Do your parents know you're sexually active?

[xxpaigiexx]

I was just wondering if anyone's parents know they are sexually active or you've ever been caught out.
I think my mum suspects something but doesn't know entirely or not if me and my boyfriend are having sex.
I think my dad is completely clueless.
My boyfriend said his mum wouldn't be particularly suprised or bothered if she was to know we were.
So come on guys opinions

[i_am_me_again]

Yup, my parents know, but then Im 24 lol, they were married at my age!

[losing touch.]

I've never told my parents but i'm assuming my mum knows and she's cool with it. I'm 17 and [obviously] legal so theres not much she can do about it. My dad doesn't care either.

[Algernon]

Yep. They sure do.

[her_beautiful_mistake]

Yes they've always known, the only thing they said was that I wasn't allowed to stay in the same room as my boyfriend overnight until I was 16.

[kadyCHAOS]

yeah, but its not like we talk about it or anything. except birth control a couple years ago lol.

[Heathen]

Considering my mother is the one who helped me pay for my birth control, yes, they know. My mother doesnt really much care as long as I stay safe about it. My father is perturbed by it, I think, but realizes Im almost twenty now and old enough to make my own decisions.

[PhoenixAlive]

Considering I'm married and have a baby, they'd have to be ridiculously naiive to think I'm still a virgin.

[BrittneyNicole]

My mom knows and she doesn't care as long as I'm safe about it. I've never told my dad, or talked about it around him, but I assume he probably has some idea.

[I-Love-him]

yh i think they know lol

[Miranda.]

Yes, my mom knows. I hate this fact, but more than just my mom knows...gah...haha, anyways, I am 15, lost my virginity at 14, and my mom knew right off the bat. She practically encouraged me...which is deffinately not a good thing. So I had to learn some things on my own because of that. When she first found out about it, she went out and bought me condoms, and pregnancy tests, and put me on Birth Control. Since then I had to learn these lessons on my own, I've went through a few heart-breaks. So now, I'm working on abstinence, until my bf and I are ready once more.

[bitesize]

Yes, because a year ago I had to go to my mum to give her my prescription for the birth control pill.... (I couldnt afford to get it myself every month.) I'd been with my boyfriend five months by then, but she still slightly freaked out. I think she just ahdn't wanted to admit it to herself til then!!

[topov]

I told my mum lol... and being 34 weeks pregnant I very much hope everyone else has guessed, otherwise I am worried about the intelligence of my family LOL

[iDream]

Lol no. Even though I'm 19 I don't think my mom could handle the thought of me having sex. I'm the youngest, and my older sister(21) still isn't sexually active. I think I'll have my mom the heart attack.

[Melody Pond]

My boyfriends Mum found our condoms in his room so they definitely know.
My boyfriends Mum then phoned my Mum and told her. I don't think my Dad knows, he probably suspects it but doesn't want to know.

I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years so I guess they all at least suspected it for a while.

[TheMeltdown]

absolutely not... she'd freak out.. but i think she knows i'm capeable of doing si and fears it.. terribly

[Jack]

Yeah they do, but they knew I was back at aged 16.

[Hope.]

nope...my parents are convinced that i want to wait till marriage...haha

[someone_unknown]

yep my momma knows but she dont like it cause my boyfriends age and stuff lol his 16

[Nicolette]

I told my mom when I became sexually active, since I had moved in with the guy (my now hubby) she figured... she was all over it offering advice and what not... my mom and I have a really open relationship though.

[Hollifire]

Haha this is a fun thread. :P My parents have known since I was about 17 or so (Started having sex soon before my 17th birthday), when my Dad found condoms in my room, lol. They were a little freaked out, but then got over it. =)

[icedoverfire]

My rents probably suspect but haven't said anything about it. Do I plan on telling them? No.

[Magic.]

I think they know, but they pretend not to ... "still their little girl" or something.
My ex boyfriends mum walked in on us, with his older brother one of the first times we slept together, so his family definately knew ... :/

[lauren_160]

No haha, my sister got pregnant at 15, so they're always like really funny about sex, so i assume they thought if they didn't talk to me about sex, i'd never do it LOL

[zumbaqueen2012]

Welll...they havent mentioned anything about it, but I'm sure they know. Just decide not to say anything...

