Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Lasting Longer / Define freak?

[Joshie]

Got 2 Questions.
Alright;
ima be straight up and blunt.
so ya.

Okay; im use to lasting about 30~ mins or so during sex. (this is without switching positions but the casual stuff since some girls are lazy/ unexperienced) also this depends on the tightness. If i get a so called "experienced" girl.. (without using the slur) who isnt as tight in the Lower area then it also lasts longer (40~ mins) but i still dont think that is good enough; i dont wanna stop till i please the person im with.
So One question is.. How can a guy last longer in the sack to make sure the lady is full pleased (without using a penis ring or any of that jank stuff)?
[A Side question: Does Masturbation Make you last a shorter time?]

Me and one of my lady friends were talking and this girl im about to be with has been with a few (which doesnt bother me anymore.) and she said that they were "freaks"..
What would you define "freaks" in bed as?
myself i do alot of porn style stuff which other would find crazy but all the girls in been with are breatheless afterwards so who knows.
So What would a Freak in bed be??

Thanks for all the help;
I just want to last along time (hour+) like i did when i first lost my virginity. (first 3x i lasted like.. 2hours?? with no stop in movements)

All Replys are accepted and please.. be mature.
~Josh.

[Boobies]

First of all a lot of women get bored of sex after like the first 30 minutes...
Secondly, you're better off doing more foreplay, it helps them a lot.
Thirdly, most women won't be fully satisfied by long periods of sex.

I can't say what a freak is though...

And fourthly, google is your friend

[Magic.]

I don't know of anything that can make you last longer apart from, as Keady said, lots of foreplay. Usually girls find it easier to orgasm after lots of foreplay as well ...
Time wise 30-40 is pretty good!! And I'm sure girls appreciate that you want to please them
As for a "freak" in bed, I'd say someone who has a lot of energy / tries a lot of positions etc as opposed to the standard positions ...
Again as Keady said, Google is your friend.

[Alicia.C]

Actually, if you masturnate 10 - 20 minutes before hand, you will most likely last longer in bed. Consider yourself lucky too. My husband, if he doesnt stop, lasts maybe 10 minutes on average.

Freak to me is cutting, candle wax, nipple clamps, etc etc...

[Algernon]

Originally Posted by 3.1415926535897

First of all a lot of women get bored of sex after like the first 30 minutes...
Secondly, you're better off doing more foreplay, it helps them a lot.
Thirdly, most women won't be fully satisfied by long periods of sex.

I can't say what a freak is though...

And fourthly, google is your friend

He's a smart 17 year old. We get bored!

Freak to me is bukkake. Things like... Does certain things with urine and feces.

Honestly the cutting and wax and such isn't freaky at all.

[Brandon]

Unfortunately, the goal isn't to last longer, but to help her reach climax in the shortest amount of time possible.

Like me and you, we have no problems lasting long. The problem is that lasting long isn't a guaranteed good thing. Potentially, lasting long can be a great thing, but women don't want to have sex with a dude who has no idea what they're doing and going for 30 minutes straight. If she's enjoying it, then 30 minutes is fine. However, if she's not (which is kind of hard to tell unless she's really just sitting there like a bump on a log), then your aim is to go as short as possible.

Foreplay is a huge factor for most women. The women I've slept with, most of them were sexually molested by family members (so their arousal is pretty much non-existent). If you increase the amount of foreplay and decrease the amount of actual sex, then that's where you need to be in the sex game.

[bitesize]

Lasting long isn't necessarily a good thing. Seriously. I was with a guy last year who took a long time and I used to get bored SENSELESS and sex would lose all its pelase for me and just feel like a chore, and it began to wreck my confidence that he wouldn't cum sooner. Try to focus more on pleasing her than lasting as long as you can.

[Gaia]

Lasting longer = friction burn. Basically, not so fun for us females. As stated previously if you're aim is to please her then get her going with a lot of foreplay.
As for the freak thing, it completely depends on the person's view. In my opinion a freak is someone who tends to get turned on by pain. And all other sexual adventures after that step

[flowerchild32273]

yea my bf lasts about 30-40 minutes and thats great for me. if youre worried about that not pleasing the girl id say try more foreplay. we love that ^_~. always good to have a guy thats eager to please. ask her what she likes also

[x-gothic-princess-x]

Answer one : My boyfriend use to have the same problem has you. We started masterbating each other before we actually had sex. But I would stop Wanking him before he came then redo it after. its takes some time to learn to hold back but it works within the end. Also dont bother stopping once you have came, keep going. this should continue to make you hard and you still get pleasure from it.
Side Comment - how ever long you last, your girlfriend or person or seeing at the moment will be pleased that you done it

Answer 2 - ive never heard the word freaks in bed before... umm sorry really cant help you on that one mate

[don'tstopbelievin]

Originally Posted by Brandon

Unfortunately, the goal isn't to last longer, but to help her reach climax in the shortest amount of time possible.

Like me and you, we have no problems lasting long. The problem is that lasting long isn't a guaranteed good thing. Potentially, lasting long can be a great thing, but women don't want to have sex with a dude who has no idea what they're doing and going for 30 minutes straight. If she's enjoying it, then 30 minutes is fine. However, if she's not (which is kind of hard to tell unless she's really just sitting there like a bump on a log), then your aim is to go as short as possible.

Foreplay is a huge factor for most women. The women I've slept with, most of them were sexually molested by family members (so their arousal is pretty much non-existent). If you increase the amount of foreplay and decrease the amount of actual sex, then that's where you need to be in the sex game.

Yeh I'm glad this guy picked up on the first point he made. Smart man haha. But seriously not to be too graphic but when I masturbate I can make myself orgasm in less than a minute. So if it takes a guy 30 minutes to make me orgasm.. you gotta imagine all I'm thinking is "I could do this so much better.." So yeah I think rather than being eager to learn how to last longer you should be keen on learning any way that you can match and please a partner.

But as for the second paragraph, I've never enjoyed foreplay. That's generally because no offence but so many guys don't know what the HELL they're doing. Sex is a lot more simple than foreplay imo and a guy is much more likely to pleasure me through sex than foreplay. So I'd advise that you pay real attention to how they respond to everything you do in bed.