masturbation

[cherryqueen1248]

this is not only crazy but embarassing but Im desperate. I read online you should start to masturbate with something small like a tube of lip gloss and that really got me going. but after a while it went away, and I figured I needed something bigger. I've tried the end of a hair brush but there is this pain that I cant even get it in because its soo painful. I know theres a pain when its your first time because of some tissue that rips, but I would have thought that went with the lip gloss tube. with my period i only use pads because tamponds also have this pain and it hurts to have them in.
so my question for all you readers is-- do I suck it up and get through the pain once and for all? or is there something wrong I should have checked out?
anyone and everyone is more more more than welcome to PLEASE respond!

[AmberS9109]

Do not do anything that you're not comfortable with. If it hurts too much right now, just leave it alone for a while. Try it in a few months, or several months down the road. Maybe try with your fingers. That's how I got comfortable with masturbation.

[TheLittleNinja]

Hey - I agree with Amber... Just work your way up to whatever your comfortable with.
The Hymen - which is that layer of tissue you were talking about wont always break through masturbation or by inserting tampons - it simply stretches.

Remember that everything is often a lot less painful when you are REALLY aroused, relaxed, and wet

[LittleFish]

Also be careful with anything you put in there. If it has any jagged or sharp edges at all, don't use it. You're safer using your fingers.

[WillO'Wisp]

Lipgloss? Wtf? Don't use lipglosses or brushes or anything strange like that, especially if it hurts. More importantly, don't do it if you yourself don't want to on your own, and you don't feel completely comfortable with it. You decide when you want to do it or if you want to do it, not because of what other people are saying or what other people think you should do.

[darkinnocenteyes]

Make sure everything is very clean as well... u dont want infections ect. but u prolly already knew that. haha...

i can't really give you advice on wat to use tho cuz i dont masterbate that way

[falling_x]

I'm just gonna echo what everyone else has said!

Don't do it if it hurts! Don't use anything with jagged edges. Start by using your fingers.

On another note - if your not relaxed then it just won't happen! You could try it in the bath for instance :P

[The Kira]

After reading your post, i get the feeling that you feel obligated to mastrubate... Wth? Mastrubation is supposed to bring pleasure, not pain and you dont have to "suck it up".
I could be wrong, but from your post i somehow figured you are a virgin. If you are, please dont stick a hirbrush up your vagina. You could hur yourself. If you want to mastrubate, do it some way that feels good. Not to hurt yourself by trying to shove a hairbrush up your vagina.

[Allons-y!]

Fingers. Just use your fingers.

[September skys]

If it hurts, dont shove it up there Oo masturbating isnt somthing were you 'suck it up' and jab random items up yourself cause you read it online. your gona get hurt like that.

[yumico.m]

It's better to use your finger.... Masturbation should not make you uncomfortable...
Relax....

[ChelseaKicker]

yeah i would say relax. mabey get more aroused, get wet cause that will lossen it up. or try a different type of masterbation. there r many forms. pm me if u want to talk or have q's i might b able to help