5 very stupid questions

[Delivery]

1. Is it possible for a guy to cum into a girl while the girl cums at the same time?

2. What would be a good outdoor place to have sex late at night away from the public eye?

3. Is it possible to be good at sex the very first time after practicing solo?

4. How would a person who fears germs have sex?

5. Does protected sex feel just as good as unprotected sex?


I feel embarrassed for asking these questions because I'm 23 and never had sex in my life...

[rebeccajane]

Originally Posted by Delivery

1. Is it possible for a guy to cum into a girl while the girl cums at the same time?

yes.

2. What would be a good outdoor place to have sex late at night away from the public eye?

dont know. not the best idea, lol.

3. Is it possible to be good at sex the very first time after practicing solo?

yes.

4. How would a person who fears germs have sex?

shower after. or not do it at all.

5. Does protected sex feel just as good as unprotected sex?

no way. unprotected feels great, protected.. cant feel anything. lol.


I feel embarrassed for asking these questions because I'm 23 and never had sex in my life...

hope that helps. dont be ashamed of being a virgin.

[bitesize]

1. Is it possible for a guy to cum into a girl while the girl cums at the same time?
It's possible, but it happens very rarely... people think simultaneous orgasms are easier to acheive than they are. In fact a lot of women don't even orgasm from penetrative sex at all. I wouldn't stress about it though, just relax and enjoy.

2. What would be a good outdoor place to have sex late at night away from the public eye?
Well I can't really advise you on that too well as I don't know your area but recently my boyfriend and I have been forced to stick to the outdoors for our innappropriate activites, and we'll usually make sure it's somewhere that's away from street lights or traffic or innocent dog walkers. Parks and fields, cliche as they sound, are good, although you have to be careful about going to deserted places at night, obviously. If you have a car it might make things easier ~ you can just drive soemwhere secluded.

3. Is it possible to be good at sex the very first time after practicing solo?
Not really, although to be honest it's hard to be really bad at sex, unless you're selfish or inconsiderate about it. Porn can be very educational But if someone knows it's your first time they're probably not going to be too judgemental. In saying that, I've had sex with two people who hadn't done it before and to be honest there's not a huge difference

4. How would a person who fears germs have sex?
I really don't know, because I've never been in that situation. You just ahve to remember that there's nothing germy about sex, although obviously it's important to protect from STI's. As long as both of you are showered beforehand and stuff it might feel a little better. It's always going to be a little sweaty. :/

5. Does protected sex feel just as good as unprotected sex?
Honestly, no. If you're referring to condoms, I mean. Nothing feels quite like the closeness you get from skin-on-skin. But it still feels good with condoms. And there's loads of different types you can get ~ extra thin and ribbed, etc

Oh and I just read your last bit there, but please don't feel embarrassed...that's what TH is for. Everyone's going to have questions about the first time, no matter what age they are. Good luck though (:

[taylalatbh.]

Don't be embarrassed about being a virgin a 23. Just wait until you feel ready and have found the right person.

1. Is it possible for a guy to cum into a girl while the girl cums at the same time?
I would think it's entirely possible, just not so common. It's possible for both parties to orgasm at the same time, but sometimes it's just difficult for both people to reach that at the same time as each other. But I'm sure it could be perfected if both people practise.

2. What would be a good outdoor place to have sex late at night away from the public eye?
It's probably not the best idea to have sex outdoors, but some people really enjoy it and get a kick out of it. It depends on your area and what sort of places you have available. A park at night, in someones car, just a place where not a lot of people go. You just need to find a place in your area which would be empty.

3. Is it possible to be good at sex the very first time after practicing solo?
I don't think anyone was brilliant at sex on their first go. It's usually over quickly and it can be a bit disappointing for some. But the only way to be good at sex, is to practice by having sex. You can't practice masturbating, then be good at sex, because they are different things. Don't worry about not being so great your first time, because, like everyone, you just get better after practice.

4. How would a person who fears germs have sex?
Having sex isn't really a 'germy' process. Both parties release their own fluids to help with sex, but you'd be used to yours from masturbation, and hers wouldn't be that bad. If you use a condom (which you should!) you would 'protect' yourself from being touched from her fluids. But it's really not something to worry about, if you don't feel okay after, you could always wash.

