cum..yuck

[flowerchild32273]

ok so im not a big fan of how my bf's cum tastes...or the texture...its kind of icky...but it's not really a huge deal to me, i would just deal with it, but i made the mistake of telling him how i felt and now he's really upset about it...like upset that something from him could be so bad to me? and he's saying he doesn't want to have oral sex at all anymore...but i still want to and i enjoy giving him pleasure. i told him im sure once i get used to it itll be fine and i told him the pineapple juice thing but it didnt help. hes still really upset. what i want to know is 1. what to do about him and 2. if anyone else feels the same about cum

[TheNumber42]

Well, I think you need to just tell him that you love him and that you want give him pleasure through oral sex. Make sure he knows it's what you really want and give him some time. He may also be insecure, so try to make sure he knows there is nothing wrong with him, you just don't like the taste of semen.

And I've never tasted it, but doesn't look very appetizing.

[DanielR]

I would never EXPECT a woman to swallow/allow me to ejaculate in her mouth. The way I see it: If you won't swallow it, why would you ask her to?

Make sure he see's it as your option, and that he needs to grow up about it and understand that you're human too

[flowerchild32273]

hes not angry at me that i don't want to do it. i actually dont mind doing it, i just dislike the taste and he got offended and upset when i told him that. he wouldnt force me to do anything i didnt want. he was actually telling me that he didnt want me to perform oral sex for him at all because hes worried about it bothering me and it upsets him. i actually WANT to do it.

[flowerchild32273]

oh and i actually asked him to try it before i did and he did but it was a tiny tiny bit. different story when its all of it

[Boobies]

Could you not just ask him to put a condom on? x.x
I'm sure that would solve the problem.

[TheNumber42]

Originally Posted by 3.1415926535897

Could you not just ask him to put a condom on? x.x
I'm sure that would solve the problem.

You can even get one with a good, fruity flavor.

[xxpaigiexx]

Originally Posted by 3.1415926535897

Could you not just ask him to put a condom on? x.x
I'm sure that would solve the problem.

I agree with this.
This is a happy medium, your boyfriend won't feel bad but he still gets oral sex and you're more comfortable because you know there is no chance of getting cum in your mouth.
Can't even imagine how disgusting it would taste, no offense intended guys

[Katara]

lol I'm male and I dislike it I can't imagine how a girl would feel about it xD

[Daydreamer]

Honestly it's not the most horrible thing in the world. It's not my favorite, but I can deal with it. Is it a taste you think you could handle or is it so bad you don't even want it near you? I've heard that the way it is is different between guys, I've only been with one so I can't say for certain... But if it's something you can get used to and don't MIND getting used to tell him that. Make sure he knows it's nothing against him, just you aren't adjusted to it yet. Try to put it into perspective and see it from his point of view. Imagine he told you that he didn't like the way you taste during oral sex? How would you feel, and what would you want to hear to make you feel better?

[AcidRayne*OG*]

I couldn't agree more, it doesn't taste very good, but if he eats pineapple or drinks the juice, the actual juice, it might help. I always swallow for my boyfriend because he really wants me to, but I don't like it. Sorry if that was too much information. There are things that can make it taste better. Texture doesn't bother me. I think guys expect girls to do it because they do in most porn. Just an opinion.

[fuzzycosmicears]

It depends on my mood. My boyfriend does not ask me to. I just kind of do. But sometimes I can not stand the taste of it. He understands and that is the end of it. We might try again when I feel like it. But I would agree a condom might help in your situation and they do have them with flavors. Hope this helped

[MacGuffin]

I do not mind the taste of come at all, even if its rather bitter or too salty. (Every guy tastes different, by the way, and a lot of it has to do with their health, habits, diet, hormones etc) Its not really the taste that matters to me, is the thing, but rather the thrill I get from the completion of performing oral sex.

Anyway, there are also tablets you can get that flavor the guy's come if natural things like eating lots of mangos or pineapple juice or citrus fruits arent working. That or just use a condom, like someone else said. Also, you could try having him ejaculate at the very back of your throat so most of it misses your taste buds.

