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when did you lose it? - April 21st 2010, 12:17 PM

how old were you when you lost your virginity? i was 16, which i think is the average age..
   
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Re: when did you lose it? - April 21st 2010, 12:37 PM

I was 15, and I severely regret losing it that young. I would have liked to at least be 17.
   
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Re: when did you lose it? - April 21st 2010, 03:22 PM

Uh huh. It's average.

The most common age of first sex among those who choose to be sexually active in their teens is 15 1/2 for girls and 16 1/2 for boys according to a number of polls. For those who choose to remain inactive it is much later.


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Re: when did you lose it? - April 21st 2010, 03:41 PM

I had just turned 15
   
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Re: when did you lose it? - April 21st 2010, 04:07 PM

I was 14 when I lost it, I wish I could say I regret it but, I don't...Even though I am no longer with the person.


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Re: when did you lose it? - April 21st 2010, 06:15 PM

17 , and no regrets ...Tho i have no relationship anymore with that girl. xD


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Re: when did you lose it? - April 21st 2010, 06:27 PM

16.. i regret it but not because of the age


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Re: when did you lose it? - April 21st 2010, 07:13 PM

I was 15, 2/3 months before my 16th.
   
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Re: when did you lose it? - April 21st 2010, 11:57 PM

I was 17. Pretty sure that's about average for Ireland.


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Re: when did you lose it? - April 22nd 2010, 01:48 AM

i was 18 and 8 months. yay for being the oldest so far haha. i still regret it though but because of the situation and the person not the age


   
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Re: when did you lose it? - April 22nd 2010, 06:56 PM

i was 17. 3 months after my 17th bday about. wasn't in a relationship with the guy... still not in a relationship but still having sex with him lol. but no, i don't regret it and won't because i'll always know that it seemed right at the time and the guy is a decent one even if we arn't official
   
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Re: when did you lose it? - April 22nd 2010, 07:06 PM

My first time was 15, it asn't consentual.

So my proper first time was when I was 16 and a half with a guy I still speak to now.





   
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Re: when did you lose it? - April 22nd 2010, 09:49 PM

16, not consensual.

I might be losing my virginity this year, at 19, depending on whether or not I feel comfortable enough with it. As much as I love my boyfriend, and want him to be my first, there are some issues I need to sort through first. (:
   
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Re: when did you lose it? - April 22nd 2010, 09:53 PM

15 and a half, and I'd been with my boyfriend at time for 5 months. I don't have contact with him anymore because it ended badly, but that was my fault. He was lovely and we were happy so I don't regret it at all


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Re: when did you lose it? - April 22nd 2010, 11:14 PM

I was 16. No regrets. I was ready.
   
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Re: when did you lose it? - April 23rd 2010, 02:37 AM

still a virgin =/
   
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Re: when did you lose it? - April 23rd 2010, 02:59 AM

I'm 20 and still a virgin. No regrets so far.
   
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Re: when did you lose it? - April 23rd 2010, 01:03 PM

non- consentual: 9
consentual: 18 and 11 months


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Re: when did you lose it? - April 23rd 2010, 03:06 PM

I was 13.. and yes. I do regret it. :/


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Re: when did you lose it? - April 24th 2010, 11:32 AM

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Re: when did you lose it? - April 24th 2010, 10:21 PM

14 , to a 16 year old girl. Damn I'm good.
   
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Re: when did you lose it? - April 24th 2010, 11:12 PM

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Re: when did you lose it? - April 24th 2010, 11:39 PM

somewhere around 13/14. to a boy. he had a Malibu with a spoiler and that GOD awful jersey shore haircut.


he was such a douche.
   
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Re: when did you lose it? - April 25th 2010, 06:20 AM

Just recently, to my girlfriend.


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Re: when did you lose it? - April 25th 2010, 02:38 PM

I think everything under 18 is too early. I lost mine about 2-3 months before my 19th bday (September or October of 2008)
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Re: when did you lose it? - April 25th 2010, 05:49 PM

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i disagree, but i guess in a couple of years i'll probably be saying the same.
i felt ready being 17, although any younger than that i think is too early. it just doesnt seem right there being 14 year olds having sex... even 15 and 16 seems pretty young; i guess they just seem so much younger now that i'm older!
   
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Re: when did you lose it? - April 25th 2010, 06:06 PM

I was 15 when I chose to have sex with my then-boyfriend

I'd been forced to have sex before though, but I'm choosing not to count that, I'd rather say I saved myself for someone I really liked. Which I think I did
   
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Re: when did you lose it? - April 25th 2010, 07:30 PM

I lost it a week before my sophmore school year started. I don't really regret it.. I mean the boyfriend at the time loved me and we decided we wanted to. didn't hurt or nothing.. and it seemed like nothing really was different. we did it 5 times throughout our 5 month relationship.. My recent boyfriend and i have sex and its so different than it was with my ex. i don't regret losing it at 15 at all. It was fun and i don't regret it one bit.


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Re: when did you lose it? - April 25th 2010, 08:46 PM

I was 17, but only a month away from turning 18. I have no regrets, and I married him a year later.


   
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Re: when did you lose it? - April 27th 2010, 11:03 AM

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do you regret losing it so young?
   
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Re: when did you lose it? - April 27th 2010, 12:35 PM

I was 18 and six or seven months. I don't regret it at all. I'm still with the guy and am crazy about him, but even if things between us were to end I doubt I'd end up regretting it, I love him and loved him like crazy then and it was wonderful to be that close to someone that special to me. I have no regrets with waiting either, in high school I knew I wasn't ready so I waited.
   
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Re: when did you lose it? - April 28th 2010, 05:51 AM

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Re: when did you lose it? - April 28th 2010, 10:01 PM

I had just been turning 21 so I was almost 21 years old when I lost it, it was with a boyfriend who I was dating for a year and I wanted my first time to be special and it was, but I wish I hadn't cause he turned out to be a total twat.
   
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Re: when did you lose it? - April 29th 2010, 12:18 AM

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Re: when did you lose it? - April 29th 2010, 12:53 AM

Im still a virgin at 15 and plan to save myself for marriage thank you )
   
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