5. Does protected sex feel just as good as unprotected sex?
Sex without a condom does feel better, but with a condom isn't bad. Not to mention its a lot safer. Like mentioned above, there are different types of condoms to make sex feel different, but as long as you're protected in atleast one way, you're fine.

[MacGuffin]

First of all, don't ever call your questions stupid; they aren't.

1) Yes, silumtaneous orgasm is possible, but it doesn't happen very often; books and movies make it seem like it happens a lot more than it does, even that it is to be expected. It's difficult for the climax of two people to line up perfectly, but when it does, it is very intense and hot to experience.

2) It's best to do this in an area you know pretty well, so that you know whether or not anyone is likely to be around and you won't get lost. Like someone said, try to get away from bright lights (that includes a very bright moon), busy streets, and innocent passersby. Parks and fields are good, as are secluded parking lots (but make sure you wont get nailed for trespassing; cops sometimes check on those things if they come by). Behind certain buildings can be good. Just be creative and careful.

3) No. Sex is something takes practice. No one is good at it when they first do it. It's a skill you have to learn.

4) Well, sex isn't really anything dirty (and fyi, this is a certified germophobe saying this to you). It's just body fluids, and those aren't "germy." It's not going to harm you if you get sexual fluids on or in you, assuming the other person doesn't have an STD and you are using protection. If it really squicks you out, you can wash your hands and shower after and you will be fine. Using protection might help you feel better, too. But honestly, there is really nothing whatsoever that is dirty about sex. The only kind of sex you do have to worry about being dirty is anal, and that takes some extra precautions, which I would be happy to expand upon if you are curious about it.

5) Protected sex does not feel as good as unprotected sex. Maybe it is because I know there is a condom there, maybe it is the condom itsself; regardless, it feels rougher on my vagina, and I get worn out more quickly from the friction with a condom than I do with skin on skin. However, while not as fun, it is necessary. You can still come while using protection, so it isn't like it is completely terrible.

[Delivery]

Thanks for all the answers.

I notice when a girl squirts in a porno scene, the guy takes out his dick instead of cumming inside her. Would it be possible for a guy to notice her squirting and then decide to release himself? Or maybe the girl can warn the guy that she's about to squirt?

How can sex not be dirty? The girl's ass can still sit on top of the the guy while he's penetrating her vagina, and that's not anal sex. Both asses also touch the bedsheets or whatever the sex is on. The sex partners move around on it and the germs come in contact with the skin. I'm interested in knowing the extra precautions in anal sex though.

What if both sex partners took STD tests before sex? All that would be needed is birth control and no condom, right?

[taylalatbh.]

I notice when a girl squirts in a porno scene, the guy takes out his dick instead of cumming inside her. Would it be possible for a guy to notice her squirting and then decide to release himself? Or maybe the girl can warn the guy that she's about to squirt?

Squirting is not necessarily a 'every time' thing in sex. It's there a lot in porn, but not every real woman can do it. But technically, I don't think the guy could ejaculate inside her when she is 'squirting'. Because it appears to be so forceful, so I don't see how he could stay within her to ejaculate. The girl could warn the guy, but it all depends on the situation.

How can sex not be dirty? The girl's ass can still sit on top of the the guy while he's penetrating her vagina, and that's not anal sex. Both asses also touch the bedsheets or whatever the sex is on. The sex partners move around on it and the germs come in contact with the skin. I'm interested in knowing the extra precautions in anal sex though.

Both people may have their behinds out, but they're not like, rubbing anything dirty anywhere. There's nothing wrong with a bare behind touching anything, that's not dirty at all. But if the person themself isn't 'clean', then it might be dirty. But that's down to the specific person and their cleanliness. Both being naked in the bed, whether you're having sex or not, isn't dirty. Like I said, unless the person is personally unclean, then you should have no problems.

Anal sex, to me, does seem a bit 'dirty'. But that's just my personal opinion on it, and I would never partake it in. But others do. Condoms should still be used when having anal sex, and I think you can get thicker condoms especially. There's no extra precautions. It's just a condom.

What if both sex partners took STD tests before sex? All that would be needed is birth control and no condom, right?