[Daydreamer]

They make tablets for that? Does it make it a specific flavor or just change the flavor a little? That's cool.

[PlayingPretend]

Originally Posted by Superstar

I do not mind the taste of come at all, even if its rather bitter or too salty. (Every guy tastes different, by the way, and a lot of it has to do with their health, habits, diet, hormones etc) Its not really the taste that matters to me, is the thing, but rather the thrill I get from the completion of performing oral sex.

Same. I used to find the idea of swallowing absolutely revolting and used to consider myself a spitter until I actually swallowed. Now I love it, simply because it's the result of my good job, for lack of a better term for it.

I also feel completely subservient when swallowing.

That being said, I can understand why some people don't like it, and I would try explaining to your boyfriend that it's not the act of giving oral sex that turns you off, and that it's not so much of a turn off as that it's something you'd prefer not to do. I like the idea of asking him about condoms, or, if you don't want to have to work with condoms, why not ask him to tell you when he's about to finish? Simply finish him with your hand, and maybe allow him to finish on your body or face (again, it's all about personal preference) instead. If that idea doesn't appeal to you, simply have a towel ready for him to ejaculate into. After all, you like giving it to him and you like to pleasure him with it, so let him know! Also let him know that there are alternatives to having him finish in your mouth and come up with him together. It's like coming to a compromise and gives him some control over the final result.

[angelafwks]

I had a b/f who always wanted me to swallow, which was cool sometimes but not always. In the end I kissed him after b/j and transfered his cum into his mouth. He did swallow it but admitted he would let me choose in future.

[PunkRoxS9]

Originally Posted by angelafwks

I had a b/f who always wanted me to swallow, which was cool sometimes but not always. In the end I kissed him after b/j and transfered his cum into his mouth. He did swallow it but admitted he would let me choose in future.

That. is cool. I might use that one oneday.

As to the OP - use flavoured condoms, theyre pretty good apparently. My mate tasted a whole load of them just to see (hes male lol) and supposedly theyre nice x

[Saphire]

I think showing him this thread would make him more confident, because then he will realise how you actually feel about it and he won't feel so insecure about it anymore and he'll understand that you do want to

[flowerchild32273]

yea we talked about it and i convinced him that its not a big deal and i do want to so i think itll be ok.

[Algernon]

Tell him to quit being irrational. He's probably just putting on the "I don't want oral sex" act because he wants to get you to pretend everything about him is perfect. It's not your fault that you don't like cum. A lot of girls don't. Is really not as great as It's made out to be. Tell him to go try it and see how he likes it, lol.

You can try to get him to drink pineapple juice. That might help.

[larryshere]

meh tell him its ok by unzipping his trousers/pants and giveing him a blowjob

[Bibliophile]

Favoured condoms? That's one simple solution.

[jellbell]

well u need to express to him that even though u like gvin him pleasure doesnt mesn u need to b uncofortable either

[Brandon]

For the record, all guys taste differently just like women taste differently. It doesn't matter how much you wash and clean your junk; your fluid is largely affected by your diet. Because of this, telling a guy that his sperm tastes bad is like calling a woman "fat". And the "flavored condoms" and sexual jelly is like putting a body bag over a "fat" woman when you have sex with her. Oh, I'll still give you a blowjob...but you gotta put on this thing that decreases the natural feeling. A blowjob doesn't have to end with a happy ending in the mouth. The minimal that most guys ask is that you don't back away, cover your face, or any of that. In the mouth is an added bonus, but it's not required. So if you REALLY wanna give this dude a blowjob...then just don't swallow. Pretty simple enough.

[ChapperIce]

Imagine if your boyfriend went down on you and told you he didn't like your taste. Granted girls taste way better so I doubt this would be an issue,but ti would hurt a lot wouldn't i?

[mIssIng:nO]

Originally Posted by ChapperIce

Imagine if your boyfriend went down on you and told you he didn't like your taste. Granted girls taste way better so I doubt this would be an issue,but ti would hurt a lot wouldn't i?

hahahahha, noooooo.

[ChapperIce]

Originally Posted by mIssIng:nO

hahahahha, noooooo.