[alexa]

I'm pretty sure my parents have no idea. I go to boarding school, so they don't see me around guys at all. They probably think I have never kissed a guy. xD

[flowerchild32273]

Well my family doesnt even know about my bf. I met him online and we've been together over 2 years now but im still nervous about what to tell them. he lives in ny 9 hours away and we do see each other every few months now that Im away at college. his dad knows we have sex and his mom probably does. she lets us sleep in his room when i visit them and he sleeps in my room when he visits me. I handled the birth control situation myself. There's a health clinic on campus that gives out bc like candy lol. I dont think my mom could handle me having sex. especially since she doesnt know about my bf. his parents are alot more understanding.

[noodle]

lol, i dont know, my mum found advice websites about the first time and stuff on my computor history lmao so now she's acting completely funny about me seing him, i dont think she really thinks i have, i convinced her i wanted to wait till i was 16... i did, but i changed my mind :P

[liketheangel]

im almost 20. so id assume they know. but its not as if when i visit i say "i got laid last night" its never openly discussed but theyve got to know.
my dad might be in denial

[Tericon]

Nope they sure don't and as they don't even know about my bisexuality, thats probably a good thing :P

[WillO'Wisp]

My mother does. I trust her and tell her completely everything, even if she doesn't like what she may hear. She was young once and she understands. She can't lecture me to wait until marriage either because she certainly didn't, and my dad definitely didn't either but he's a huge bible humper and very protective so I would never tell him I'm not a virgin anymore. I won't ever tell him. He'd just flip out and wouldn't understand.
I only slept with 2 guys, both I had strong feelings for at the time, I waited until I was about 21 years old to start having sex and waited until I was completely ready, so it's not like it's a big deal.

[udontno]

My parents have no idea that I'm sexually active and probably wouldn't guess. I've been with one guy. We are not in a relationship and have never been, therefore, they definitely wouldn't think two friends are having sex.

[Make Believe]

I'm a virgin but my parents think I am sexually active ¬____¬ My mum always asks if I want to go on the pill, I'm tempted to just go on it to shut her up. In a way it's good my mum would want me to be safe and wouldn't go insane if I had sex but if anything I'm slightly pressured by her to have sex ¬_____¬

Edit: Actually it kind of depends what you consider "sexually active" is. Me and my ex done things apart from intercourse, my parents didn't know.

[KaylaSue]

My parents know for sure! and actually yes, once i was caught in the act with my gf.. but my mom just shut the door real quick and shouted sorry through the door haha

[fuzzycosmicears]

Obviously my mom knows. lol. I live with my boyfriend. :P

[.:Bibliophile:.]

Originally Posted by PhoenixAlive

Considering I'm married and have a baby, they'd have to be ridiculously naiive to think I'm still a virgin.

Haha I love this response! LMAO. Seriously this response made my day. Just thinking about it is funny. I sure hope they are not that naive!

Anyway, my parents know that I am not sexually active so it is safe to say that when I become sexually active they will know. I feel like the fact that I can talk to my parents about it makes it easier to go to them if I were to have a problem. From the time I was in junior high my parents drilled into me that if I were going to have sex they wanted me to come to them so that they could get me on birth control and get the proper protection.

I know that my dad will be a little upset about it. I mean I am his 'little girl' and all but he will be okay with knowing that I feel comfortable enough to go to him about it.

[don'tstopbelievin]

My parents know I'm not a virgin but they don't know the extent of my sexual activities, I think they would be mortified!! Haha..

[Ryan1]

Yup, I always have ladies over and regardless if anyone is home I still don't hold back *anything* because its only natural.

[Maloo]

I got busted when I lost my virginity at 15.

They know, but it is never, ever discussed.

[Missy07]

Absolutely not. My mom would kill me lol, even though I'm 20. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend and that was like a month ago...But my parents totally think I'm the "wait till marriage" type.