder" things like that, I know my boyfriend likes it. You can maybe throw his name in there.

[Work_In_Progress]

Saying things to basically degrade the partner to a "bitch", "slut" or "whore". You can watch a porno or two and you'd get a huge grasp of what's said during a very verbal session of intercourse. Some people like being silent, others love to be loud enough so your neighboors can hear.

[Dervisher]

Hate to tell you this but pornos are just degrading. Saying that during sex would probably not help at all. Now, on the good side of pornos, you can learn HOW good sex actually works.
They use good form, the female tends to say what's good for her, e.g. a good angle (a lot of pornos the directors just kinda say: "ok, we're using this brand of condom with this kind of bed sheet that we're advertising, we want you to do this sexual pose and you kind of make up the rest")
So basically...don't call your girlfriend/boyfriend derogatory things unless she/he actually provokes you to treat her like that, and yeah basically all you do is comic relief during sex to basically ease the tension.
your bf saying you feel good makes YOU feel like you're doing something right during sex and in return you could do the same, although i'm sure he's fine as he is considering the fact he's secure enough to say those things. Anything positive is good.

[TheLittleNinja]

Originally Posted by Work_In_Progress

Saying things to basically degrade the partner to a "bitch", "slut" or "whore". You can watch a porno or two and you'd get a huge grasp of what's said during a very verbal session of intercourse. Some people like being silent, others love to be loud enough so your neighboors can hear.

Note: Only SOME people like this type of thing. Some people find it EXREMELY upsetting when their partner says this to them. Talk to your boyfriend first about these types of words - alsi if you don't want him to say them to you - then tell them. At the end of the day, if you don't like being called these things, it could be seen as a type of emotional abuse, so just be careful.

Anyway, I agree with the other posts so far about just going with the flow, just say what feels good etc. Follow his lead, listen to what he says, and repeat it if you think it applies to how you feel

Take Care x

[TheNumber42]

Originally Posted by QuackerJackWoop

Note: Only SOME people like this type of thing. Some people find it EXREMELY upsetting when their partner says this to them. Talk to your boyfriend first about these types of words - alsi if you don't want him to say them to you - then tell them. At the end of the day, if you don't like being called these things, it could be seen as a type of emotional abuse, so just be careful.

Yeah, I'd not be turned on in the least and probably pretty upset if my girlfriend were trying to degrade me while we were doing anything intimate. And personally, I'd probably punch myself out if I even thought of saying those things to her. Maybe he's into that kind of thing and you could ask about it, but for now I would try NOT to emulate porno talk and just kind of go with the flow. Say when something feels good, maybe even joke around a bit, etc. It doesn't have to be all serious or set to a script.

[Superstar]

I tend not to talk during sex, but I make plenty of noise about it if it feels good. The better it feels, the louder I am. If Im quiet, my partner is doing it wrong. If I do speak though, and I sometimes do, its usually to cry out their name, to attest to how good they feel, or to give explicit guidance (usually in the form of dirty commands).

[Gaia]

Oh I'm very vocal, when it's good
It depends on your style, some people like being degraded others just like gentle encouragement. Try almost mimicking what he says, letting him know when he's doing something right, and how good it feels. It's a great starting point [:

[ChapperIce]

Really we usually just do heavy breathing and quiet moaning. Every now and then he'll do some "dominant" talking to me and I'll reply submissively.

Usually though it's just a bunch of "yeah" "you like that?" "Oh god.."

[Xeninja]

lol um, mostly i just pant and moan during sex, occasioanlly telling giving him guidcines, like "harder", "deeper", "faster", lol Maybe some "Oh god, oh god, oh ****, yes yes YES!" stuff like that... IT just kinda falls out of me. He likes it

[DanielR]

I really don't remember a lot of the 'conversation' during sex. The only thing I take notice of is the moaning. If I don't hear moaning, its time to try something different.

It's all about pleasing her... as far as I'm concerned.
- Unless its 'No-Frills/One nighter' sex. Then, I really don't give a crap. < Not very often though...