If both partners were safe from STD's, and you fully trust each other, then it's okay. If the girl is taking the birth control correctly then you can have sex without a condom. But if you're cautious about it, then use a condom as well. Because two forms of protection are better than one. And if one fails, you have a back up.

I hope I helped, take care!

[Delivery]

Originally Posted by taylalatbh.

Squirting is not necessarily a 'every time' thing in sex. It's there a lot in porn, but not every real woman can do it. But technically, I don't think the guy could ejaculate inside her when she is 'squirting'. Because it appears to be so forceful, so I don't see how he could stay within her to ejaculate. The girl could warn the guy, but it all depends on the situation.

Maybe I don't have the right orgasm, but I try to control when I cum while I jack off. It's probably very different in real sex though.

Both people may have their behinds out, but they're not like, rubbing anything dirty anywhere. There's nothing wrong with a bare behind touching anything, that's not dirty at all. But if the person themself isn't 'clean', then it might be dirty. But that's down to the specific person and their cleanliness. Both being naked in the bed, whether you're having sex or not, isn't dirty. Like I said, unless the person is personally unclean, then you should have no problems.

That's where the fecal germs come from. Even if a person showers, it's not like the person will try to rub any soap in there, as inappropriate as it sounds.

[taylalatbh.]

I'm not a guy, but I think you can control when you ejaculate when you masturbate. But I think sex is a lot different. It has a lot more emotions, and a different feeling, and you might not be able to control it then. But it's something you learn over time.

But it can't be that bad, because you go every day, and shower, and you're still fine with the cleanliness. And it can't be that bad because for god knows how many years, we've all survived with the germs and all. Sex is a bit messy with the bodily fluids that are created, but if you don't do any anal play, then you have no problems with anal germs really. Like I said, as long as your partner is generally a clean person, it shouldn't be so bad. You can't put yourself off sex just because of this.

Take care

[jellyfish]

1. Is it possible for a guy to cum into a girl while the girl cums at the same time?
Yes! Great feeling

2. What would be a good outdoor place to have sex late at night away from the public eye?
Forest, under a bridge, in the car lol anywhere where you are brave enough to go!

3. Is it possible to be good at sex the very first time after practicing solo?
I think if you watch enough porn then yes! lol, by watching porn it shows you how to do it... lol

4. How would a person who fears germs have sex?
Use all the protection available? Do it in the shower?

5. Does protected sex feel just as good as unprotected sex?
No! Theres a massive difference!

[SatelliteHeart♥]

1. Is it possible for a guy to cum into a girl while the girl cums at the same time? yeah i guess..

2. What would be a good outdoor place to have sex late at night away from the public eye? away from everywhere, countryside somewhere in a grassy field, but it would be uncomfy :L

3. Is it possible to be good at sex the very first time after practicing solo?
erm probably not everything takes practice

4. How would a person who fears germs have sex?
sex isnt a germy thing tbh.

5. Does protected sex feel just as good as unprotected sex?
i wouldnt say yes for the boy, the girl wouldnt feel any difference.

[WillO'Wisp]

1. Is it possible for a guy to cum into a girl while the girl cums at the same time?
Yes, by coincidence it can happen but girls usually don't cum while having sex. I never have.

2. What would be a good outdoor place to have sex late at night away from the public eye?
I wouldn't suggest an alley or a park because people can still pass making it not so private, so I would suggest a place blocked off by alot of trees and bushes where nobody can see you there, any sort of places like that.

3. Is it possible to be good at sex the very first time after practicing solo?
Practicing solo doesn't masquerade towards practicing for actual sexual intercourse. Only by doing the deed itself, actually having sex, can you improve and become adjusted to it.

4. How would a person who fears germs have sex?
You clean yourself off in a shower and maybe use hand sanitizer if you're that parranoid, but you have nothing to be afraid of, use a condom and you should be fine.

5. Does protected sex feel just as good as unprotected sex?
I can't answer that, never really had unprotected sex, but I know with a condom it can feel a bit uncomfortable.


I feel embarrassed for asking these questions because I'm 23 and never had sex in my life...
It's good you've never had sex, and it's perfectly normal to be curious. I know before I had sex I was curious about these things also, and exploring sexual things was kind of exciting yet kind of dissapointing in equal measure.
Hope this helped.