Considering my boyfriend had me try a bit of myself once as it turned him on, and i have tasted his cum and he has told me before he doesn't taste anything when he went down on previous girls, I can say with full confidence that if a girl tastes bad it is most likely because she is either sick, close to her period (heard it was a metallic taste) or has an EXTREMELY poor diet.

I've tasted both and conclude that girls taste so much better.

[Brandon]

Considering my boyfriend had me try a bit of myself once as it turned him on, and i have tasted his cum and he has told me before he doesn't taste anything when he went down on previous girls, I can say with full confidence that if a girl tastes bad it is most likely because she is either sick, close to her period (heard it was a metallic taste) or has an EXTREMELY poor diet.

I've tasted both and conclude that girls taste so much better.

How many of each have you tasted?

[Broken one]

I'm not a huuuge fan of my bf's cum to be honest, I don't mind the taste that much but the texture is reallly eww.
My bf has told me as well that most of his ex's tasted disgusting but apparantly I taste really nice ^^ lol

[the.end]

i am living testament that the pineapple thing works.

get him pineapple juice, or a form of juice and just drink it for like a week straight. it makes cum sweeter, less bitter.

[Sonofalich]

Originally Posted by Brandon

How many of each have you tasted?

Oh Brandon, how I love thee. You are a less rude version of me.
I concur with Brandon... women being internal, kinda have more problems keeping lets say fresh.

Especially on a one night stand, haha I refuse.

Eitherway with the cum thing, meh take it facially then instead of in your mouth. I'm sure he will love that option. Personally for me, most girls swallow, end of the day. The one's that do in my opinion are normally the dirty girls which I normally then see again, but thats just my personal preference and experiance. One's that complain about cum, normally complain about other things, again thats just my experiance.

[ChapperIce]

Originally Posted by Sonofalich

Oh Brandon, how I love thee. You are a less rude version of me.
I concur with Brandon... women being internal, kinda have more problems keeping lets say fresh.

Especially on a one night stand, haha I refuse.

Eitherway with the cum thing, meh take it facially then instead of in your mouth. I'm sure he will love that option. Personally for me, most girls swallow, end of the day. The one's that do in my opinion are normally the dirty girls which I normally then see again, but thats just my personal preference and experiance. One's that complain about cum, normally complain about other things, again thats just my experiance.

Well I try to shower before any sexual encounter. It makes me feel more relaxed and I feel it's more hygenic so I don't have a freshness problem

[flowerchild32273]

well i don't want him to do it um..on my face...i just have a problem with that. its seems really disrespectful to me. i dont really know why it just does.

[ChapperIce]

I wouldn't want him to do it on my face either, I think it is a sort of disrespectful thing somehow so I see where you're coming from.

I've let my boyfriend cum on my breasts before, though, before I let him come in my mouth and he loved it. If you're not too iffy with that (since it's easier to wash off for one) then offer them up for him?

[Brandon]

Originally Posted by ChapperIce

Well I try to shower before any sexual encounter. It makes me feel more relaxed and I feel it's more hygenic so I don't have a freshness problem

You still haven't answered my question. My question is "how many of each have you tasted?" If you conclude that women taste so much better than men, then I would like to know how many you've tasted to conclude that women taste so much better than men.

[ChapperIce]

Originally Posted by Brandon

You still haven't answered my question. My question is "how many of each have you tasted?" If you conclude that women taste so much better than men, then I would like to know how many you've tasted to conclude that women taste so much better than men.

A lot, ok?

[Lizzie]

Originally Posted by Algernon

Tell him to quit being irrational. He's probably just putting on the "I don't want oral sex" act because he wants to get you to pretend everything about him is perfect. It's not your fault that you don't like cum. A lot of girls don't. Is really not as great as It's made out to be. Tell him to go try it and see how he likes it, lol.

*High Fives Holly*

I know very few women who actually like the taste, because honestly, I have to agree with you, it’s not a treat that is for sure. But for him to cut you off because you were just being honest with him? Heck no. Tell him you were just being honest with how you feel, but it’s not fair for him to withhold sex because he isn’t happy with it. That’s very childish of him.